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What would I have to know how to do (or just know) to pass my driving test to get a license?
What do I have to do?
Any tips?
Thanks.

go to your local dmv. they usually have books for you to look at and study. they aren't long and they help a lottt.
hope i helped!

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So.. I failed my drivers test twice.

The first time, was because I failed the parking, so they wouldn't even let me take the test.
Second time, I failed, because the guy was crazy, .. we found out later he has a huge reputation for failing people for no reason, and that his past two jobs he's been fired..

I really want my liscense but I'm scared now, because I just dont want to fail again. I get so anxious when I think about it. I think so negativley about it now since I've failed "twice", and now whenever I think about driving I think about failure, how do I fix this?

I've been practicing, I just feel so afraid.
And I KNOW i can drive.

you can hire a professional to drive around with you, and sometimes they can give you an actual license. maybe if you get comfortable with driving with them, then you could do fine testing with them.
hope that made sense haha

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How do you do a "ghetto" gesture with your hands? I think it's the one where you write your name's intials with each hand sideways? Is that right? Some letters can't be done, can they? C, E, F, L, O, U, V, seem okay to do with one hand but the other letters need both hands.. does anyone know what I'm talking about?

are you talking about when people put their fingers up to write "bloods"?
let me know in feedback

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16/F

ive been looking for a camera that around $100 and ive found two that i like but i cant decide which one to get can i get ya'll opinion. http://www.amazon.com/A730-Digital-Camera-Optical-Black/dp/B000QGBCVY/ref=pd_bxgy_p_img_b
OR
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000R5K9RC/ref=pd_cp_p_1_img?pf_rd_p=250314001&pf_rd_s=center-41&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B000QGBCVY&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=0Q24BZDTCNW8F1VE4B3X

try consumer reports and you can compare them side by side. i usually do that and it helps. also, when you buy it, ask the sales person what they think of each one.

hope i helped!

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hi, i just got a new phone and they couldn't transfer my downloaded ringtones... i used phonezoo.com but i don't like that website anymore.. any suggestions?? thanks!

i use myxertones.com
almost everything is free. you just need to make sure it is. they have almost everything. and different pieces of the song.
as for sending it as a sound, i'm not sure. it talks about verizon phones [im sprint so i didn't bother to read it] i know it works for them though. try it.

hope i helped!

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why and why did kristin and brody jenner break up?

was brody jenner on "Punke'd" when kristin got punkd ?


and did lauren and stephen date? when? and why do lauren and kristin hate each other

lauren and kristen hate each other because of stephen. it was a love triangle. but that was during high school.

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im wanting to go to EKU or WKU to earn a degree in adolescent psychology. But there is one problem! I need help. When would i apply to one of these schools?? Even then how would i apply?? Could i just get a four year college plan?? like a bachelors degree??

And also what is the yearly salary for adolescent psychology?? Do you think that i could stay here in my hometown after i get my degree?? i live in like a, I wouldnt say small but i wouldnt say large. Im not even sure like medium. Somewhere between medium and small. Okay like so small everyone in my highschool know each other and we are all friends even with the two county schools.

Sorry if this is long and sorry about all the questions. Im just really confused and need some help!
THANKS!!!

to apply, [im guessing these are colleges] you got to their websites and they have all the information on when to apply and what to fill out.
you can find all of this on "myroad.com"
thats what i use. go to your guidance counselor, they'll help you [or they should] with everything

hope i helped!

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i live in the US and i want to get uggs, but i'd have to order them online. But since uggs are australian, when i select my size would I have to convert it into australian sizes?

also, what are your opinions on the crochet boots? because they don't have my size in the boots i want, so i was thinking about getting them instead. do you think they're ugly, nice, etc. ?

thank you :]

i didn't get my boots from their site. they have them at victorias secret, nordstroms, etc. victorias secret is backordered until february. i ordered mine from nordstroms. the size i usually am was what i chose, and they fit perfectly! and they came super quick!
as for the crochet, not many people can pull them off. and a lot of people dont like them. i dont mind them, but i'd stick with the regular boot.

