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(D)ream guy:My hunnie

(E)yes:Brown

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well i was walking home from school and an old man came up to me he groped me so i punched him in his nose it was the first thing that came into my head,and it started bleeding he told me he was going to press charges what should i do? (link)
Let him press charges because you wont get anything cause its called Self defense..So dont even worry about it he was just trying to make you scared.♥ Rate me


I have a question regarding kissing. You know how in movies two people will be close to eachother & just start kissing at the same time? Even if they aren't "together". Well, I know movies are fake but does anything similar to that occur in real life? Like, is there a magnetic attraction of some sort that will just bring too people together like that? (link)
It all depends like the first time me and my boyfriend kissed we were talking about being together u know like boyfriend and girl friend n we were talking face to face and he was like i really do care about you alot and we just made eye contact for a while and it happened. It was the perfect moment and the perfect time something that you will never forget.. Hope I helped,


first of all you are a perverted moron! how would u know this syuff?! eww you r such an ass for giving such wrong advice! Dont beleive her the person that asked this question! dont do it! (link)
what are u talking about?


i always get really bad cramps when i have my period. does anyone know good ways to dull the pain, either home remidies or medication? thanks. (link)
I get the same way and i just hate it so much what I do is I take Ibuprofen and get a heating pad and lay down on the coach or you can get a nice hot shower but I always curl up and a little ball and it helps me a little bit.. I hope I helped. Or and you can also go swimming that easys the pain some.. ♥


when shaving "down there" for females, is it normal for your skin to turn a dark color? (link)
Your hair is already a dark color when you save its even darker its nothing to be worried about.. Hope I helped.♥


I'm a 14/f. My pubic mound seems bigger than normal. I noticed everyone else's is flat, but then again, I'm behind in the race of maturity...I just started my period 2 months ago. Will it flatten as I mature?

Help, I rate well! (link)
Yes sweetie it will.. Everyones body is different.. ♥ Amanda


I really like this guy but he acts like he has me whipped. Is there any way I can still show interest without being so "easy" ? (link)
Just act like your hard to get act like you dont need him to do things for you and he will see that he doesnt have you whipped and the tables will turn and he will be the one.. Hoep I helped.


mmk, so i really need to go to my friends house really bad because we havent seen eachother in forever...(okay okay like 1 week but ya no, its my bff) and my mom wont let me ebcasue she says that i have to stay home with my sister. my sister is 10 and isnt 10 the legal age to leave ur kid home? well i need reasons...like why i should be able to go...im already gonna clean the house and everything...I need advice FAST!! PLZ HELP!! (link)
You can always ask your friend to come over to your house while you are watching your sister .. That way your doing what your mom tells you and still seeing your bestfriend.


i used to like this guy a long time ago and i got over him. but now i think hes hitting on me. he slaps my butt and hugs me all the time. i've never had a boyfiend before so i dont feelcomfortable when he touches me. he acts all pervertive and stuf and wherever i go he goes and its annoying!hes had many girlfriends in the past and i dont know if hes doing this to other girls and not just me. please help. i dont know what to do anymore. he wont give me space to breathe! Help! (link)
I used to go through that same thing with guys I got so tired of them smacking my ass and 4 them talking so nasty to me its like how old are you gus again? just let him know that your sick of it and he needs to stop or you can always scare him and tell him that you can get him for harrassment and trust me he wont do it again. Hope I helped rate me


Ok..what are you supposed to do if the guys dick doesnt fit? Haha I know it wont. Trust me. I have stuck things up myself before and they didnt always fit and they were smaller than what a dick is. Haha it would be like so embarrassing and stuff. What are we supposed to do? Is it everrr going to fit? Help! (link)
Well he can always try and finger you that sorta gets the hole bigger but just tell him when he goes to put it in that he takes his time cause trust me it will hurt :(... and besides you rather be tight then be loose cause that means you slept around alot.Hope I helped.. Rate me


okay well me and my boyfriend were going out for 5 years and then he proposed, and well we were gonna get married but some stuff happened and we made each other really mad so we broke up. so then he got a girlfriend and they got married. so i wasnt that upset because i had a boyfriend. and we went to my xboyfriends house to see it, because we dont hate each other. and then i was mad when i saw the house because it was the one i'd been looking at for like ever. so my boyfriend and his wife were inside and i was outside getting some air and he came out and he was turning the sprinklers on, and i walked up and asked him what his problem was and he fliped out on me and was saying how my boyfriend doesnt love me and hes only with me because im hott. then i got upset and my boyfriend drove me back to where we lived at a camp. so i told everyone [family + friends that live there] and they got mad at him. and he showed up 2 days later and told everyone that he still loved me and all that. so then my boyfriend proposed to me and i didnt know what was wrong, i said no. i told him i loved him and everything but i still had feeling for my xboyfriend. so i went to walmart ((idk why)) and i saw him there. and i asked him if he still loved me why he got married. nd he said cuz he wanted me to feel the pain he put me through. so i told everyone at home that we were back together and now theyre all mad..did i really do anything that bad? (link)
I think that you did the best thing for you. I foyu really did love each other then why not be together? Your family and friends are just mad because they knew how much this guy has hurt you and they dont liek to see you hurt maybe they will see that you guys are happy together an that things are different and they will be okay with it to. I hope that things work out for you both.But dont think that you did everything wrong if you listened to whatever one else was saying about your guys or who you should and shouldnt date would you really be happy?Follow your heart you seem to me that your happy.Rate me


