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I just moved from New Jersey to New Mexico.
I met a really cool kid named Matthew here, and I think that we are close to dating, because we really like each other. The problem is should I tell my ex boyfriend [we're SO close, and we've been best friends for like 7 years, the reason we broke up is because I moved] that I found someone new? & how should I tell him.
Thanks. =P
If I need to know how old are you in order for me to help you.
Hey how long after you get your tonsils out, does it hurt for? I just got them out on monday and it still hurts really badly. Thanks will rate
Sorry that you are in pain but by eating alot of ice cream it helps because it sooths your throat. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
ok my homecoming is this weekend and there is this one boy i really want to dance with but is it weird for the girl to ask the guy... i dont really kno because i have never asked anyone to dance with me before..
It's not weird at all if you like him then why not ask him to dance.
How can you get to know a guy a grade higher than you and get him to be your "guy friend"?
It's not that hard all you have to do is talk about things like sports, afterschool activites, and other interests that you guys might have. These are some good ways that you guys can become friends just talking about what you would usually talk to your girl friends about except leave some things out like liking other guys. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
Okay, my bf, Kyler and I have been going out for a month...if he doesn't get certain grade on his grades, his mom is gonna make him break up with me....I think that is kinda lame, so that is like a strike against him...I mean..we could be friends with benefits....but I don't know...I think that if we ever did break up, that we would be friends, and I MIGHT go out with my friends cousin Will...I don't know yet...it's just all really hard....I mean to me this is awesome, because Kyler actually likes me back and all...and I feel really good with him....but....I don't know....it's like his parents are too protective and they need to let go of their little boy, because he ain't little no more....They don't really let him do anything with me except talk on the phone....and I really need help on what to do..I mean all my friends want me to dump Kyler, but I don't want to!!!
If you cared about Kyler then you wouldn't want to go out with anyone else. As far as his grades are concerned why not try studing together that way you are spending time with him and also his grades won't have to suffer. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
guys i need your advice--what are some like flirting thing(signs) that really turn a guy on and let him know that you like him with out actully telling him just sending the signal---i rate high~
You can do all kinds of things like making eye contact, smiling at him when ever you catch his eye,and brush up against him when you walk by. These are just some examples but there are other ways. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
ok i want to have a halloween party so about how much do you think it will all cost and what are some things to do like games and about how long should it last i rate high
Probably be around 40 dollars 20 for food and 20 decorations. Have good food and play alot of music. If you want you can have the custom contest or the dance contest and you can do the mummy game too. It also depends on when you are going to start the party that way you can figure out what you can plan. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
i want to do something really special for a friend of mine who is going to be getting back from active duty pretty soon. he is a great guy hes been in new orleans for the last month and may have to stay longer, but when he gets home i would like to maybe have a little get together or something, any ideas?????
Have some of his family and closest friends get togethet and plan a welcome home party that way is really going to be happy to be home from New Orleans. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
my friend goes on the bus with me and i told her i like this boy on the bus...boy was that a wrong thing to do. now everytime he leave the bus she says o mister boyfriend..but not that loud and i try to cover her mouth she is really pissing me off. how do i make her stop to save me from embarrasment ? p/s i tried to tell her to stop like i said "stop it" but i dont think it works and now its the weekend and i dont know if she will try to do it again on monday
Tell her how you feel when she does that and if that doesn't work then try to start talking to the guy that way she won't embarass you anymore.
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does anyone know any very funny movies for teens? thanks i rate.
Scary Movie 1,2
Not Another Teen Movie
Harry Potter
Corpse Bride
im 15 and i am girl need advice on how do you break up with a guy you have been dating for a year and four months because you dont like him or love him anymore and i dont have an explaination why??...HELP!!..he thinks it because of the hurricane and me loosing everything i had but its not ..my feelings were this way before that..and we are taking a break right now but he doesnt get the terms "TAKING A BREAK MEANS"...and i have basically created a monster..because i never get to hangout with my friends anymore or doing anything but be with him and its getting old and soo is the relationship because he takes it way to seriously considering we are only 15 and 16..he thinks that im "THE ONE" ..and wants to spend forever with me??..and there will never be another girl for him???..soo i need advice on how i should break it to him in a way that it wont hurt him that bad and we can still be friends!!
You should tell him that you just need some space for a while that way he knows that you care about him you just don't want to be with him all the time. Another thing you can do if you don't like that you can also tell him " I think that once in a while we should take some time away from one another and spend some time with our friends." I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
Me and my brothers best friend got really involved and I gave him my varginity!! Now I am not allowed to be near him becuase my brother feels that it would hurt me more. The fact was that he used me and I dont hate him. I want to see him so I could tell him how he really made me feel but no one will let me! What should I do? (i am now almost 16 and he is 20)
What should I do? I want him to know how much he hurt ME!