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Hey, Ik this is long, but please, help...
Ok, I'm a 16-year-old sophmore. I really like this guy that's a freshmen. We'll call him J. I just started liking him not too long ago. Because @ our church group, we sometimes sit by each other and flirt... and at the end we stand up, and hold hands, and pray 2gether. Everytime we hold hands, he holds mine really tight. He squeezes it and pulls me closer to him... That's how I started likign him. Ok, now the real problem...The only 4 people I ended up telling where my bffs. However, someone else found out, and texts his buddies, and now the whole school knows. Everyone basically found out Thursday and Friday night! (including J) Everyone found out while I was cheering Thursday night @ the girl's game and Friday while I was cheering @ the boys game. (for basketball). At halftime of the boys game, I realized that everyone finally new. As, I looked up in the stands looking for 1 of my friends, I found J, and he just smiled and nodded towards me and I couldnt help but smile and say "hi". But, now, I don't know what to do. I dont know if he likes me or what... I don't know what to do... Especially since on Monday everyone will be bothering me about it...all day! Please, some1 help me ASAP!! Before Monday would be great! Thanks so much in advance!

i think he does like youu. if he was freaked out by you liking him, then he wouldn't have even looked at you at the game. let alone a nod.
if people bother you about liking him, and you aren't ready for people to know, then just say i dont know. hes cute though. or something like that. that usually gets people off your back.

hope i helped!

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i am sick of hearing the word gay being tossed around so carelessly. "that song is so gay!" how does that make ANY sense? does that song like other songs of the same gender? am i missing something here..?

i want people to know that i am gay and i find it very offensive to hear people use gay instead of stupid. i am gay. does that make me stupid?

if you are jewish and someone said "that movie is so jewish", you would get offended because jewish does not mean stupid. this is the same exact scenario: a minority being discriminated.

so why do people do this, and how do i get them to stop? =(

omg, i know exactly what you mean!
i'm straight but it still bothers me when people say it. you wouldn't say thats so straight.

anyways, what i did was tell people how dumb they sounded and i basically didn't want to hear it. none of my friends say it anymore except for once in a blue moon.

let people know it bothers youu.
hope i helped!

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13/f 8th grade

Ok I like this guy at my school....I think. I only have one class with him. He talks to me sometimes and always asks me for a piece of paper(don't ask why I added that..)

But I have no idea what to do. None of my friends know. My friends are really trustworthy though. The thing is I don't know everything about him and if I tell my friends that I like him they might think he's weird or something, you know. But I know I shouldn't care about what they think or anything but that I don't know much about him. I have hardly anytime to talk to him though except during extra time in my class.

I know he knows I exsist because he knows my name and talks to me so....I have no idea what to do. Its not so much about my friends here, its more about him. What should I do? Talk to him more? And if I do, how do I go up and talk to him during class? I'm more confused than ever. Any advice?



i think you should keep talking to him more.
the more you talk to him in class, the less weird it will be if you talk out of class.
do you sit near each other in class? that way its easy to talkk.
but if not, if you get grades back or something you can ask him what he got?
hope i helpedd !

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what is the quickest way to shrink jeans before saturday or sunday? (this weekend, it's wednesday)

can you just leave them in the dryer for a LONG time
or wash them in hotwater?
or what?!

and if you shrink do they shrink from the bottom too? to make them shorter?
pleaseee help, thanks

when i was my jeans they get really tight.
over time mine has shrunk in size. unless i grew like two inches. hahah
but i think you should dry and wash a couple times.
hope i helped!

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and our coach is getting really hardcore about training but my thighs are hurting soooooooo much it is difficult to sit down without pain in my thighs
is there anyway that i could alleviate this pain
*we practice mon-fri*
im a 10 grader doing hurdles

try icyy hot. or something like that. or lightly massage them. it'll get easier as you go too so you wont feel as much, if any, pain

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okay i want a free thing that does all the cool things that photoshop does, like makes you look really cool, like pretty, flawless, can make one thing color and the rest black and white and stuff like that.

can anyone give me a website please? thank you!

corel photoshop.
you only get a 30 trial. but you just keep downloading it. its not the best for your computer, but it works !
oh, and if you want all the filters that photoshop has, it has most of them but they're called effects.
http://www.corel.com/servlet/Satellite/us/en/Content/1152796555406

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okay so i took my boyfriends ipod so i can bring it home & put pictures & music on it for him. his computer won't let him. i don't have itunes so i tried using windows media player.. well i tried it & everything & i copied the music on there but it didn't show up on the ipod. so i was like okay w.e. i plugged it back in & the screen on the ipod says connected eject before disconnecting. & i disconnect it & the screen is like froze. it was working fine before & i just plugged it back in & it froze the ipod. i tried everythinggg. plugging it back in, unplugging it, turning it off; it won't let me. i pushed & helded every bottom. i swear i tried everything. i will not become unfroze. i told my boyfriend & hes like well fix itt. i'm like freaking out, i don't know what i did to itt. any ideas on what i did & how i can fix it ??? please help me.

thank youuuuuu.

mine has frozen before too. nothing worked. i waited until the battery ran out then charged it. it works fine now.
hope i helped !