Ok here it is, my boyfriend hasent called me in like 3 weeks and i called him 3 times in the past week and he hasent returned my calls. When i called him last Sunday to tell him somthing his mom pick up and i asked for him and she said "who is this Brittney" (My name is not Brittney) I have no clue what to do!!!!! Can you help me? (link)
I think that your boyfriend doesnt want to be with you i know that really hurts to hear but he didnt know how to tell you so he decided to get someone knew and not talk to you anymore thinking that you would get the hit. Trust me it has happened to me many of times.So just say whatever then and move on either find someone knew or hang out with your friends that will get your mind off of him and dont call him because then people will say that your "sweating" him and thats never good for a girl. Later he will see that he didnt mean much to you and it didnt take much for you to figure his game out and then he will want you back .. Sorry to hear your story but I really hope I helped.. I pretty sure your a nice sweet pretty girl and you can find someone that will treat you way better .. Rate me


Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^ (link)
It seems to me that he does like you but you cant be to sure because there are alot of guys that flirt with girls that are called "the ladys man" You just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime just you and him like go to the movies or something together or go to the mall and if he still acts the same way around you when you all alone then just tell him how you feel he might just feel the same about you to. Hope I helped. Rate me.


hey.. im a 23/m... my mom and my xgirlfriend are like really close. well, we all live at a campsite and we are all really close, there's like, a bunch of friends living together, but i dont really have to explain that. well, they are really close because we've all known eachother since we were like 6, and all the older ones were like, 40. anyway. well, i really think i still like her, a little, but we broke up because i came in drunk and she got upset, and well we were gonna get engaged but it didnt work out. nd now her and my mom are really close and its bothering me a little, because now im all awkward around her, even though ive known her my whole entire life. (link)
Well you can stop drinking just go up to her and ask her if she wants to go to dinner together or som,ewhere just the two of you and maybe she will see that you have changed and she would want to take you back. Tell her who you feel about her and that you are willing to change.. Hope things work out


Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently? (link)
Hey she is suppose to be your friend you should be able to tell your friend anything no matter what she might get upset at first yes but then she will see that you told her the truth and that you wouldnt date him not only because you dont like him but because she is your friend and you dont do that to her. Tell him the same tell him that she is your friend and that you dont want to hurt her and that she liked him first .. Hope I helped rate me


I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?
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Just when you start your new school hang out with your new friends that you have and act yourself and sooner or later they will see the real you and decide if they like it or not. Just remember dont let people judge you.Hope I helped..Rate me


Hi I need help thinking of a sn. Here is some stuff about me
i'm 13
a black girl
I like to shop
I like sports like vollyball,basketball,tennis
I like to act
I like hip hop,rap is o.k basicley all types of music but not country
i love R&B
I like usher, alicia keys,Mariah Carey,Eminem,
I hope thats enough stuff about me and
Thanks (link)
xosexyR&Bgirlxo
xobabygirlxo
sportybabe06

whatever you like rate me.. thats all i can think of sorry


Hi i'm 13 years old and my mom said that I can not use a tampon until I break my hymen or have sex but she said if i have sex she will kick me out of the house and my mom said that i could kill my self if i use a tampon how do you kill yourself with a tampon and do you have to break your hymen to use a tampon cause most of my friends use them. (link)
I never heard of such a thing lol killing yourself? maybe your mom is just telling you that so that you wont use them. I started to use them before I had sex they are way much better then PADS:) all i did was read the directions and just tryed it myself.Hope I helped rate me.


I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do? (link)
Well it depends.. If you love her then you should stay down here with her.. Wait intil ur noth out of school then move with your dad and she can move with you. if you think that you and her have a life together dont through it away.It seems to me that you really do love and care about her dont mess it up. Follow your heart..


A couple months ago me and this guy got together. Turns out he said he just wants to be friends. Anyway, Im going to see him next week he lives in west virgina i live in north carolina. When I say get together I dont mean go out I mean we just act like a couple. Anyway, I was talking online and I was like "I cant wait to see you I mean see all of you guys" and he was like "yeah I cant wait to see you either" does this mean he wants to "be with me" again? and not just friends? (link)
Umm it all depends just see how he acts around you when you get there .. I mean you guys dont leave near each other do you think that it is going to work out? I mean do you trust him enough to know that when you are not around that he wont cheat on you. He might just say he misses you as a friend or maybe even more just see how he acts when your with him.. Hope I helped..




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