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Hey my name is Rachael and I'm sixteen years old. Like anyone else on this site, I love to help people. Ask me anything and I'll give the best possible answer I can!

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IS it odd that whenever I orgasm I don't tremble or shake or anything? I just tense up a lot while the feeling spreads throughout my body.


Whenever I read sex stories it always is so elaborate about how the girl shakes a lot when she comes.


Am I just weird or something?

Every woman is different. What you're experiencing is normal and actually very common.

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i want to buy some stuff to wax my bikini line from like the cvs or wallgreens or something, does anyone know what kind of wax to get which would work good to do by yourself

I think Veet came out with a waxing product.. I want to try it myself. It comes with numbing spray.. but I'm not sure how well thats going to work. haha

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so my b/f was on AIM and he's at the movies with his sister and my bf`s friend katie . anyways, he IMed me & said "hey im with people who hate you" and i`m all "wow thats nice . because they thing i`m a pansy , right? just because i wear hollister doesn`t make me a prep . get over it"
(i get really annoyed because he is on the punkish-emo side & so are his friends) anyways someone goes "this is his sister & katie we hate you go suck a penis you pansy!" and idk what i should do , he was being really rude && idk what i should say to him the next time i talk to him . any advice ? what should i tell him ? break-up or not ?

I agree..
your boyfriend should nevvverr talk about you like that, that's terrible. If he friends don't like you, that's one thing. But, if he's making fun of you with his friends, that's just being a bad boyfriend. Talk this over with him and tell him how it hurts you. You're not a pansy whatsoever for wearing what you like. His friends are so caught up in labels and they're really immature.

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does anyone know the latest games that have come out for all or any game systems? sites would be appreciated! =]

Sims 2 pets for pc! hell yea!

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there's diz boy i really like
i don't know i to get his attention can someone help me or give me tips thankz

try talking to him.. be nice and flirty if you like him. Chances are he'll do the same.

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15f im sorry if its long please just bare with me i really need help.

i cant stand living in my house anymore. my mom only comes here just to argue. she says ive changed alot and i know i have but thats all part of growing up. she always hits me and im sick of it. i dont know what to do. i want to leave so badly. she tells me that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. and that really hurts me. i just entered highschool and life is getting so hard for me. my grades are getting low, my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me, my family is falling apart especially my mom she comes to my room to hit me or to scream at me everyday. she argues so mmuch. i cant stand this anymore. i ahte living here. i hate my new school i jsut hate my life. i really dont know what to do. i cant stand my mom. she is so annoying. im sick of her just coming into my room to argue. also, its summer break im supposed to be out with my friends having a good time and she says she sint going to let me go out anymor. she says im grounded for the whole summer. i want to go out with my friends, to the beach the pool the park the movies. i hate her! i dont know what to do. she wont let me do anything. my life is hard enough. please help

It sounds really hard for you right now. I know what you're going through, too. I know right now everything is really bad and everything is going down hill and you think it's never going to get better. But you really have to look on the bright side of things. God did not put you on this earth to suffer.. things always get better. You just have to wait it out. Is there anyone else you're close to in your family you can talk to? If you're close to your dad.. or if you have siblings.. or an aunt or uncle, tell them how your mom's treating you. Someone needs to talk to her and tell her what she's doing isnt right. She probably has deeper issues she can't handle and she's taking it out on you. I know it's also really hard to lose someone you've been dating for so long. Hopefully you both can be friends.. but if it's best you arent, then let it be. Entering high school is also a hard thing to go through. Just try to get your grades back up and stay on track in school.. Missing work and doing poorly in class only makes things more stressful around the house. but, I think if you tell an adult you're close to about your mom, they can talk to her. Maybe then she'll realize what she's doing and let you hang out with your friends this summer.
I really hope things get better for you.. :]

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17/f. It has been over a year since I broke up with my boyfriend. And I am still in love with him. Head over heels, would do anything for him, I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I know he is the one, the only one for me, in love. And, he is my best friend. Problem is though, is that he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for a year. I want to tell him so much, but I am afraid that things would get weird between us. I don't want to lose him because he is my best friend. But I just want to be truly happy. I don't know what to do. What should I do?

Also, tomorrow our friend is having a b-day party, and he is going to be there, and his girlfriend. It's going to be all day. I don't want to break down or anything, do something stupid. I just need some advice on how to handle tomorrow, what can I do to not let them get me down too much?

Maybe what you should do is wait to tell him this stuff when he doesn't have a girlfriend. Right now, he has feelings for her. He may not love her, but he likes her. The last thing you should do is cause drama between this. You could, for the time being, find someone else you like. Find another male friend that you can connect with. You dont have to date, but he may keep your ming off your ex boyfriend. And who knows, you may fall inlove with said boy and forget all about this. I think your mind is just too occupied with wanting your exboyfriend back right now.

For tomorrows situation, go with a group of friends tomorrow. Being with your friends would help you get through the day. If it becomes too much to handle, you could just leave early. But, I'd go with a group of your friends and just stay clear of them when they're together.

