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iiM Ariella . iim 13 . uhmm i love qivinq advise so IM me or leave me 1 here ifu need anythinq. muuah! -AriiElLa* . oh and thanx ~*Annie*~ ur great!.








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hey i have brite blonde hair and my hair is 4 inches past my shoulders... my homecoming is coming up and i dont know how i should do my hair becuz my mom doesnt want me to go somewhere to get it done... my dress is black and pink and its like 5 inches past my knees kinda flowly.. how should i do my hair and makeup?? Thanks!!! * I rATE! *

Ok here ii qo . lol first:
MAKE-UP :black eyeliner , liqht pink eyesshadow , clear lipgloss , boddy shimmer , and treaighten you'r hair and put on a necklace . tahtsz all and vwala ur perfect .lmao

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How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks--

uhmm about 7-9 hoursz . 9 beinq qood.

x3 Arii*

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alright so one of my friends was talking to the boy i like. she said "ooh you know who you'd look so cute with?" and he says, "no, who?" ... she says my name... and then he changes the subject. she didnt say what his facial expression was- only that he changed subjects. can anyone translate to their best ability of what he might have been thinking.. ex: "oh i like her... better not say yes and change the subject," or "ew her.. better not say anything or she might be hurt"... if you need me to better specify things- ill ask again later

well ii really wanna help you so plz tell ema bout iit l8er bcusz there isnt enouqh detauils. u ken do that at:
MiSz x3 PiinK

muuuuuah!
x3 Arii*

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ok, there is tis guy at school who really likes me. so he asked me to the school dance, i said yes and we went together. i really wanted him to ask me to slow dance but he didn't until the last song, when i was tired and didn't want to dance anymore. so i said no thx, not maybe next time. now he thinks i rejected him from being a couple, and he won't even talk to me anymore. what should i do to get him to talk to me again?

well just tell him taht you like him and that u dditn dance cusz uwere dead tired . lol qood luck!

x3 Arii*

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okay i went out with this one boy we'll call landon, and he was sooo sweet.but i felt so insecure about myself,that i borke up w/ him.well he knows i like him know but my friend told him to call me if he still liked me,and he hasn't.what do u think is going on?!?!?like can u help?

umm i dun think he still likes you hun . probably he;s mad at you for breaking u with him .why dont YOU talk to hima nd not send your frined. it'll be better that way. maybe he's shy.

Hope ii helped .
x3 Arii *

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This girl likes me, and i like her, but she is not sure if she wants to go out with me, but it seems like we are still goin out and all, we kiss and hug and hang out like everyday, she says i dont have to wait for her, but i want to cause i think i like love her and shit

What should i do?

hah lol omq thats so beautiful you love her and shit! lol srry had to say that . well i think you're makinq the right choice you dun need to date everyother girl just wait for the right one just like you;re doing.. nice job

Muah
x ` O
Ariella*

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Ok well when i shave down there, the hair seems to grow back so unbeleiveably fast. How can I make it so it stays "fresh" for a longer amount of time?????

well u CAN qet a bikini wax. never tried iit but i heard iit hurts like a mother..lmao . uhmm ooo qet intuition shavers i use it for my legs and underarms and it stays hairless for like 2 weeks. hope i helped :)

Muah ,
Ariella*

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Hi. This is my first question ^_^
I'm 14 (15 next month) and I just got into high school. Last year and all the school years before it I went to a private seventh-day adventist school. This year I switched over to public school because the private school was getting worse and I wanted to take Japanese and Computer Programming, which it didn't offer.
Well, on the first day of school, I didn't know -anyone- and this girl, let's call her "D", invited me to eat lunch with her and her friend (who we can call "G").
They're very nice, and we've become like best friends. D and G have known each other forever, and are best friends, so I sort of feel like the third wheel. My best friend since I was 5 goes to that school, but she has a different lunch period and since she's a junior we have no classes together.
I'm not really like D and G. As I've gotten to know them, I see they're sort of like the girls who talk about other girls just because they're prettier or smarter than them (without realizing it, unfortunately many females do this unintentionally and ignorantly). I know some people now, and I think I'd want to eat lunch with them more, but I would feel bad leaving D and G alone, since our table is less filled than others.
They always talk about these guys they like and how hot they are, and I don't like the same type of guys. Usually, I won't like a guy before talking to him, I need to know the intellectual side of them first, but D and G know I don't like their type and they constantly talk about their "guys" (they also stalk them, and I don't really want to get a stalker reputation since I don't, I was just talking with D and G).
Should I ditch them, and how so?
Thanks.
-Farren

dun hanq around them if they're not the riqht crown (ii dun mean in popularity terms) i eman friendship wise . ii bet u wnat a qoog friend not oine that gossips ALL dady i eman heck yeh i qossip too but not as much u kno . srry qood luck

muAh , AriElLa*

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hey, i'm 15 and live with a brotehr and a mom and dad. well i get in fights with my brother and parents alot but they end up in fist fights. When me and my brotehr fight, it is really bad, and i end up being the one getting hurt the worst (he's 18) and i am the one that gets in trouble and he gets in none. but me and my mom get in major fights. she hits me a lot and kicks me and hits me with just random things. i dont know what to do about it. but of course i fight back, cause who wouldnt even tho its my mom. and my dad sees it alot but he doesnt help me to get her away. I have been hit so many times and even given a black eye by my family. i dont know what to do. i have called dfacs, but they didnt do anything and the police have been called out to my hosue too. but nothing seems to work. and there are fights about everything and it ends up with me in the middle of it and in a bunch of trouble for htings i had nothing to do with! i need serious help before something major happens! please... i hope someone out there can help me!

