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hey advicenators, my name is caitlin. i love giving people advice. i`ve had a previous advice column, but decided to quit giving advice. i regretted that and got a new column! this pretty much became my obession very fast. im on basically everyday, at least once. i never reject any questions that i get in my inbox, because i think that no question is stupid. when i do get questions in my in my inbox, it makes my day :]! remember that i cant see who you are. so you shouldnt feel embarassed to ask me anything! also just because i have my three favorite categories doesn`t mean that im not open to answer any other types of questions. i love getting feedback. it lets me know that im doing my job well! every question that i do ask on this site always gets rated. i mean you have to know if your giving good advice or not, right? if you do like my advice, feel free to add me as one of your favorite columnists!
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Okay I'm not sure whether I'm a B cup or a C cup.
I'm used to my bras being tight (B cup)
And I have a C cup bra.. and it's.. like I can breathe.I fill up the cups so it's not loose.
So does that mean I'm a C cup?
go into victorias secret and have them measure you. regardless of waht they tell you, keep whatever you feel more comfortable in.
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Ok well, we are about 17 and me and my girlfriend Britney have been going out for about three years now and i really love her. but i have no clue what to get her for christmas? usually i am pretty good at this stuff but this year i am clueless??? i have about like $250 to $300 to spend. Can someone please help me come up with some ideas for her? Thanks in advance !
get her something from tiffany&co. i love it there :].
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where do you type in the html to hide your top friends?
put the code in the about me section.
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If a guy doesn't come in you, is it considered sex?
yeah it still is considered sex. if your vagina and his penis touch its sex.
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Hey..i want to change my background and i know how to get the colors they have but how do you get stars or hearts or whatever. Can someone give me directions please? thank you.
go to your column settings. then there are some premade layouts that you can use there. they have some hearts and stars.
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for christmas, i want to get "santa" to go over to my friend's house. i know she would lOVE it.
is there a company or something that would do that?
if so, how much would it cost?
thanks.
=]
try a little kid company where people like dress up as barney. im sure that there will be something in the phonebook. if nto then just ask one of your friends to dress up as santa.
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hey I'm 15 and there's thsi really good product that get rid of hairs PERMANATELY! Great huh? Well people concider 15 years of age is young so should I use it? Because I'm not sure if young people should use it but what's the harm of getting rid of unwanted hair sooner?
http://www.nevershaveagain.com/default.aspx?source=overture&word=lhr23
i dont think that you should use it. those types of products dont usualy work. but if you want to try it, then find out why 15 year olds cant use it. if you cant find out why i wouldnt use it because it might be dangerous.
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so yeah for the hair ideas you said you needed to know what my hair was like to answer it. well its blonde with natural highlighs of like all diffrent shades of blonde, shoulder length (i wanna grow it longer), i dont have bangs but i have a face frame and layers. umm whats else...its naturaly wavy (like when you come back from the beach or something).
so yep =]
okay thanks! =]. well i think getting side bangs would make your hair style cute and less plain. something like this.
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/images/Allison_Mack003StuartLittle2Premiere_250h.jpg
if your going with the sidebangs so styles such as putting a skinny headband in your hair leaving your side bangs out and have the rest of your hair down straightened or srunched. if your straightener works well with you hair then keep it, but if not then i dont reccomend the little straighteners that straighen and little at a time, but the thic big ones. i got my straightener at bed bath and beyond and its works great. it was like 80$. for scrunchingg you should use aussie sprunching spray. yes sprunching not scrunching. for gel use herbal essecsnes. you can also do those two styles in a pony or bun. if your not going to go with the bangs, get a clip and clip some hair in the front back. its just like the bump that everyone wears. keep it down straightned or scrunhced. if your feeeling bold, crimp it. crimpers dont work well. just put little tiny braids in your hiar while its wet. then sleep on it. take them out in the mornig.
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so i just found out the love of my life is goin away for 6 months. we were together for a month then we broke up but we still acted like we were together u know kissing and everything. he told me today that he was goin away. he wants to have sex and so do i but do you think this is rite?? so you think im gonna git my heart broken? all my friends think so but thats just because they dont know him. by the way im a virgin so this will be my first time. PLEASE HELP!!!!
dont do it. hes going away for 6 months. he just wants to have sex with you then leave you for 6 months. he will prob. have hookups wherever he is going.
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I want to loose 15 pounds by Februrary. Is this possible? Without being insanely strict, how can I achieve this? Exercise/diet plans, please!
just tone yourself up. do crunches and leglifts. for your arms get those little handweights. dont cut down on food just eat heathier.
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alright well firstly, i need some real good black eyeliner because mine always smears or fades and makes me look creapy like some kind of goth/emo (i have nothing against goths/emos-just not my style)i also have blue eyes and i want something that will make them pop.
and i need some like ideas on what good hair styles are (im blonde) and like what colors i should wear =]
thanksss
wear colors that match your eyes. nice blues, that will really make your eyes POP =]. maybelline eyeliner is the best. as for hairstyles, i need you to messsage me how long your hair is, what type your hair is, and if you have bangs. then ill help you. =].
