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about the whether to break up question.
Hi,
I read your answer, and I understand what your saying, but, what if, what if I'm never ready to let him go?
I always find it hard to let things go, whether it be people or posessions or thoughts or anything.
It's almost like I can't let go of the past.
And I'm worried that I'll never feel ready to let him go, and that maybe I need to break up with him to get over this.
I don't know.
What do you think?
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
when you care about someone its hard to let them go no matter what. sometimes you need to let them go because its better for both of you. maybe not at the time, but in the future.
to get over things, for me at least, they can't be in my sight. they can but its harder to get over. i had a boyfriend i couldn't get over even though i broke up with him. i had to keep his screen name hidden on my buddy list and change his name in my phone.
idk if that makes sense. let me know if you need more help.
oh and also, when im trying to get over someone i trick myself. [this is gonna sound so dumb buttt ...] i start to make myself think i like someone else. and its someone that i wouldn't really ever go out with. but i trick myself into liking them and when im over the other person i know it worked. and then i never really liked that other person so it works. [and im not saying use the other person. admiring from afar is good. hahah. thats what i do]
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