omq . i know a girl who hasz the same story as you and lemme tell you somethinq u should take you and your family to a psycologist and try it out , try everythinq before even thinkinq about fister bcuusz my friend (who;'s also ym cousin) was beaten by her mom and called foster care and ii havent seen her for a while now . just trsut me iits not a good life to live . just think about doing this..next time u sence a fight coming lock yourself into a room and put the music on loud or call a friend . hope i helped i reeeally care about how u turn out. qood luck

much love *
Ariella*

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Ok, recently, I've been telling a lot of lies. I've always had a good imagination so it's easy for me to make up a story or excuse very quickly. I noticed at the end of August that if I was asked a question, I said the first thing that came to my mind without really thinking about it. I ended up saying some pretty stupid stuff that wasn't really true. However, I despise being put on the spot so I just let it go. In the past couple of weeks though, I have been making up all sorts of stuff without even thinking twice. I don't do it on purpose, but when someone asks me a question I automatically tell them what they WANT to hear, even if it's not the truth. I hate myself after I do it, but because it's already out there, I just let it be. I don't know if this is a mental issue or not, but it seems like it is, since I don't seem to have much control over what I say anymore. Last week, I was sick and out of school for three days. My teacher asked me if I was so sick I was throwing up, because thats what she thinks of as sick. Automatically I just said yes and then continued to tell her that I was so horribly sick that I barely got out of bed for the whole time I was gone. I didn't mean to say it. I'm close to this teacher and I usually tell her the truth no matter what the case. I've even lied to my mom and my friends. I am scared I am losing it. I don't know what to do. What do you think I should do?

hehe not a biq deal . lol i lie sometimes.. hehe im not gonna lie. i lie a lot . lol anywaysz i try not to overdue it tho so i dont lie about impt. stuff . anywaysz just think befroe u speak and everything should be ok

muuuah! loveya!
Arii*

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My cousin is pregnant (she's married and she's 25 so you don't think she's like young and a whore). Everyone in our family is having a hard time to figure out names for the baby. I'm pretty sure it's going to be a boy, but to be on the safe side, can you give me really cute baby names? Besides Michael, Emily, Lisa, Jaquelene, Joy, Jonathan, Julie, and Jason? Because Joy and Lisa are her sisters, Jason is her brother, Jonathan, Julie, Michael, and Emily are her cousins (Emily is me) and Jaquelene is her daughters name so we don't want to have any kids with the same name in our family. She's not that great at naming. She was gonna name her daughter Fern. I'm sorry if you're name is Fern but honestly, a fern is a plant. A flower is MUCH prettier than Fern. Sorry if that was offencive to anyone on here named Fern!! Thanks so much if you can help me!

lol i think Ariella is a hot name! lol (for a girl)..lol and Josh or bryan zach and alec those are nice boy name

ii hope i helped ,Ariella

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hey if you ahd to pic which kinda doq qiould you guys get a a name for it too . a yorkiie toy (toy yorkiie .wtvr lol) or a toy chiwawa apple head (soo cute!)

lol thanx. plz answer
Ariella*

thanx soo much lol i cant wait to get it now :) . lol
Ariella*

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ok well i have like the hottest boyfriend! well he came over the other night and my friend was over and he had a friend...well he talked to me like we were best friends...oopps i forgot to tell you we have only been going out a week anyways.. i always say hi to him and he never says hi to me and i feel like he doesnt like me and i cant go thru with that.. i mean i almost love him and he is so hilarious and i wrote him a note and asked why he never talks to me and if we were still going out and he never gave me it back HELP!!!

what do u wnat from him!! (lol jk) he;s just beinq a normal guy he needs his space too and trust em he asked you out he prob still like you just give him space :)

hope ii helped :)

Arii*

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okay..my friend is a little too embarrassed to ask this wuestion cuz she thinks somehow it is going to be traced back to her.. buh she says..she is a 34-C so shes a good size but her nipples are still the whitish color. is that normal or should they be a darker color by now because a lot of her friends have darker nipples than her and she doesnt know if its normal or not. thanks

i think it should be normail . i mean every1 is differant. it most likely means that she had 34-c and is still groing (and isnt done growing yet)

qood luCk With yOur Friend!
Arii*

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ok im not allowed to have a date for homecoming but alot of guys tell me im hott and are like i cant believe u have date and all these guys all ways start at me wut is wrong are they afraid im gunna say no or wut? thanks i rate!