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i have to plan two surprise parties in december/january. i don't know if i can have them in my house, because i don't like having guys in my house (they would be guy/girl) with my parents and stuff, i dont know its just annoying. for one, my friend offered to have it at her house (maybe). but is there somewhere we could like go that i could have it? besides a resturant, somewhere where we could like hang out and have music maybe...that wouldn't cost too much money?
you could rent a hall for it. also you could make it a backyard party. that way your parents wouldnt be so clingy.
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HOPEFULLY YOULL SEE THISS!
HALLS ARE DIFFERNT AMOUNTS OF MONEY DEPENDING ON WHERE YOUR LOOKING TO HAVE IT. IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE ANYTHING TO TO NICE, CONSIDERING ITS ONLY TEENAGERS.
my friend's birthday is coming up, i want to give her a really good present because she always gets me really good stuff, having to do with our like inside jokes and suchh. any ideas?
you could get a cute picutre of you too and put a frame around it that says like best friends or something. even get an engraved on that says like your names and then bestfriends since whenerver you met. then go on paint on your computer and make little word bubbles near your mouths and make it say one of your insdie jokes. =].
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this guy is really bothering mee. he always IMs me and says really nasty and perverted things to me. i tried blocking him, but he got my other screename and got mad at me for blocking him. i don't want to be really mean, but it's gross and he tells me he like wants to have sex with me and stuff. then, when i don't respond on IM (i usually don't really say anything) he messages me on myspace and stufff. i don't know what to do. how do i like show him i'm not interested? i already tried blocking him and not really talking to him but he doesn't stop.. it's been going on since the summer.
politely tell him that your not interested. giving him the cold shoulder doesnt always work. block him on aim and myspace. if he doesnt stop tell a trusted adult. its harassment. its illegal.
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I feel like I'm more spiritual than Religious. My family is of the Christian faith. I'm not sure that I'm that religious. I believe in horoscopes (don't judge me) and the power of herbal healing and I feel like I'm more intouch with my spiritual side. Then again, I feel bad for being like that because I'm afraid I'm going to go to hell for not being that religious. I just feel guilty.
What are y'alls opinions on this?
What should I do?
you wont go to hell just for being spirtual. keep in touch with your god. pray to him every night before you go to bed. im not saying make a huge prayer up with 15 differnt lines, im saying just say hi to him and say thank you.
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I really need to pass all my classes with at least
a B+ the next 3 months because my parents are not cutting me any slack and my friends all get good grades and just once i would like to prove to them that i could get good grades also. So i need a study routine or something that'll help me get on track to better grades. PLEASE HELP!
pay attention in class. i know there are tons and tons of distractions, but thats one key to getting good grades. another one is while doing homeowrk dont watch tv or listen to music. it doesnt help concentrate you at all. do all your homework. homework is almost half of your grade. study for tests. getting good grades on tests is essential. when i say study i dont mean 10 minute studying. i mean at least an hour. organization is also important. i know its alot of work, but its what you have to do.
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Hey there. I was wondering if there is a differnt website besides the website on myspace that has music for my myspace. Music that doesn't come with a video.. I don't want a video. I want the song "Let it be Christmas" by Alan Jackson and it's not on myspace music. Does anyone know any other website that might have it with out a video?
i dont know of another website, but i think i might have a soultion for you. you can get a myspace music account. its like a regular myspace but you can upload up to 4 songs. its just liek if you type in an artist say beyonce and then go to thtere page and then tehre songs. thats what it is. you need limewire or another music thing to upload songs tho.
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I am 13 years old. I am in grade 8 and life is getting somplicated. Almost all my friends are guys and now the most popular girl in school say I flirt a lot with all the guys. She spread a nickname for me called "Boy Toy" and now I cant talk to a guy without anyone making a big deal about it. One of my most trustworthy friends is a guy and ill admit I kind of like him now but its just too weird. But now shes got even my best friend believing I flirt with him all the time and hes starting to avoid me some more. What I mean is usually when we see eachother he gives me a giant smile and stuff and stops and talks to me. Now he like looks away. I dont know what to do. Its not like im a huge flirt (I think) Ive never even truely gone out with a guy. What should I do?
just shake it off. think about it. if the boys didnt stop talking to you would it really be a problem? i dont think it would be. anyways so what if your a flirt. its cute to be a flirt. if the guys stop talking to you then there losers. you should talk to them about it and see what happens from there.
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Why are so many teenagers these days (particularly girls) obsessed with losing weight while they are like 100 lb?? Seriously, a girl who is like 12, 5 feet and 2 inches, and then complains she is overweight is actually underweight!
I don't get why girls want to get to be like 75 lb. Does anybody agree with me here?
i agree with you 100%. the reason why most girls do that is because they see all the models in magazines that are stick thin and then they think that they need to have that image.
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some of my shirts stretched out in the wash. how do i get the shirts back to their normal size. In other words shrink them a bit. I don't have a dryer so that's out of the question.
if you dont have a dryer then go to a laundrymat and use one of theres. thats pretty much the only way to shrink a shirt a lot. hanging it outside after washing it does shrink it a little. but not too much.
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