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ok i have covergirl foundation stuff and it comes off throughout the day... like i look in the mirror in the moringin and i look good but after a few hours at school it all comes off and i look really tired! does anyone know any good foundations that stay on? thanx!
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During the day at school; Ask to go to the bathroom and re-aply the makeup on there.

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what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out?

When a guy gets an erectioin its called a boner. Most people call it that. Yes they can get it from making out Usually they do. Yes it is noticable you can notice it if you look around his dick area. Hope I helped

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Is it normal to shave a little bit below your belly button and bit above.. cuz i got the little hairs but they bother me

Its perfectly normal you have hair EVERYWHERE on your body there nothen you can do about it

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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice?

Just say mom i need pads or tampons...just i guess suprise her like that..or you can just come out and tell her " Mom THe other day i started my period" hope i helped

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well im going out with this guy my 2 friends dont like....but i really like him and they want me 2 dump him but i really dont want to....but i dont wanna lose muh friends but i dont wanna lose muh boy....what should i do

well thats kind of like my life..but i really aint doing anything about it. What i should do is...DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM if u really do like him and you think he's worth it. Just tell your friends your sorry but they have to deal with you liking him, maybe if they start to like him you's can all hang out. Hope i helped

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Alright..I've lost a good amount of weight...but I still have a huge butt and thighs...and I'm pretty freaking skinny everywhere else...how do I get them smaller...any good toning exercises anyone knows of?

Hey (howd you loose weight im interested email me)
for your thighs join some sports if you want have fun and loose some leg weight...or get tapes for work out video session's hope i helped

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how do u hit a golf ball straight?

Watch some movies or shows about golfing. AiM

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how do i help my bf be more confident about making a sports team?

Well you can just pratice with him maybe? Or have a good friend pratice with him and make him look really good. Or tell him he should trust you your his girlfriend!

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well me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and well it took 4 months for me to kiss him and well thats all ive ever done with anyone...well now hes kinda wanting more and is testing his limits and well i know its normal for guys to try that but i dont know...im only 14 is it normal for 14 year olds to do stuff like that? see my boyfriend has always gottin some from everyone hes been with accept me, but i kinda know that he cares for me b/c he waited so long and well if i do get up the nerve to do it once, will i have to do it alot? is he going to expect that more? should i do it? any advise?

IF your 14 its perfectly normal to do more then just a kiss. If it's just like a peck kiss then makeout with him. Let him feel you up a little if thats what you want. Also if your ready give him a hj? Hope i helped!!
x3 spiCy xo hoTt

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i dont want to sound stupid when i say this but im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together over a year now and well i havnt done anything besides kiss him, see ive never done anything with anyone and well lets just say i have what usto be a "sex god" for a bf until he got with me. I want to do somthing like give him a hand job or blow job because as much as he tells me he doesnt mind i know he does. im just wondering... how? i mean what do you do while your giving and hand job? what do you look at? how do you do it? i dont wanna totaly suck at it and i wanna know what im doing before i try it!! please anything? any tips? advise? anything?

Well everytime i give my boyfriend a handjob..were laying on his bed with either the tv on or the radio so it aint completely quiet..then u just go up and down start off slow be gentle..and then go a little faster..and just look at him if you want..tell him how much you love him and kiss him..and if your worried about if hes going to bust..you'll be able to know when he will because you can feel like their legs moving and you can just tell believe me. Hope I helped.

spiCy xo hoTt

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i am only twelve and me and my boyfriend have been goin out for about 6 months nd i really love him and i want to have sex with him.. any advice?

well your only twelve? I know a girl who just turned 13 the first time she had sex. Well if you seriously think you ready go for it!! USE PROTECTiON!!! im me and tell me how things work out..(sftball swtie130)
hope i helped

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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything?

I think you should definitly let him do it.Your old enough.No it doesn't hurt, but if he popped your cherry it would. Dont let him go in so far..but it feels good.

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the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?

French kissing is just with tounge.
Making out is when you feel eachother*like if he touched your boob*

xo spiCy xo hoTt

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ok heres the deal its close to valentines day and i dont no wat to get my girlfriend(we started going out on friday the 13th the day before valentines day)so since its also our 1 year anniversery i dont have a clue wat to get her

Well for Valentines day its the sweetest day of the year!!!! For you and your gf esp. A necklace and some chocolate or flowers would be so cute. OR A TEDDY BeAR a cute teddy bear awh any girl would LOVE it!

