I have been through EVERYTHING. I literally mean it. feel free to ask me anything, and ill tell it like it is. I dont usually answer questions if i dont believe i can give 100% useful advice. :) im proud to be a member and im so proud of all the other users who signed up to help people, and for those who took the brave step of getting help.
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Location: Born and raised in Canada - background: Pakistani
Age: 18
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what is a dirty sanchez or something like that??
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omg this one kid that said that too, i just dont know what it is, i know its something dirty, like a dirty vagina.
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this is weird but what does getting took mean???? cuz lk i no what head means bt whats took? i no its wierd... (link)
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do u mean toke?
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14/f 8th grade. Here latley I've been really depressed because almost everyone in my grade has been out with someone and has had a bf or gf. I haven't. And I've been noticing that whenever I watch a movie or something and a couple has a sweet little kiss or something, it just kinda bums me out because i always dream of having a cute, hot, sweet, nice boyfriend and here latley i've been dreaming of that first kiss. and it makes me really depressed. i mean, what if i never meet that one special person to be in high school with, and what if i never find someone that i will marry and have a family with. this all just makes me really depressed. i mean, obviously no one likes me because no one has ever asked me out or anything, well, at least no one i like. haha. anyways, what can i do to get over this? i know that i'm not even in high school yet, but what if i don't ever find anyone?! this is making me soo sad. help!!!!!! thank ya much!!! (link)
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dont worrrrry, seriously, when i was your age i was in the same position. but then i thought, when im older and do find that special someone a piece of you is also gone. you know what i mean? like your innocence of still not experiencing the first kiss is gone. its like this, dont try to grow up so fast its not worth it. PLUS you have PLENTYYYYYYYYYY of time to meet someone. Also, when you get into highschool you will meet TONS & TONS of people that have the same likes/dislikes as you and you will blend right in and find someone. As for finding someone to find start a family with is WAY FAR FAR into the future. you have an amazing amount of time from now until then so spend each day (like i ALWAYS say) " counting your blessings, and not your problems " =) just give yourself some time. maybe deep down inside your not ready and the only reason you think you are is because everyone else around you has already experienced it. Plus dont get so sad about it, also dont go out looking to find the person, if its meant to be theyll come to YOU. Let nature take its course and whatever happens, was meant to happen.
Take care, i hope i helped ya.
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I have really noticeable blackish upperlip hair because i have hormone problems with my ovaries. Its not bad to the point where it looks like a mustache. I just dont like seeing it and knowing its there. For months I used facial hair bleaching kit, but then I felt it looked more noticeable. So I bought a facial hair WAXING kit. A week later my hair grew back! I think the wax kit really doesn't work.. but i want to get it professionally done. How long will the professional waxing last for? I heard 8 weeks. I don't care if its longer than a month, but i don't want to have to go out so often for it tho, like every 2 weeks. Or do you think I should just keep bleaching it? Thanks in adviceeeeeeeeee. (link)
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NO DONT BLEACH. ITS THE GROSSEST THING A GIRL CAN DO!!!. GUYS HATEEEE IT. its like this, YOU know that you have hair there, but you still dont get rid of it. its nasty. THREAD. thread thread. everytime i answer hair removal questions i always say thread. or continue to wax it. the only thing with waxing is when your older your lip will wrinkle and will start to sag. (looks so nasty). and if you thread you might have to go every like 3-4 weeks depending on your body. go to any south asian salon if you want or just find a place that does it. (i think you should do your eyebrows with threading - you get an AMAZINGGGGGGGG shape) i thread my eyebrows as well as my upper lip. if you want i can send you a picture, just leave your email in my inbox or something. let me know what you decide =) good luckkkk
take care
Shorty
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How do I find out what kind of car this girl has? She told me the color, but she won't tell me the kind of car it is. She's being stubborn about it--so basically--how do I weasel something out of a girl? (link)
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act like you dont care anymore. dont give her any attention, then shell feel unwanted and tell you. =) simple as that. good luckkk finding out.
