im a junior. i love movies. photography. scene plus american eagle. i love vintage and antiques. im my own person. i try not to judge and i have many different sides of me. im stubborn.insecure. lazy. cranky in the morning. but im also forgiving. protective. shy.
Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Occupation: junior in high school
Age: 16
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We need to know what to buy to get rid of the spiders, the bedroom leaks when it rains, but dad thinks he knows how to fix that. but i am highly afraid of big spiders, little ones are okay. but these are like, frickin HUGE wolf spiders.... at least i think that's what they are. no they aren't the brown recluse, i've checked that out. but i'm afriad that there might be some and i just havn't seen them. what is the best spider killers/trappers that we could get at walmart? also mosquito killers if possible. Please and thank you! (link)
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i am afraid of spiders too
maybe you should hire someone to come and spary the inside and outside of your house!
from,pinkcherries
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and i really hate the sun. i hate going outside, and i wait until night to get outside-active and stuff. well, my parents are pressuring me to get a job as a lifeguard. summers almost halfway over and i still dont have a job. they think i could be a good lifeguard, if i just got outside and got a tan. they say if i do get the job, im going to be outside all day everyday and that if i dont like the sun, to just get over it.
what should i do? i hate it outside! i hate bugs, i hate heat, i wear all black so i cant just go on a walk and i hate the sun and the brightness! any thoughts on something that might help???? thanks! (link)
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try a different job
if you dont like the sun then you will hate the sunburn. if you dont like bugs then you will hate mosquito bites. If you hate brightness then you will hate being inside too because there are lights indoors.
maybe you should try and get a job at hot topic. or at a music store you would like
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I have my nose pierced and my mom hates facial piercings so she told me that if i take it out she will let me get my belly button pierced well i want to keep my nose ring and get my belly button pierced and jus not wear a nose ring when im around her but it will close up got any idea how i can keep my nose pierced but get my belly button pierced?? i already have a clear retainer for work but she notices that so what should i do? (link)
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you could always get a magnetiec nose ring at claires or something... then you can show her how it works... that way she will think that the real piercing is the magnet
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15/f. this might be long...
So I guess starting last summer I started talking to this guy lets say R. We didn't talk like to get together but just as friends. But we dont go to school together. I met him because I went out with his brother. So after a while I told him I liked him, but nothin ever happened. He would come to my house a couple times over this course. Well now I really really care for him. Like i love him to death but I dont want him to know like I dont wanna mess up our relationship. But I can tell he knows it. Oh and hes 17 though. He's a junior but he has a girlfriend that's a senoir. Me and her are cool and all. Like she invited me to one of her parties I went it was all good. But like I love him, and it really sucks that they are together. But we were talking one night and she called him, lets called her B. And she was pissed about him talkin to to many girls but he told her he only talks to her and me and that pissed her off that he said me. But it kills me inside cause I just dont want them to be together I want them to break up and shit. I mean like next year they probably wont be together sicne shes going to college or something but I want him now! And this weekend they went to prom together and today her parents are meeting his, he's never done this with any other girl. Its scaring my that they are getting really serious. Its killing me in side to not think about him this weekend. What can I do to get him.. I really need help. (link)
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easy solution
let him live his life
obviously if he felt the same way he would be going out with you. He has a girlfriend and he sounds happy so just leave them alone. If you really loved him you would want him to be happy, whatever it takes.
please let them live their lives!!!!
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I'm going to a 90's themed birthday party on the weekend and I need to think of a costume.
It needs to be something memorable, or slightly obscure yet amusing from the (british) 90's
If possible, if it fits with being in a wheelchair thats useful but dont worry about that.
Any Ideas?
Cheers in advace! (link)
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COngrats on your birthday.
What about wearing. Something with the British flag on it. and do a punk rock british thing. Black Bangles, layerd look. That would be cool
hope this helps
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My mom died 7 months ago, almost 8. but it feels like yesterday. im 15 going on 16 next may.
i was just wondering if anyone around my age has lost a parent as well. feel free to talk to me if so! (link)
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Well... I have never been in your situation... but I know that you prolly need someone to talk to. Well... I am really sorry about what has happened. But God will keep you safe. Everyone needs time to cry about things. So you don't hide any emotions. I am not saying becoming emo, I am just saying that no matter how strong you are this is a sensetive topic. So instead of focusing on the bad things I am focusing on the good things. Even though you can't see her, she can see you. So maybe you could try talking to her (praying) and tell her how life is so far. She would want you to enjoy life and not waste. So please try your best and live life as you would like to remember it forever.
