okay well me and my boyfriend were going out for 5 years and then he proposed, and well we were gonna get married but some stuff happened and we made each other really mad so we broke up. so then he got a girlfriend and they got married. so i wasnt that upset because i had a boyfriend. and we went to my xboyfriends house to see it, because we dont hate each other. and then i was mad when i saw the house because it was the one i'd been looking at for like ever. so my boyfriend and his wife were inside and i was outside getting some air and he came out and he was turning the sprinklers on, and i walked up and asked him what his problem was and he fliped out on me and was saying how my boyfriend doesnt love me and hes only with me because im hott. then i got upset and my boyfriend drove me back to where we lived at a camp. so i told everyone [family + friends that live there] and they got mad at him. and he showed up 2 days later and told everyone that he still loved me and all that. so then my boyfriend proposed to me and i didnt know what was wrong, i said no. i told him i loved him and everything but i still had feeling for my xboyfriend. so i went to walmart ((idk why)) and i saw him there. and i asked him if he still loved me why he got married. nd he said cuz he wanted me to feel the pain he put me through. so i told everyone at home that we were back together and now theyre all mad..did i really do anything that bad?
karenR answered Thursday June 16 2005, 2:01 am: Well lets see. Messing with a married man is a pretty big no no don't you think? Doesn't matter much that hes such an imbecile that he marries another girl just to show you what pain is. Talk about your morons! Sorry but he seems a little stupid to me. Getting married is serious. It is not play time. You/he are messing with other peoples lives. Maybe when his WIFE finds out she will pull a Lorena Bobbitt act on him and spare the world of any further activity on his part. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
PrincessAva answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 11:57 pm: But if he's married, how are you back together. Anyways, from what i read other then he is married you didnt do any thing that bad.
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girlygirl answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 4:25 pm: for one thing, you sound too young for marriage to begin with. No one that truly cares about you would marry someone else to spite you. Seems more like he considers his marriage just like going steady. and what about that poor girl, maybe she really does love him. you both made your beds and should lie in them.... he's already in a marriage and he needs to devote himself entirely to that or walk away - there is no inbetween. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
lilaquidas18 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:48 pm: I think that you did the best thing for you. I foyu really did love each other then why not be together? Your family and friends are just mad because they knew how much this guy has hurt you and they dont liek to see you hurt maybe they will see that you guys are happy together an that things are different and they will be okay with it to. I hope that things work out for you both.But dont think that you did everything wrong if you listened to whatever one else was saying about your guys or who you should and shouldnt date would you really be happy?Follow your heart you seem to me that your happy.Rate me [ lilaquidas18's advice column | Ask lilaquidas18 A Question ]
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