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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
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hmm well, i would say to go to new places and meet people. also go out and do something. for example go to the movies with friends or go to your local ymca. depending on your age, there are many things to do. if your a teen than go to a club. if u dont like the club scene then i suggest you hang out at the mall. If much older , than hang out at a lounge or pub. If you want to make new friends then strike up a casual conversation with someone over anything. find something in common. if your EXTREMELY bored get into family outings. take a road trip or plan a get-together with some people. hold a bbq or go skiing. there are amazing possiblities out there, you just have to find which one is right for you =) i hope any of these could be of help, and sorry this was kinda late, i was in some trouble this weekend. take care, and good luckk =).
shorcake
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ok, so i know that i love being called beautiful.
but do guys like being called handsome?
or does that sound, like, stupid?
sorry if its kinda a stupid question.
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heyy no its not a stupid question dont worry =) and im sure they love being called handsome even if they dont admit it. guys just love compliments all together just like us =D
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for my english class i have to read the book "the grave" by james heneghan. i have only read a couple chapters but it seems kind of childish. does it get any better? or should i find another book (link)
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i read this book and i loved it!! it gets better trust me, in my opinion. let me know how you like it okay? =)
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14/f
Sometimes I get so miserable i cry forever. I talk to myself about a bunch or stuff. Sometimes people do stuff that annoys me but on another day I wouldn't care. Its not "that time of month". I cry for no reason sometimes. I get mad or sad for no reason either. I've been crying a lot lately for no reason. Small things are making me cry like for example if my mom tells me my boyfriend cant come over i'll start bawling my eyes out. Im not sure what it is. When Im mad i throw things, scream, kick, anything i can to release my anger (not body abuse). Im not sure if im just a miserable girl or if it's something else. Does anyone have any ideas? And has anyone else expirenced this or is expierencing it now? Please help me...Oh and this has been going on since September...if that helps :\ (link)
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hey, i just went through the same thing. my life was literally hell and i was a huge bitch to everyone. i dealt with a lot of things that all happened at the same time and i went crazy. i used to cry myself to sleep every night (i sometimes still do), but then i realized...nothing stays the same. this is just a period of time in your life where you have to deal with on your own. well of course you can talk to someone but mentally its YOUR battle. i just realized that i spent so much time being angry and upset i missed out on so much stuff. like great things, and i took everything for granted. all i can say is, count your blessings and not your problems. think of something that truly makes you happy and smile. just sit down and thing "what am i doing? why am i so mad..."... it might help
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i recently put on 10 pounds and it went mostly to my but and my boobs. I want to work out my stomach butt i dont want to lose the weight on my butt and my boobs. how can i do this? (link)
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do situps, and RUN. you need aerobic exercise to lose pounds. situps only help you get abs. if you dont run and only do situps then you will get abs but they will be under all of that FAT. so, run or jog, and situps. If you want to tighten your butt ahah pedal backwards on a bike =)
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How do I get rid of upper lip hair?
If i wax it will it come back in faster and dark? so gross right? (link)
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yeah sure ill send u a picture =) this is shortcake90 by the way, my answer had to do with threading remember? do u have an email where i could send it to? =) let me know.
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what is a prick? when someone said oh, hes such a prick.. what does it mean? (link)
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=prick and your set =) ahah i hope you get what your looking for.
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ok so like every other story theres this bot and well i THINK i like him. he is my best guy friend tho and sometimes its hard to see him a more then just a friend but we flirt alot and he does these clusty embarressing things that r really cute and i feel so comferbal around him its like even the embarressing things just feel fine. some of my friends think he likes me but i just dont maybe its because im afarid of losing and amazing friend. so many people thought we were going out and we couldnt figure out why but one of my frieds told me we hang out and act like a couple! im so confused sometimes it feels like we are a couple and sometimes were just friends. im afriad if i tell him and he doesnt feel the same are friendship might be weird and odd please help me should i tell him or wat exactly should i do? please HELP!!!
