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Q: Hey this is kelsey... How r u? Im good. How do i get my boyfriend to talk to me more?

Well just ask him questions and be honest with him! Key point! Honesty is a must! Talk about anything with him and just be yourself! When Sean and I are together or talking i am not nervous and i am just myself! And i am fine! Thanks for asking! Computer App. is easy and we don't have to do as much as we did in WORD! LOL

-Katie

Q: Hey, i like this guy at my school, we've been friends for a while tho and i dont want to tell him cuz i dont want him to treat me differently... should i tell him?

thanks!
Hannah

Hannah just tell him that you like him! Maybe he likes you. Hearts are broken by words unspoken so if you like someone then tell them! Good luck!

-Katie

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Q: Hi, i'm 13 years old and i'm a girl. I like this boy but he is taken already, By one of my friends. I really like him and i want to tell him but how can i without my friend not finding out?

Either way she will find out that you told him that you have feelings with him! Just talk to him and maybe he won't tell her but it is better if you tell him how you feel about him before it is to late! Good luck!

-Katie

Q: okay..my best friend i love her and everything, but she has this level of flirting that is like wayy over the line. and when ever she goes out wtih someone she like flirts wtih other guys and i tell her that she has a bf and she is like..so he cheated on me! and omg! and whenever she isn't going out with anyone she flirts bigggg time with other guys like she is a slut! and we actyally have some sluts at our school (like gurls gogot "fingerd" or w/e) and she also got fingerd but i am one of the only people who knows about it and i just dont know what to do! please help me!?

~*~*Dazed and Confused*~*~

Okay Dazed and Confused,
Just sit your friend down and talk to her! This is for her own good that she hears this from you! Tell her that she is promoting herself off as a SLUT! Talk to her and tell her what you told me about her flirting to much and when she is dating another guy she flirts with other men! Hope things work out! Keep in touch!

-Katie

Q: i like this boy and we've been friends for a while and i think he likes me but how do i get to know him better before we go out he says the same thing to he wants to get to know me more but i dont think he likes me and i want to talk to him on the phone but i never talked to him on the phone i do i talk to him without being nervous.

signed: love struck

Okay hun just ask him, "do you want to come to my house or something?" Just ask him about his life and about himself. Ask him his phone number also so you can talk to him on the phone! Just don't be nervous but if you are the first few times you talk to him that is okay because you will losin up a little after awhile. Good luck Keep in touch!

-Katie

Q: I NEED HELP!!!!!...Ive Been Goin Out With My Bf For Like 2 Weeeks But we Knew Each Other Like 1-2 Weeks Before He Asked Me Out...Well I Talk To His Cuz A Lot(Ive Known Him For Like 6 Months) And He Told Me That His Cuz Has Another Gf Besides Me...So Last Night I Called Him And Ask Him If That Was True And He Said, "Yes , But I Didnt Kno"...(How Can You Dont Kno If Your Goin Out With Sum1????)...Well I Asked Him If He Likes Her And He Was Like, "Not As Much As I Like You....Once I Get Here From Camp ill Cut Her"...All My Friends Are Telling Me To Cut Him....But I Love Him Soooo Much To Let Him Go....What Should I Do???...Should I Cut Him???... Dont Wanna Get Hurt!..Can sum1 PLEASE Gimmie Advice...Thanx...

Okay hun you need to think about this for a second! You can't just start loving someone that you knew for 3 week or a month. You like him alot i understand but come on you can't trust him, he is going out with you and another girl which makes him a cheater and he lied to you which proves he is a lier! I say dump him and then get to know him more and then you two are bound to go back out if it was meant to be.

-Katie

Q: if someone is wearing lime green tights, or pantyhoes or whatever, does that mean anything? like does that mean theyre lesbian or gay?

No that just means that they have an unique style!

-Katie

Q: I have a problem I did somthing i shouldent have my mom told me never But i was curios so I looked a porno online should i tell her i looked at it or just leave it as is?

Just leave it as it is no one will find out and what they don't know won't hurt them!

-Katie

Q: okay so im a prep. Its my style. But some really big bitch that tries to be 'gangster' and trust me i have no problem with the people who are true gangster, rips on me and my friends. Not that i should let her bother me every1 knows shes a whore, but what can i say back to her when she leaves bitchy things while im on away message.. like for xample shes like yahh you think your hot with your skinny ass and your no thighs and no boobs? Like wtf everyone knows im short but i do have an ass and boobs thank you, maybe not the biggest but pretty damn average, wtf is wrong with her and wtf do i do not to start a huge fight but to get her back?? or maybe give me good thoughts to ignore her?