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ok well for new years i was out of town and so was my b/f so we couldnt even talk on the phone, i was in a RV park in palm dessert and i was at the rec. center in the resort and this guy(lets call him Bill) came in and asked if he could play pool with me and i siad yeah, this was a day befor new years eve. im a BIG flirt and i dont relize when im flirting, and the next day i went to the rec center to meet up with Bill and later that night we were tired out from playin B-Ball so we were sittin together on the couch well when the new year came he kissed me and i kissed him back, and i shouldnt of i know now im really guilty becuz im not the kind of girl who cheats on her b/f,and ill never see Bill agian but i still feel guilty what im asking is should i feel really guilty for this? should i tell my b/f? or try to forget the whole thing?HELP!

Well really relationship is built on TRUST. Thats all you's can do is trust eachother maybe you never know he kissed someone too! The best thing is to tell him, but you's might have to break up unless you tell him it meant nothing! And if he will trust you believe me tho, he'll never let it go. He'll probably be jealous and bring it up everytime hes wrong.
Hope i helped..
x3 spiCy xo hoTt

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well, one day i looked in the mirror and saw my reflection and i thought i loooked like a whale! I wanted to fucken disappear..im so self conscious. and i all of a sudden started eating then throwing it up, i mean today i ate popcorn then went to wash my hands and i saw myself..and i just hated it so i threw up in the toilet like i made myself throw up! and i dont know whats wrong with me..does that mean i have an eating disorder?

p.s ive tried it before...

D0NT KEEP THROWING UP!! its the worst thing you can ever do to your self. Its called anarexia. Its when after every meal you make yourself vomit. You can ruin your self for years may even die if you keep it up.

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o0ok.. my best friend well she claims we are best friends and i love her to death. but she is aloud to have more friends but if i go hang out with anyother friend she like gets upset with me n im like o0ok how n the heck is this fair. so if you could help me that would be wonderful ik so confused n have no idea what to do.

thanks
Megan

wow me and my best friend use to be like that a while ago!! I was controlled by them and it wasnt happenning. What happened between me and her was we werent friends for a year!!!(there was 3 of us) i went my own way had way more friends then them and them 2 only had eachother. Then after a year the one friend came back to me because she noticed the other one was not allowing her to hang out with who she wanted so then a year actually helped. Maybe you's should spend less time together and take like a'break' for a little bit untill she gets it that you have more friends.

x3 spiCy xo hoTt

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Well, I shop a lot at Abercrombie. And some of my friends aren't allowed to shop there. They'd be like 'Oh cute shirt, where'd you get it?' and then I would be like 'Abercrombie' and then they'd tell me that they weren't allowed to shop there. I don't see what's wrong with the place and shopping there. Can anyone tell me what's wrong or are my friends just being too closed minded?? Thanks and I rate.

Well if they cant shop there their either against being "preppy" or Abercromie is a VERY exspensive store, they might not be that much in money to afford the things you can or some things at that store. Or their mothers might think that their clothes are like slutty or something. Hope i helped

x3 spiCy xo hoTt

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Hey does anyone know how to get rid of viruses that replicate everytime you destroy it?? should i just get a new PC or wat??

Well as soon as you get on your computer you can get something thats called "END IT ALL" search for it under google or something but that ends everything you dont want on..as you first get on your computer. Then you can get something called "PESTPOTROL" that searches through all your files and gets rid of every virus you got. If your computers still messed up your going to have to start ALL over and delete everything and restore everything. hope i helped
x3 spiCy xo hoTt

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My mom was an alcoholic, everyday she would drink. DUring christmas even more, just because she hated using all of her money and was afraid we'd be moneyless after christmas. On 12/23 I came home from school, all happy because it was the last day and now I have a 2 week vacation, and I came home to my mom being drunker then hell! I was sick of it and I went upstairs because I didn't want to talk to her. About 2 hours later my dad got home and yelled me from upstairs ( I was sleeping ) .. he said that we had to go to the hospital because my mother had passed out.. she had overdosed on anti-depression pills and was drinking ALOT of alcohol at the same time. when we got to the hospital we waited about 30 minutes and they came out and told me my mom was dead. I can't stop thinking that this is all my fault, like if I would've stayed downstairs maybe I would've stopped her from OD. I've been to a psychiatrist about this, but nothing seems to be working. What should I do?? Thanks for any help in advance! (sorry its so long)

Wow Im really sorry about your mom. But no this is not your fault at all!!! She drank every other day and just because you were home doesnt mean you could have stopped her; it was her fault for doing that. She overdossed her self. Sure if u would have stayed down stairs you might have got her to the hospital quicker but she still probably would have been dead. Just relize that you couldnt do anything theres really nothen you could have done!! Sorry..hope i helped

x3 spiCy xo hoTt

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