My name is Lacey, I'm 22. 4th yr in college. I like to give advice. I try to be a good person.I'm a very outspoken and honest person.I honestly been through alot throughout my years of dating and taking peoples stuff.I play softball and use to play volleyball.I've been playing softball since I was about 5.And I played volleyball since 7th grade til sophomore year in HS.But that's really it.If you want to know more about me or have any questions.Go for it and ask away.Either message me or IM me sometime.BYEEE!
E-mail: lacey.simmons8@yahoo.com
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Location: Houston,TX
Age: 22
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I meet a guy from a nearby town tonight, and since i know his friends we will probably keep in touch, but i got the feeling (my friend did also) that he might be interested in me. Can anyone tell the me the best ways to tell if a guys interested? (link)
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You can probaly tell if he sounds interested in you if he keeps trying to talk to you.Asks you questions.Personal or just in general.Keeps wanting to know more about you.Wants to hang out again or asks for your number.Asks your friends about you.Also, if he starts flirting or eyeing you.It can be obvious,But some guys don't make it so obvious, but if you think he's interested let him be.If your interested back, talk to him and get to know him.Hope I helped. :]
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16/f
My first and last boyfriend was almost a year ago. And i know you shouldn't need a boyfriend to be happy but i have a big group of friends only 2 of them are single and i just feel really left out. We always hang out and its all couple except me and the 2 other girls(who by the way don't like me,long story). I just want that someone. and i dont know what to do. I'm sorta shy when i first meet people, or i just right off the bat think they don't like me. What should i doo!? (link)
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Honestly, being patient is the key to getting a boyfriend.If your looking too hard.. you tend to make bad decisions.Just be yourself and have fun.Don't go out and look for one.One will see you and only you and have a connection with you.Just build that confidence and have a decent conversation with a guy your interested in.Yet, I will say that you don't need a boyfriend in order to satify you.Just because everyone else has a boyfriend , doesn't mean your bad or should be left out.That just means they get to be in a commited relationship and can't flirt with guys.So take that opportunity and have fun.Don't worry about guys.They will come and go.Have fun.And good luck! :]
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17/f. So there's this guy that I've liked for awhile now, and I just want to get over him. I mean, he's a good guy and all, but I just don't really feel like I have a reason to like him anymore.
This whole summer, I've been making an effort to hang out with him, but we haven't hung out once, so obviously he doesn't like me back.
Whenever we talk online, he talks about himself alot and always takes a long time to respond whenever I'm talking, and sometimes when I talk to him I feel like I don't like him.
I'm probably not going to see him school next year, and I'm sick of being upset that I haven't seen him in a really long time and that he most likely does not feel the same way about me.
So why can't I get over him? Any ideas on how to get over him? =/ (link)
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The only way you will even have a chance of getting over him is if you just stop talking to him pretty much.You have to keep doing things to keep him out of your mind and keep remembering why your trying to get over him, that way, it will be easier to get him out of your mind.It may be hard, But it will be worth it once you do get over him.You will find that guys aren't always the key to being happy.You don't always have to have a boyfriend in order to be "cool" or "happy". Just have fun and do your thing.Don't worry about guys right now.Hope I helped. :]
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Do you any sites that offer online counselling for teens?
Like where you can talk to people through a chat room or msn about what's going on in your life, and about your problems and stuff.
Or if there's anyone that wouldn't mind having a heart to heart via msn?
I just really feel like I need to talk to someone, and I can't talk to most people I know because I don't want them to know certain things.
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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I don't know any online counselling sessions,But If you need someone to talk to about your problems and want advice, you can talk to me.I have alot of people who come to me with their issues and what not and I don't mind.I'm here for anybody who needs the attention and advice.My msn is.. Lovelylacey08@hotmail.com . Hope I could help.
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Where did you get your prom dress? Not at the mall, right? (link)
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Depends on you really, and what you perfer.You can look online or a nice dress store.I got mine at cliche.Which they have a lot of very gorgeous dresses,But I'm pretty sure if you go to a formal wear place, you'll find some pretty dresses.It kind of depends on your budget though.Hope you find what your looking for. :]
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Do long distance relationships work?