Okay i understand about your a prep so am i and people pick on me even though i am one of the most popular girls but the only reason people like that pick on people like us is because we are better and they are jealous about our bodies and how we act and our fashion sense! Sweetie she is a bitch because she is jealous! Just tell her to leave you alone and i really had to punch a girl so she would stop picking on me! Good luck

-Katie

Q: I have a best friend. He is going to be 18 and im only 15 and 1/2. I fell madly in love with him but my parents say hes too old for me. So no one knows I love him as more then a friend. I dont know if i should tell him, he might not return the feeling. even if he does return the feeling, theres my parents. so should i not tell anyone?

Hunny whatever you feel about someone if you like them or hate them or even in your case love them don't tell your friends! And please don't be mad but i do think your to young for him. But that is what i think. If you love him then tell him. But ONLY him because if you tell someone else and they might change things around and make up stuff! Beleive me your best of friends will do that to you. Follow your heart and make the right decision!

-Katie

Good luck Hun!

Q: ok well.. my boyfriend asked my if we could have mutual oral.. BUT i dont know wut it is!! some1 help me to know wut hes sayyin!! i need to kno!!

He means a "69" you give him head and he eats you out!

-Katie

Q: If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..??

I don't know why he would want to go down there... but if you want him to and if he really wants to then go for it! It is your decition! Make the right one and plus have fun with your man!

-Katie

Q: whats a viborater and how do you use it?

A vibrator is what a girl uses to plessure herself. You pretend it is a dick and stick it in and turn it on and have fun! There you go.

-Katie

Q: OK...i went to "browse columnists" and i couldnt find myself!Is there something i need to know so that i can find myself cause i rly want to see how im doing!thnx 4 answerin if u can!xoxo

Answer a question and then look at the browse columnists! Good luck!

-Katie

Q: i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

Go to the doctor and check with him!

-Katie

I hope everything goes as planed for you. Oh and i think you can if you go to a Clinic!

Q: My ex-boyfriend, and I really need 2 talk, and discuss our break up. But I dont know if I should or not cause we broke up on a bad key. And even if i did talk 2 him i wouldnt know what 2 say. Please help, and i'm 13.
*Sign*
Confused

Okay well just talk to him because you don't want him to be mad at you and never talk to you again! Maybe he still has feelings for you or just wants to know if your okay with what happened! Just talk with him.

-Katie

Q: is it a good way to make money

Im make 15 dollars a week. I guess so.

-Katie

Q: Anyone here ever try lemon juice to make freckles lighter?

I have freckles and when i was younger and i tryed the hole lemon juice thing and it didn't work with me!

-Katie

Q: Remember 2 years ago when those lace-up jeans came out?? Like they laces up either in the back or on the sides or in the front. Are those still in style or did thery go out a year ago?

They are still in style they are cute and vintige! Their cool!

-Katie

Q: Ok, I heard that there was a program that lets you have more than 200 screen names on AIM. Do you know what the program is called and where I can find it? Thanks

Aim + it is found on big-o-software.com

-Katie

bio

I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.

ABC's about ME!

Age: 15
Birthday: 01/16
Color: Red and Pink
Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
Eyes: baby blue
Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
Intrests: sexy boys, cheerleading, and PARTIES
Joys in Life: see above
Kisses or Hugs?: X's and O's
Love Life: Taken and happy
Music: country, rap, r&b and other
Name: ::*::*:Katelyn:*::*::
Obsession: skaters, music, fire, shopping (not in that order)
Preference: Guys
Question: Why label me when you dont have a label yourself?
Role Model: Paris Hilton
School: MP
Talent: erm...I'll get back to you on that one...
Uniqueness: I love to stand out in the crowd...so i'll try anything once
Very Best Friends: Madeline, Kelsey, Cassie, Meagan, Michel, Brittany, Jasmine, Kayla, Jessica, Heidi, and Amanda
Worst Thing I've Done: ...well, there was this one time...
Xtra Sturf 'Bout Me: I'm 5'4 I love to party and when your with me you will have a REALLL great time!
Yum-Yumz in Mah Tum-Tum: I love CHOCOLATE, smoothies, and strawberries! I really LOVE Chocoalte covered strawberries
Zodiac Sign: Capircorn