You should listen to your brother because it is obvious that he cares about you and doesn't want you to get hurt so just take his advice and just forget about him. But if you are unable to do that then you should tell your parents that way they know and make sure that he pays for what he done. I hope that I helped you but if not you can visit me at my column but if you don't good luck.
13/m sorry its so long
there is this girl danielle that i really like and have liked for a while i thought i was over her for a few months then some kids at school said some guy hit her and i got so mad that i faugt him but its more then that i faught him got arrested broke a cars mirror of and dented the car getting sued to fix the car got a 2 day out of school suspendion broke my knuckle and other stuff and i dont know if she relizes everything i did for her and i dont know if she does but doesnt wanna talk about it or just is to shy to tell me if she likes me i think she might but i dont know for sure if anyone knows how i can tell if she likes me let me know
thanks
mike
Try getting some info out of her closest friends, then try talking to her about school, afterschool events, or other things. Figure out what she likes. Then if you feel comfortable around her then go for it that way you know what her interesting are and that way you have some more things to talk about. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
I just bought homecoming tickets for my boyfriend and I today. Next Wednesday, the 5th, is our three month anniversary and his gift from me is going to be the homecoming tickets and for him to be my date... etc. See we were already planning on going together, but I just wanted to ask him in a cute, romantic way to really make him feel special. It can't be anything too expensive, I guess I'm jsut looking for ideas. So what I'm asking is what is a sweet, creative, original way I can ask him to go to homecoming with me?
You could tell him to meet you at the place where you had your first date and then before the end of the night surprise him with the tickets. I know there are other ways but this is the only thing I can think of right now. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
im 14/female
sorry this is kinda long..
there is this boy at schol we dont talk much but he is in a few of my classes.Today the teacher put us in groups and i was in his. We finished our thing early so me and him were just sorta talking...Then he was like soo what is your name again and i told him my name and he said ohh i kno a girl by that same name she looks just like you you must be twins and he kinda smiled... so i kinda was just like oh and then he was like yeah she is really pretty... I didnt really kno what to say so i just kinda smiled and we didnt talk much the rest of class...soo my question is do you think he likes me??
It sounds like he does otherwise why would he say that.
does getting stressed out really give you pimples...?
Most likely stress does give people pimples.
This guy at school called me a b**** and I was with my friend who happens to be a guy and he fought him but the principle came and they both got suspended. When they were allowed back in school today I told my friend he didn't have to do that, but he said he did it for me and could'nt stand what that guy did to me, then after school he asked me out and told me that he's always like me, I didn't answer him I just said I had to go and kind of ran off. He's a really good friend and I don't want to rruin our friendship, but I think I may like him. I mean we go places and hang out and stuff but I have never considered us more than friends.
PLEASE HELP ! I rate 5's
I think that you should consider going out with him because if he looks out for you when you are just friends then that means that he will protect you even more if you went out and besides you said that you like so why not go out with him you might like being more then friends. I hope that I helped but if not you can can visit me at my column.
ok so the other day at lunch my friend jay was playing around wit my friend alexis and like bein stupid and crazy then all of a suden our teadher comes over adn makes jay sit at the end of the table and has a talk wit alexis .. and was saying all this stuff to my friend alexis about how they are all over each other and need to be seperated and flirt to much and shouldnt be able to be in the same hallway and said that some of the other teachers sya that she basacly acts like a slut but she said it in nice terms...can a teacher do this i mean they wernt even doin anything ..plz helpp!!
I don't think that any teacher has the right to tell a student who they can and can not flirt with because it's none of their business but then again they are probably just looking out for you. I still think they shouldn't get involved. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
I have a huge crush on this guy at school.(he's my friend) But he has a girlfriend.(shes my friend too) And everytime i see them together i feel weird. but i'm really happy for both of them! And lately he's been flirting with me and has kind of been ignoring his girldfriend.( but not a lot of ignoring her ) what should i do?
signed
queenteen18
p.s. i'm a girl
What you should do is just be yourself and keep acting the way you do and one day while you guys are talking say something like " you one of my friends said that if we ever went out we would make a cute couple" say something like that and see what he says. I hoped that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, and he happens to be one of my really good friends. For the past couple of weeks shes been treating him like dirt and she even told him that she had him rapped around her finger! I thought that was really mean of her. Anyways, they broke up today and now he is sooo sad. He loved her so much and I don't know what to say to him. He's so upset. What do I tell him? I keep telling him it's not his fault but he's just like ugh =(.
You could tell him that he could do better then that what kind of a person would treat another like dirt if they care about them. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.