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yea i didnt know what category to put this under but ya.. So basically i never really had zits i would get like 1 or 2 once in a while that was nothin i really didnt care now im breaking out bad in zits on my forehead, and a lil on my nose. I did find out that i was allergic to chocolate and that it was making me break out in zits, so i cant eat that anymore. once i stopped eating chocolate i didnt get any zits. Now im starting to get them again. I got proactive but that does not even work. I have been using it for about 3 months and nothing, it still looks the same. Well people are telling me that its weird that all of a sudden that im breaking out in zits, because i never use to have any. They are also saying that it could be another thing that im eating that could have a reaction to my face. Could that be it? if so how could i find out what is making me break out, because i dont eat the same things everyday. Can someone please give me an idea on how to get rid of my zits
because its starting to get bad

thanks

This could be puberty. Maybe you should talk to a dermatologist about this, and you could probably get some sort of medicated skin product.

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If I got drunk once a week this summer, how would I be affected?
What about twice a week?

you may not be affected now, but your chance of becoming an alcoholic when you're older has increased a lot. I would tone it down a little, you don't always have to drink to have a good time.

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Help, please

Someone just called our house phone, and whene i picked up, no one was there. I said 'Hello' a bunch of times, and still no one was there. Then they started breathing into the phone, and then whistling into it. And they're still doing it right now, they won't hang up, and i'm too curious to hang up. BUt i'm also scared.

What should I do?

It's just some stupid pranker. If it's really bothering you, call the police.

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my bf had sex with me and he didnt wear a condom and it was so good

could i be pregnant?

If he came inside you, you could be pregnant. Wait to see if you miss your period or not. Having sex without a condom is really not safe at all. You could contract other diseases as well. Be sure you wear some form of protection next time if you want to be safe.

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ill cut straight to the problem, i have had an itchy clitoris for the past week or so and recently my discharge has become a medium/light brown color. its not anywhere near my vagina just my clitoris and i havent had sex for about 2 months so i dont know if it is a STI of some sort or what. im so confused what could it be?

You really should get this checked out by a doctor or gynocologist. Since you haven't had sex for a while, and these symptoms have become recent, it may be a yeast infection.

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What is the difference between name brand clothing and designer clothing? What would Abercrombie and Fitch be? Lucky brand jeans?

Designer clothing is normally high fashion. Names like Chanel, Louis Vuitton, Prada, etc. all display their fashions on runway. Name brand is normally sold in stores in mass production to the public such as hollister or abercrombie.

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what would i be if i wore skinny jeans, converse, random t-shirts ex. wet seal shirts and skate shirts??

You'd be yourself.

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my moles itch..could i have skin cancer?!

what else could it mean>?

If they itch and this is not normal for you.. go to the doctor and get it checked out. It doesn't necessarily mean it's skin cancer, but to be safe, have a professional look at it.

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Hey this is really embarrasing..but i'm 13/m and my pens is a bit more than 5 inches long. Is that normal? And how can u make ur penis bigger?

PLEASE ANSWER! I WILL APPRICIATE VERY MUCH!!

Your size is normal. The average adult male is only 7 inches.. and you're still pretty young. Nothing can make your penis bigger because size is hereditary.

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any advice on how not to be shy when talking to your boyfriend about sex.please ill rate.

You should feel comfortable talking to your boyfriend about anything. He wants to talk about sex just as much as you. All you have to do is bring it up.. it should be fairly easy.

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i just turned 16 and the last time i was with a guy was about 6 months ago and i jacked him off but he didn't finger me. then we split, so he never ended up fingering me. now i'm with someone different who i know is very experienced and i know pretty soon he is going to end up fingering me. i've tried fingering myself to see what it feels like but i cant seem to do it. i always think i'm doing it right but don't feel it at all. i just want to be prepared for when he does it to me. please help! i'll rate 5s. thanks everyone!

fingering isn't just about him sticking his fingers in your vagina. He can feel around and stuff.. Guide him. Tell him what feels good to you and tell him what hurts. he'll understand, and he'll probably appreciate your help.

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i am horney all the time and i fingure my own self... what is wrong with me?

Nothing's wrong with you. It's just your hormones.

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Alrighty so there's this guy that I like, and it just so happens that we're good friends. So we're hanging out tomorrow and I'm really happy, I finally feel like I might have a chance with a guy that I really like. But I'm also kind of nervous because I think it'll be just me and him... what if we run out things to talk about, like what can I say? Also, how can I hint to him that I like him, without being too pushy/annoying? I just don't want it to be weird if he doesn't like me in that way because even if nothing happens, I still wanna be friends with him. Help?

I know how this is! This is how my boyfriend and I started dating haha.. Trust me, you will not run out of things to say. And if you do, you'll probably be comfortable just not talking. He's going to know that you like him just by the way you treat him. Touch him a lot, but don't be annoying. Look him in the eye a lot, too. Talk about what he wants to talk about, which is probably going to be himself. If he likes you, he'll probably do the same. All you have to do is just give it time, really.. Or build up the courage to ask him out first. :] good luck

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