God Bless You
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pinkcherries♥
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INLOVE?????
There's a difference between lust,like,love,and inlove.
Well I have 2 questions.
Is it possible to TRULY be in love at 14/15?
And 2......
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE IN LOVE???????
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i believe that you can be in love at 14 and 15... but sometimes a lot of people with boyfriends just think that they are in love because thats what they want to here. And you know that you are in love when you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. If they are sick you would fly to China and get them the right medicine ( if you have the money of course). Or if you want to see this person's face every waking moment of your life.
thats what love is. And if you think that you are in love you would have ABSOLUTULY no doubt in your mind if that is what you are feeling,
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13/f
so I was in gymnastics when i was like 8 or 9, but I had to quit. Ive always loved the sport, and now i really wanna join again! I have lost a lot of my flexibility and my ability to do flips and such (I can do cartwheels [normal and one handed] and front hand spring on the trampoline [ but not on the ground] ) Is there any like flips or any type of well..skill that i need to be able to get back into gymnastics without trouble (ex. front&back handsprings or something) Im pretty sure i could do them, even on the ground, but im always really paranoid that im gunna land on my head and break my neck or something.
My questions basically are:
1) is there anything (flips etc) that i need to master to get back in?
2) What are some ways that i can get my flexibility back?
3) How can i learn not to be so paranoid about breaking my neck?
ANYTHING else you want to add just add it, i really need the help.
Thanks bunches and bunches :) (link)
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splits, straddles, back handspring
an ariel would be good to know but you dont have to
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ok well im 14/f and live in small town USA I have been SI'ing for like 4-5 years now and i really wanna stop i am really wating to get closer to God ad this is just holdig me back from living the life i want to. See i started becuse it felt good it feel something other than emotions? idk how to word it but my father was abusive i was never touched but i saw what he did to my sisters and my brother and well i dont know if that has anything to contribute to it. Now that Im away from him and have been for a while i relized i want to change. I dont know how so I guess thats what im asking. HOW CAN I CHANGE AND STOP SELF INJURING???? That includes cutting and stuff like that anything that causes me pain.
Before you ask I never wanted attention and well am asking on here so i dont get the wrong type.
Allie (link)
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i think that thats excellent that you want to get closer to you. I am here for you so if you want to send me a private email i understand but you dont have to if you dont want to. I am 13/F so i think i know what you are feelin.
To help cutting just say to yourself that god doesn't want you to hurt yourself or others. God created you and he doesn't want you to think anything less of yourself.
I hope this helps
god bless ya
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I hate asking for advice but I feel I need to, Ok so I started daiting this year and I have had my fare share of b/f's. All of my b/f's want me to have sex and im not ready I had things happen to me when I as little and its just well I still havent gotton over it. I keep getting dumped because I wont go passed making out.
What should I do? (link)
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i understand how you feel.
but if a guy really loves you and cares about you then he wouldn't rush you and he would wait intill you feel comfortable.
Guys may say that they love you but saying something and showing it are two totally different things.
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I have over 20 inches of hair that i want to donate to Locks of Love (it was growing just for this). I visited the website and everything. The thing i need is a list of participating salons that will cut it for you (not on the site). There are salons that do it for free if you are donating but they no longer have a list anymore (on the site). I live in WA (area code 98029). can someone help me find salons that do this (cut for Locks of Love for free or for a discount). Thanks a bunch. I want to do this as soon as possible. :] (link)
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i do not have a answer to your question sorry
but i wanted to say that the kid that you are helping will be very happy. Thank you so much. You are an inspiration. God Bless Ya
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Im doing an essay. can someone tell me the order that, the work cited page, par. doc, and ellipsis goes in? & explan how to do them (link)
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if you go to noodletools.com that would help you with your works cited
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f/15
**Sorry, I didn't know what what category to put this in.**
My hair is getting a lot of split ends and is frizzy.