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omg im going through the EXACTTTTT same thing. like EXACT. andddd i also asked the same type a question yesturday aahah, but yaa i say follow the other peoples advice, i just dont wanna repeat it. GOOD LUCKk =) keep me posted.
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Do any of you have realyl good strategies to keeping calm? I get mad a lot and when I get ultimately mad I can't take it anymore and just burst out crying! (link)
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omg i have the same thing. personally i would say just burst if you get mad ahah. like screammmmmmmmmmmmmmmm but that woudlnt solve anything now would it? i usually hold it in..then i go and take a nice hot bath and cry my eyes out. oh i just read your additional info, well then i guess tell the person theyre pissing you off. OR if you dont want them to know your mad, just ignore them for a while and sing one of your favourite songs in your head. ORrr you could also "think happy thoughts"..or you could change the subject and talk about something less annoying. trust mee, i have anger problems too and i burst ALL the time, over little things, i hope any of these helped.
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does anyone know where i can find like ALOT of pictures of jt from season one of degrassi? (link)
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GOOGLE it up. =) here ill help...
http://images.google.ca/images?svnum=10&hl=en&q=JT+degrassi+the+next+generation
lemme know how it works out eh?
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im a senior in high school and i have been straightening my hair since 6th grade. my hair doesnt have splitends but i can feel dried up pieces of hair sometimes like it burned. is there any kind of product like shampoo or conditioners i can use to help my hair? i remember seeing one on tv and its supose to like "take back time" from damaged hair. thanks!! (link)
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dammit, i have the same problem ! and i also asked a similar question like this. dont you just HATE dry hair. GOD. ahah well im going to start trying sunsilk soon. i have been using herbal essences hello hydration and it seems to work (light blue bottle) so.. try that. oh and go to www.gethairapy.com you can get free samples. wicked eh?
good luck ahah hope i could be of some help love.
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i have a lot of hiar on my arms
i want to make it less noticable
is it bad to wax,shave, nair it?
should i just bleach it or forget about it?
any suggestions or comments,
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you can also just cream it. ahah my skin is SO soft, and ive been doing it for a while now. but waxing is good too. good luckkk...
ps. unwanted hair sucks.
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How do you give a hickey,like what do you and how long do you do it for to get the hickey to show?
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you suck really hard (as u know by now) onto her skin until it changes colour. personally i love them ahaha they feel good =) i remember once i got a heart shaped one on my neck, it was pretty wicked. good luck with it mann.
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17/f.
So one of my best best guy friends and I had sex last month, (my first time) and ever since then he and I have been acting the same-platonic. we hang out all the time and I talk to him at least once a day. We're really good friends and I love spending time with him. But ever since we slept together we haven't even mentioned it. We kind of avoid the subject.
Here's my problem; I really want to be friends with benefits with him and have sex again. So how can I kind of hint to him that I'm "in need of attention" or something without seeming like all I want is sex? I'm almost ready to just attack him! lol. Please help. Thanks in advance! (link)
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ahah alright well, kind of start the conversation about it somehow without making it totally obvious. like . . bring up "sex" in a conversation (not necessarily about how you guys did the dirty) but about anyone, and then kind of push the conversation toward you too... and then talk about how much fun it was and stuff and kind of lead into it you know what i mean? if you guys are such good friends it'll be really easy for you guys to talk about it.
hope you get laid. haha =P
shorty =)
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i went to the dermatoligist a month ago for acne. they gave me a pill, facewash, and 2 creams.
all of that has done nothing but make my skin worse! i'm losing hope! i have no confidence, i want to be isolated forever. what is there left to do? besides accutane? is there hope for me? help!
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OMGg, first of all...get the prescribed cream differin and out it on every night. THEN wash your face in the morning with cetaphil. its amazing. =) good luck
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