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WEll, i think i am gay. I dont know what to do. I love my girlfirned, but i sometimes, i feel an atraction to other men. What do i do?

i agree. you might be bisexual.

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-I NEED TO GET THIS 0FF MY CHEST.
okay so i like this boy, lets just call him [C]
well ive liked c befor and he liked me to, well up until one day, one of his friends where all like; you cant like him he's like a brother to you, well i guess after that happend he stoped likeing me and started to call me "LIL SIS" i dont get why i guess cause he didnt want his BOYS saying things or picking on him i dont really know. well after that he got a 'GIRLFRIEND' so he deff didnt like me, but i still had a BIG crush on him i prob liked him for about three years until last year i stoped likeing him. well now ive seen him around alot and we kinda hang out. -I'M REAL COOL WITH ALL THE PEOPLE HE HANGS WITH-
and i'm starting to like him again, the thing is i know he doesnt like him exsept as a friend, I'M ALREADY STARTING TO SUPPER LIKE HIM;;
i try making him like me i wright him on myspace, & [T R Y] to make him keep talking to me like bring things up like how was your day and stuff, we only talk for about 2o mins then i'll wright him and he will just read it, [WHICH SUCKS CAUSE HES THE ONLY PERSON I WANAA TALK TO]

IDK i just dont want to start liking him all over again and get hurt.

my advice is how do stop liking this boy
or NOT GET HURT?

-please please please answer this question i dont care, whatever you have to say anything can help me at this point just please let me know.

okay well if you want to get over him, this is what i do.
you trick yourself into thinking you like someone else. someone you would never go out with or anything like that. and its better if you admire from afar. that way they wont get involved in the situation. eventually you stop liking the boy you really did like and this kid, you never liked him in the first place so hes easy to get over cause you admired from afar.
hope that makes sense. if not, let me know in feedback.

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Does anyone know what this font is called?

http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi186.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fx259%2FSabrina_Suicide%2Fjoin.jpg&searchTerm=join%20and%20apply&pageOffset=6

Thanks,

xx

i dont know the name for it, but i know a place that would most likely have it. dafont.com

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Hey IM 16/f and I have pretty bad acne. It seems to be on my left side check area. I went to the doctor and they gave me this 300$ medicine. But when I use it, in about two days, my skin is VERY dry. And it depresses me. Im not the girl that looks in the mirror 24/7 all day during school, so I never really know when my skin goes dry.
Is there ANY way I can keep it from getting sooo dry. I put coco butter on in the morning before my make up, and I start school at 8 and around 9 its soo dry. I cant keep putting on coco butter bc it rubs off my make up. Any thing I can do.. So bc of the dryness I stop using the medicine, and my face gets HORRIBLE!..
PLEASE HELP!! I really want to have a pretty face!!

If you would like pictures of my face I will take some and show you. And some after a couple days with the medicine... Thank you soo much to anyone..

this same thing happened to me.
your precription might be too strong. but no matter what your face is gonna peel.
i use a moisturizer from sephora by peter thomas roth. http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P6563&categoryId=C15861
it works pretty good.
maybe you could try using a pill. my friend uses that and it seems to work pretty good for her.

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Hi,
I read your answer, and I understand what your saying, but, what if, what if I'm never ready to let him go?

I always find it hard to let things go, whether it be people or posessions or thoughts or anything.

It's almost like I can't let go of the past.

And I'm worried that I'll never feel ready to let him go, and that maybe I need to break up with him to get over this.

I don't know.

What do you think?

when you care about someone its hard to let them go no matter what. sometimes you need to let them go because its better for both of you. maybe not at the time, but in the future.
to get over things, for me at least, they can't be in my sight. they can but its harder to get over. i had a boyfriend i couldn't get over even though i broke up with him. i had to keep his screen name hidden on my buddy list and change his name in my phone.
idk if that makes sense. let me know if you need more help.
oh and also, when im trying to get over someone i trick myself. [this is gonna sound so dumb buttt ...] i start to make myself think i like someone else. and its someone that i wouldn't really ever go out with. but i trick myself into liking them and when im over the other person i know it worked. and then i never really liked that other person so it works. [and im not saying use the other person. admiring from afar is good. hahah. thats what i do]

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