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miserable and soo confused
14/f
Sometimes I get so miserable i cry forever. I talk to myself about a bunch or stuff. Sometimes people do stuff that annoys me but on another day I wouldn't care. Its not "that time of month". I cry for no reason sometimes. I get mad or sad for no reason either. I've been crying a lot lately for no reason. Small things are making me cry like for example if my mom tells me my boyfriend cant come over i'll start bawling my eyes out. Im not sure what it is. When Im mad i throw things, scream, kick, anything i can to release my anger (not body abuse). Im not sure if im just a miserable girl or if it's something else. Does anyone have any ideas? And has anyone else expirenced this or is expierencing it now? Please help me...Oh and this has been going on since September...if that helps :\
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have you ever been hurt or touched by anyone? i was 11 and i was emotionally and mentally abused by my dad. its when they make fun of you. if you have these problems, there are hotlines out there you can go to and talk to. you could tell me. i wont tell. you should get a therapist or a counsellour. hope it helped
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i do the same thing.
i am a bitch too.
i even broke my car door from slamming it after i couldn't get something i wanted, actually i dont even remember what was wrong.
and my friends will try to tell me something and i am just like i really dont care.
i go through phases, and fortunatly my friends just leave me alone.
and absolutly nothing is wrong.
i cry over EVERYTHING.
so it's all good and you will get through it.
just try to do things you like and try to forget about it.
and i sleep a lot to forget about it.
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You're not the only person to experience this b/c I have. Once when I was thirteen, which continued to my early fourteen. I don't know what to say. All I know is that "that" particular period of my life wasn't good, I was weak from all of the things going on in my life. It was justlike a burden and w/ this burden I always had anger to bear. Until one day I sat down and I decided that I wanted to make something else of my life more than anger. It seemed like everyday was a bad day for me. I decided to make slow, minor adjustments to my life. To do what made me happy, but didn't hurt anyone else in the process. With each case, contributing circumstances vary. However, I truly do think that this may be an issue that's bothering you. Perhaps issues, and whatever it is you need to dig deep and find them. Work through them. Motivation is the key. Find that motivation it can be your boyfriend, your goals/dreams whatever. Just find it, use it, if you're not satisfied w/ the state that you're in at the moment. I hope I was some help. Good day to you.
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hey, i just went through the same thing. my life was literally hell and i was a huge bitch to everyone. i dealt with a lot of things that all happened at the same time and i went crazy. i used to cry myself to sleep every night (i sometimes still do), but then i realized...nothing stays the same. this is just a period of time in your life where you have to deal with on your own. well of course you can talk to someone but mentally its YOUR battle. i just realized that i spent so much time being angry and upset i missed out on so much stuff. like great things, and i took everything for granted. all i can say is, count your blessings and not your problems. think of something that truly makes you happy and smile. just sit down and thing "what am i doing? why am i so mad..."... it might help
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Im going through that RIGHT NOW! People tell me different things n i wish that SOMEONE would make the record straight. Some people tell me its bi-polor and some people tell me its harmones. It doesnt happen to me all the time but when it does i feel VERY depressed. I know excatly how you feel. Really, to get my anger out i cry like hell. When im mad i break things and stuff. I know i shouldnt do that but i dont even know how to control my anger. I seriously think that its just harmones and our harmones are going Krazy right now. I get REALLY pissed off from it too. Sorry, even though i didnt really give you advice i still told you my story. Keep me updated on whatever happens:-)
Take care and God Bless
-Krazy
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At age 14 you're in the middle of puberty. It's just hormones flying. You're fine, just going through a stage. I went through the same thing. Its compketely normal.
--natalie
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