Question Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 12:49 pm
Okay, my bf, Kyler and I have been going out for a month...if he doesn't get certain grade on his grades, his mom is gonna make him break up with me....I think that is kinda lame, so that is like a strike against him...I mean..we could be friends with benefits....but I don't know...I think that if we ever did break up, that we would be friends, and I MIGHT go out with my friends cousin Will...I don't know yet...it's just all really hard....I mean to me this is awesome, because Kyler actually likes me back and all...and I feel really good with him....but....I don't know....it's like his parents are too protective and they need to let go of their little boy, because he ain't little no more....They don't really let him do anything with me except talk on the phone....and I really need help on what to do..I mean all my friends want me to dump Kyler, but I don't want to!!!
rosebud_01 answered Saturday September 24 2005, 8:20 pm: If you cared about Kyler then you wouldn't want to go out with anyone else. As far as his grades are concerned why not try studing together that way you are spending time with him and also his grades won't have to suffer. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column. [ rosebud_01's advice column | Ask rosebud_01 A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday September 24 2005, 2:48 pm: If you don't want to dump him, then don't. Unfortunatly you can't do anything about his parents, they are concerned for their child's grade, and thats ok. But, you and him will have to keep on with what you're doing right now until his parents are more open to his trust with having good grades and being able to have a girlfriend at the same time. Friends with benefits would solve what? It wouldn't solve anything, and you don't ever want to try having a friend with benefits, there are big mind games that can be played in the friends with benefits thing. But, you don't have any control over your boyfriend's parents.
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