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Q: can someone give me ideas for sns about the o.c. or adam brody?
rate 5s for anything
thank so much

ok..

adambrodylove

oc lover x

xx oc x adam

i love O.C.

oc love ###

adam brody love ( if that all fits)

x i love adam o

xo the oc xo

xx oc lover xo

etc..

hope i helped.. and tell me what you come up with later

Q: Does anyone have a website that will teach me how to do a smoky eye?? girls you know what i'm talking about..

i dont know a website but...to do it you put the eyeliner on and smear it a little, by rubbing it around in light circles

if you want it with your eyeshadow put it on your eyelid and lightly circle it around..hope i helped

Q: I'm a 27 year old female involved with a man of 34 years old for almost 2 years now. He was married before and have a little boy of 6 years old. I have the feeling that this guy is also lying to me regardig his ex wife in various ways. It feels as if he is always taking her side, etc. I want to know: Am I wasting my time with this guy? Will we ever get married? We were engaged for almost a year and he broke the engagement because of a incident that happened between me and his ex wife.

ok so let me get this straight

2 years.....1year engagement....HE broke it off because of you and his Ex....he has kids with her....he is involved with her (meaning..he sees her quite often)... may be lying baout things with his Ex....honey..i say leave the man...if nothing has happened yet then i doubt nothing will...and anyways if he asks you and you guys do get married then what will it be like after dealing with the exwife and the kid...the ex will be in your life forever more....id dump this dipshit and move on with your life....goodluck...tell me how it goes

xo_lauren_xo

Q: My parents are getting divorced because my mum is unhappy.
Anyway I found out that she was cheating on my dad.
I followed her one day down the end of my road where she got into a car with a guy, Mark. I know it was him because I heard her talking about him to her friends and I know its her old boyfirend.
She didnt come home that night.
I feel weird towards her.
I don't know what to do. My dad doesnt know. Should I tell him. I don't want to hurt either of my parents.
Will this affect the divorce porceedings?
Thanks for all help.

the same exact thing happened to me except it was my stepdad who was cheating and thats why they got divorced...so i think you should talk to your mom first

ask her if your dad knows about this most likely she will just be dumbfounded...but she cant rly get away from you...who are you going to stay with after they divorce?> if its your mom you may feel uncomfortable if your dad doesnt know because you dont know what else she is "lying" about...so ask her about it and then you may want to tell your dad just so he knows....um hope i helped...tell me how it goes....

xo_lauren_xo

Q: hello
my girlfriend and i have been dating for abt a month.. and she told me that she was raped two years ago i was the first guy that took the news approiately.. we had sex for the first time and halfway through she asked me to stop and i did.
and asked for me to take her home..i did..
and she asked to break up with me..
reason being that now everytime she goin to see me she thinks of her rapist...
i dont want to let her go..
i really care for her alot .
she suffers from depression alot...
i want to be a part of her life..
im one of very few people she let in ..
now she shuttin me out..
she told me she wants me to leave cos she dont want to hurt me like she hurt her ex's because of the rape always effected her relationships..
she says she cares abt me too much to hurt me..
i care abt her too much to let her go..

i need advice on this..
also i need to council her somehow.. please give me advice on how to help her get though this..
she refuses to get professional help..
please help..
even if we dont get back together, i want her to progress with her life.. and be able to have a realtionship again
please help

talk to her....say you love her and that you are sry about the rape thing and that you dont want her to get hurt againa dnsay you have never been in this situation.....you should try to get into a relationship counseling thing...they wrk x33

Q: Does anyone know that song that goes " over my head, over my head" Its a guy that sings it. And its pretty new.

sum 41 i think ...... ive heard that before

Q: ok first of all...there is this guy and i REALLY like him...i was wit him a few nights ago n we made out...but see the thing is...he would not stop touching me!! i liked it at frist but now idk what he is gonna think if i let him do it again...and i have kissed a few other people...is that cheating? and what should i do about my b/f?

ok so this guy that keeps touching you.....is he your bf? because if hes not than your sorta cheating.....but if he his ask him to not touch you be like " i think that we should slow this down just a little, and then kiss him but if he goes to touch him grab his hand and say no or i dont like it.....it depends about who those ppl are.....if it was just like....it just happened and it wasnt supposed to then i wouldnt worry but if you plan on doing it again....its cheating

Q: is it wrong for a 17 year old guy to totally hit on you, flirt with you, invite you places,and like give you his cell number if you are 13?

yes he probably wants sex thats what nmost older guys wants when hes wayy older

Q: I just got a myspace and in the "About Me" section..i want to put a list of random things about me. i want it to be like a list but i can`t do it! i have looked EVERYWHERE for a way to do this but i can`t seem to find anything. if you know that would be amazingg!!

well you can just like write stuff about you...here is my myspace if you need some help with the about me part hope it helps

www.myspace.com/lt225

Q: How do i get a guy with a girlfriend to like me and ask me out??

well he kinda likes someone else so flaunt your stuff in front of him make him hang over your every word dress hott and sexy and maybe a little slutty and wait for him to dump her, wait a month after he dumps her and ask him to hang out in the meantime....make friends with him and his friends

Q: Ok so I am 16 and I am in love with a 15 year old!!! is that wrong? I mean he really likes me as well as I like him and I cant stop thinking about him, is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 15 year old that is about to turn 16 in 5 months???

no, god no, its totally fine itd be wrong for a 16 yr old to date like a 21 yr old but no and hes turning 16 soon so yea definitley go for it!