wo! i cant undertsnad a word you just said . lol srry ill try my best tho . ok it seems so me like guys like you a lot just pick one guy tog o with and you'll be fine. lol hope i helped even if i couldnt understand!
lol srry
MuAh Byesz
ii hope ii heLpEd!
Arii*

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ok i've had a crush in this boy named Josh 4th grade and it's not just a crush i reeeeally like him for his inside too, so does like every other girl in the class too, any ways it all started when i introdused him to one of my friends and he had a crush on her and he likes her (im not sure if he still does) anywyas so one nigth we were all online talking to eachother (seperatly) and she tells him that i like him after i begged her NOT to. ne ways so she does and he IMs me saying "you like me?""really" and i kept saying yeah i think you alright. here's my Q . do u think he likes me back or he wuz just wondering if he likes me. im kind of regreting taht my ffriend told him bcusz we used to be reaslly good friends and now im shy to talk to him. what should i do? and what does he mean?

thanks,
Ariella*

PS: please dont answer telling me im to young to have a Bf!! lol i know im only 13 but still! lol

yeh but iits harder than you think . lol i reeally dunno what to do.

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okay i like this guy and i flirt wit him and he be flirtin wit me back, i really really like him and he knows this cuz my friends told him, so today and like 2 weeks ago..he was like oh do u like matt and i was like idk and he was like do u wanna go wit him and i was like naw and he was like do u wanna go wit me..and i didnt kno if he was jokin around or bein seirous so i didnt wanna feel stupid so i sed no..like not like mean or ne thing just like laughing bout it..so my question is wut should i do bout this i mean i would like to go wit him but i dont kno if he was like seirous..plz help..thanks

you should've said yes and then if he was jokin you should say "duh so was i" . lol hope i helped

lOve : Ariella* / /

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ok well i hav known this guy chris for a while now and weve been friends with benefits for like a realllllly long time now...weve gone through alot.....and we finally made time to see eachother on a regular basis (we go to diff skools) and he asked me out sept 25....i seriously think im love...i know we havent been goin out for very long, but weve acted like it for so long...he is everything i WANT! and well i have a few probs....1..he smokes weed...he just started...last time i went to his house...he was high and he told me he loved me...i didnt know if he ment it...so i didnt say nething back..and i kinda changed the subj....well wat shuld i do bout that? and my other 1s are....he doesnt like to talk for a while like on the fone...he never has....i mean hell call me EVERYDAY which is gr8 but we only talk for like 2 mins....i try to keep him on the fone but he kinda is just like o well ill call u tomrrow n stuff like that....and we make plans in like 2 mins! its nice but i wanna talk longer but idk how to tell him this i dont wanna make him feel like he HAS to talk to me for 20mins or watever....ok n my other one...i think i love him....ive NEVER felt this way bout ne 1..i want to tell him i love him...but im scared.....wat shuld i do...plz help i just dont now....im scared of rejection...i have a REALLY hard time trusting guys bc theyve ALL screwd me over or hav only gone out with me for bets or watever....so when he doesnt call i think he hates me n i get really sad...idk i just need help wat do u guyz think of this?? =\

well since you really love him the you should help him with his addiction to weed or whatever . make him stop! lol and iits alright u dun need to talk to him ont eh hpone for 20 min. if you see him a lot thats all taht really matters. atleast you guys keep in touch.the onyl thing wrong with this is taht he smokes weed. hun my advise is to make him stop or leave him. srry iif i was to harsh . lol

x ` O
Ariella*

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My friend katie and lisa and this other girl carly, were waiting after practice for their rides and carly had Katies cell phone and she threw it on lisa to get her to pay attention. Since Lisa wasn't paying attention, she didn't catch it, so it bounced off her stomach and hit the ground and it kinda broke, some pieces came off and the front is all messed up. Carly acted liek it was nothing, and didn't really apologize. My questions are:
1. Do you think Carly should pay a small price to get it fixed or for consulation? Or have her apologize.
2. If so, how should katie approach her and ask for either money or an apology?

Thanks

ok yes carly should definatly pay. i mean what was she thinking throwning some1 else's cell phone one some1?!? and the way to approach her is to just say to her that she should have done that and she should pay.

hOpe ii helPed
Ariella*

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hi. im 15 and my bro is 17 and he has alot of hot friends that are always at my house... and they are OBSESSED w/ me... there always like touching me and telling me how hott i am and like hey sexy and uh more feeling.. lol. im not going to lie.. i like it.. what girl wouldnt like attention from hotties.. but its gets annoying.. and sometimes its uncomfortable.
should i do anything

well .ii toltally understand you. you like the attention (obviously) but u just dont like ebing touched . just ask them to stop and if they dont go to your brother .

x ` O
Ariella
PS: ii hope ii helped!

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