Or what are your views on them?
I'm not thinking of starting one, but a friend is and I was just wondering what others thought about them. (link)
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Long distance relationships can be quite hard to deal with.Considering you can't always keep in touch.Some people can handle it, some don't.To actually succeed in a long distance relationship there has to be trust and dedication.If you don't have that, then there's not point.Alot of relationships don't work.Usually young loves don't.I don't really go for it, But the stronger ones can.This is only my opinion though.It all depends on the couple and how much they put in into their relationship.
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im scared. how do people spend their summers? (link)
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Why would you be scared?Summer is about having fun and enjoying your time off.That consists of staying up late and waking up late.Meeting up with your friends and have fun.Go swimming.Go to some partys.Sleep overs.Girls night/Guy night.Just do stupid and do whatever you do.Don't worry about anything and be you.Why be scared and not knowing what to do.Do what you think is fun.Hope I helpedd! :]
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there's this guy who has liked me for a long time, and i'm going to tell him i like him too tomorrow. what do you think his reaction will be? i want to prepared for anything.
thanks in advance! (link)
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Well considering that he likes you as well .. and for a long time.He's probaly going to be relieved and excited.For a guy to know that someone who he likes , likes him back is thrilling and makes them have more confidence.If he's ready and what not.He will make a move and might even ask you out.Be sure and not make to where it's akward.If you don't think it's time don't rush it.Take the time to get to know each other and flirt some.If he does ask you out.Be ready :] congrats thoughh!
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how many of you girls shave 'down there'? what age did you start and why?
thanks! (link)
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I started shaving around 15/16? Started trimming umm.. 14/15? I don't remember exact numbers,But yeahh because I honestly didn't like having the idea of it showing while wearing a bikini and it was just in the way.I just like being clean.lol.
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i need bigg help. i got in huge trouble awhile back & my mom moved out to my grandmas house in the country. and my mom gives me chances to prove her i can move back with her. but every time i get a chance i fuck it up. like last time i came home drunk. && she says i`m to wild. i have a boyfriend up there and i love him to death. i wanna move up there but i need to change before august. i dont see what i`m doing wrong. i`m the average teenager. yeah, i party, i drink, and i hang out with guys. but who doesn`t. i used to not be like this until i got in high school. how can i change ? someone please help (link)
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Well there is a wild phase every teenager goes through.Obviously your in that stage,But you need to slow down on it.You shouldn't come home drunk and party every night.You need to hang out with friends , but don't do anything ridiculously ignorant.Don't do anything that would disappoint your mother.By doing that, your earning your trust and willing to change for her is there.It takes alot to earn everything back,But once you got it.. try not to let it go.You can easily lose it by doing completely and utterly stupid.You at least addressed the problem and aware of it as well.You should know better than to keep screwing it up.If you can stay out of trouble, you'll be okay.Hope I helped.. :]
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15 f (might be long jsut please bare with me, i will rate!)
ok so i broke up with my bf because i felt we didnt have communication anymore or trust. we were together for 9 months. i still really love him. i asked him for a break but he didnt want it. so now hes always online adn i have the urge to talk to him always, so i aimed him today and he was alwys liek being eman to me. so i told him why are you awlays mean to me like i did something horrible o you. and he said "omfg, the funny thing is that you ask me that! wtf, you know what you did" so he blocked me right after that. i know what i did and i feel horrible for brakign up with him but he had no trust. i still love him though. and i dont know what to do. i know hell unblock me, what should i do? any advice? comments? about us? anything? thanks (link)
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It's good you got up the nerve to actually break it off.It's understandable that you feel guilty now,But it's a good thing you did it.If not, things would never change and things would get worse.He's just not handling it well obviously.He just needs time and what not.You can't sit there and expect him to forget you broke up with him and be all buddy buddy with him.He hasn't registered things didn't work out and you weren't happy with the relationship , So he blames you for ending it.It's not your fault at all and don't even try to blame yourself for it.If he can't handle it, don't bother to talk to him.You need to let it all go.Just make sure you know all the reasons why you broke up with him in the first place.You'll eventually get it through and move on.Remember, there are plenty of guys out there.It takes time to get back together.Don't give up hope.Hope I helped btw. :] Good luck with everything.