Q: Like for winter consert... there will be few spots for solos. There will be adition in about 3 weeks. We can choose any song we want. I'd like to do one, but the problem is that have no idea what song to sing.
Can you help me?

well what kind of songs do you like, slow and intimate or fast and hardcore

if slow and intimate-- maybe mariah carey or DHT (listen to your heart) or destinys child

if fast and hardcore-- ashlee simpson, uhmm, lol i cant rly think of anymore, haha, michelle branch maybe

good luck

Q: ok so my good friend just told me that another good friend of mine just started a nasty rumor about me....so i asked my friend if she really did start the rumor...she sad she would never start a rumor about me...so now my friends are in a really big fight over the whole thing..what should i do who should i believe...help please!!! a.s.a.p!!!!

ok.....this is a very hard one....lets see

first thing about past times which really good friend has lied more......if one has lied a lot too you, then she might be..the winner...if they never really lied well then you should talk to tthem both in a private place and see if they fess up...if not i would try to keep your sitances (but not like one day your niced i love you!!! and then the next day bitch i hate you do it slowly so they wont notice as much) hope i helped

Q: I Was...

you were.....finsih your effing wuestion...is this jess? lol.....i dont know i was just guessing

Q: i don't know if anyone has ever had dwarf hamsters, but i do and yesterday i was cleaning out the cage and i saw three little pink things in the nest and it turned out one of my hamsters had babies. All three of the hamsters are female, i've checked and the breeder checked so i don't know what happened. i thinhk she was pregnant before we got her because we've only had them for a little while. Anyways, i was wondering if there is anything special I should do to take care of them? or does the mother do it herself? i really have no idea what to do. If anyone could halp me with this i'd be really happy. thanks.

ok well this happened to me

i thought my hamster was a boy and i came upstairs one day and saw 5 little babies, so i gave 3 away and kept 2, named them and all u need to do is make sure you keep them well fed and hydrated, bcus the runt died so i only had the mom and theone baby

one day abfter a month of having the little baby hamster i cam home and his skin was only there, the mom had eaten it bcus she didnt have enough food! so just do the same thing extra colorful

Q: Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!

Thank you! I will rate high for good answers:D

well ur right for some reason ur bf is trying to make you jealous

talk to him about it say im rly uncomfortable when you talk about hot girls you see and talk to,

say it cant work if he does it more but you want it to work

good luck

Q: ok so.. im 15/F, and the other night my boyfriend hinted (very openly) that we should have sex. and well im ok with it, but im a virgin and hes not. and well i dont know what to do, and i mean what if there are other people around (yeah most likely we'd be at a party with his friend, and his friends girlfriend who have sex like everywhere). and yeah well i dont exactly know what im asking, so im sorry for that but anything.. i mean anything would help.

well do you want to have sex for yourself, if your doing it for him then DONT DO IT

i wouldnt do it at a party because sex is very personal and initmate just because ur bfs friend and your bfs friends gf do it everywhere doesnt mean you have to ....

good luck

Q: Im 13 and i need a costume for halloween any ideas or websites i could go to.

well you could do funny scary or sexy/cute/slutty

funny:

--fat person
--peron riding on a horse (or other animal) im being that
--etc.

sexy/cute/slutty

--frech maid
--cheerleader
--waitress
--etc.

Scary:

--samara from the ring 1/2
--a ghoul
--scary face mask
--clown
--etc.

Q: I'm going to a birthday party tommorrow and it's fancy dress. Everyone has to come as something beginning with the letter "B".

I am completely broke as I am a student living on £30 a week. Normally I wouldn't have a problem with fancy dress because I can sew and I've brought my sewing machine with me but I can't afford the material.

I was thinking of going as a bumblebee. I'd make yellow stripes on some black clothes using coloured tape and manufacture wings somehow.
Unfortunately, I've only been living in Bradford for about 3 weeks so I don't know where sells coloured gaffa or electrical tape.

Any ideas would be gratefully received, the more practical the better.

Thanks,
Girlwithamansname

ha bumble bee would be cute

--bride

--belle

--beast (ew)

--butterfly haha

--beauty girl

i dont know but have fun with it

good luck

Q: Is it true that putting a dab of toothpaste on spots overnight will bring down the redness and flatten out the bump?
Thank you!
(Sorry but I rate honestly!)