I want my hair to be smooth, soft, shiny, and most importantly healthy.
How do I do that? Any good shampoos conditions, and other hair products that will help keep it healthy and shiny?
**Thanks very much in advance.** (link)
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i agree with the person under me about the sally's thing. Sally's beauty products are really good. They are wear people at haircutting places get their products.
but i am also going to list good shampoos:
♥ Pantene Pro V Ice Shine
♥ Herbel essences hello hydration
♥ and any bedhead products
hope this helps
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would you rather love a loser or lose a lover and why? (link)
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love a loser
because you should never judge people and if you love someone you would never want to see them go. i would never want to lose alover
so why not love then lose right?
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i have 2 parakeets & they are shreding up
paper like crazy and putting it in a pile
with seed does this mean they are makeing a nest?
I REALLY NEED TO KNOW ASAP. (link)
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most likely they are making a nest
but my bird used to do that and she just wanted something comfy to lay on
but most likely they are making a nest
do you know the genders?
because it sounds like you are going to be a grandparent
lol
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I have naturally super straight hair and I usually just leave it like that and I'm starting to get bored of it. So what are some hair styles that are easy to do, isn't too time-consuming, and wouldn't need too much hair products? And also whats an easy and fast way to get wavy hair? Any tips would be greatly appreciated! (link)
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you can buy a 3 barrel waver
it kinda looks like a curling iron with 2 bumps going out and 1 coming in. You put your hair in it. Press down and Voila you have cute, flirty, wavy hair
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im so depressed. and i want to cry but i hate people asking me whats wrong. i bottle it all up. and my brother is the reason. my brothers all reason for pretty much all my depression. its to the point to where it hurts everywhere. but i pretend to be happy and i just forget about it. and be happy. but it hurts. and my brother doesnt help at all. and i snap rubber bands on my wrist.
it hurts inside. but i cant tell anyone.
-Depressed (link)
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obviously you want to talk about it becasue you told everyone on advicenators.com.
when people ask whats wrong that means that people care about you and they want to help you and understand your point of view.
It is not good keeping things bottled up. I am not saying that you have to tell people, but let out your depression/ frustration differently. How about writing songs, keeping a journal, have an online diary. All these things are healthy ways of controling your feelings.
If you want help then you are going to have to be flexible and tell people whats wrong. If you do not tell anyone then no one can fix the problem
just please dont do anything that you will regret later.
And please no more snapping rubberbands... that does not solve anything. That just puts yourself down.
I am sorry if this is so long but I care about you even though I do not know you. I have been in the same boat as you. And believe it or not I can understand you. So please tell people so they can help. But calmly talk about it. And its OK to cry. Dont think that theres anything wrong with it because there isnt.
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P.S. PEOPLE ON ADVICENATORS ARE HERE FOR YOU!!!
god bless you!!!
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Ok basicaly i was new to the school i go to now at teh beginning of the year. I saw a guy in my choir class and thought he was really cute. Once i met some new people i told one of them i thought he was cute. Then one day we were walking to choir class and the guys was about 3 feet in front of us. My friends decided to yell "(my name) likes you" and he kinda cocked his head a little. Well to the point now, he keeps looking at me like he always looks at me now and i really like him well ok i dont "like" him cause well i dont know him but i would like to but i'm to nervous to even talk to him. So do you think he likes me or is just like ew she likes me" or what lol? (link)
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usually when a guy looks at a girl alot that means that he wants to know if she is looking at him back so there is a really good chance that he likes you but he is to shy to say anything. You should try to make conversation with him. Talk to him about spring break or if he had a good easter. Just anything.
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why do my breasts get so tender before my period, and how do i make it stop? (link)
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for most girls this happens
and i am sorry but you cant stop it
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ok ((14/f) i sweat alot like terribly what deodrant can i sued that will stop this i use secret but that still deosnt work help
signed sweatyfreshman (link)
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well today i saw a commercial about a really good deoderant.... its by dove and it come in a white box and it is kind of prescriped but you can buy it at a store without a prescription
hope this helps
from pinkcherries
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