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in the song "throw some d's" by rich boy, what does d's mean? (link)
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I believe it means rims.I could be wrong,But I'm pretty sure that's what it means.
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so there is this chant thing its like cant stand me sit down think im trippen tie my shoe okay well i dont really know it but if anyone else does i would love to now asap thanx in advance =) (link)
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got a problem w/me?->solve it
think im trippin?->tie my shoe
cant stand me?->sit down
cant face me?->then turn the f***around
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years, give or take. We broke up a couple of times, longest being last year for 3 months. I broke up with him because I wasn't happy, as I felt he was being too clingy and I love my independence and space. Also, I was extremely attracted to someone else. After 3 months of constant drinking, and him being extremely devastated we got back together. A year on, he has really made the effort, and is less clingy, ie. lets me go out with my friends, and do things on my own without having to ask his permission. Thing is, a year on I think I still have strong feelings for that other guy, and I'm not sure if I'm still attracted to my boyfriend. We don't make love on a regular basis, because I'm never in the humour, and he's got a lot of silly little habits which are starting to drive me insane and they shouldn't. I feel frustrated and stressed when I'm with him, and sometimes relieved to be on my own. At the same time, I love him to bits as a best friend, and I don't want to lose that. I don't know what I should do. I'm so eternally confused by the whole thing. 4 years is a long time, and I don't want to throw it away on a whim. I'm 23 years old, and don't think I'm ready for this type of commitment. Please help me, I would love some good advice for this situation. Please! (link)
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Your boyfriend seems wonderful,But I think It's time to move on.You can't keep forcing yourself to be with him.Even if you were with him so long.If you keep holding on, chances are you will ruin your relationship and your future.I don't think it's fair to your current boyfriend to be second guessing things and having other feelings for another guy.I imagine that would be hard for you to do,But you got to do what you got to do..that's all there is to it.If you break up in a respectful and nice way.I'm sure you'll end on good terms with him.Just be understandable and what not.This guy you have strong feelings for could be waiting for you.. and you could build up good chemistry.You just have to give the guy a chance.Find other men.Don't tie yourself down right now.Your still finding out what you want right now.Well hope everything works out.Hope I helpedd! :]
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what do you think about sweet-talkers? do you think its cute? i think its cute as long as you can play along with it do you think so? and does anyone know a "line"? you heard it from someone? (link)
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Sweet talkers can be very sweet and charming.But some use that against girls.They take advantage of the girls who give in to it.I mean some do it just for random act of kindness.I personally fell for it along the way.It got me in trouble and I got hurt.So if or when a guy sweet talks..be careful.If you find a guy who sweet talks and means it..then your lucky.I heard one from a guy who liked me it was like.. "Did it hurt?" and the girl will be like whattt??Did what hurt? and he finishes off by saying "When you fell from heaven" I'm not gunna lie.. it was cute when I heard it.But yeahhhhh depends on the guy who's sweet talking.
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Awhile ago i deleted most of my mysic because i'm so sick of listenting to the same things over and over again.
Now I have no clue what to download.
I'm into pop/r&b/rock, pretty much just anything that sounds good with a good beat to it.
I don't want anything that recently just came out because chances are, i have it.
thanks. (link)
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[alt rock]
brand new
sum41
blink 182
taking back sunday
jet
the red jumpsuit apparatus
third eye blind
straylight run
yellowcard
motion city soundtrack
hellogoodbye
boxcar racer
the postal services
senses fail
the used
bright eyes
[rap]
three six mafia
bohagon
big boi
brooke valentine
lil boosie
young dro
TI
david Banner
akon
rich boy
webbie
chingy
nelly
brandy
fergie
jibbs
there's some,let me know if you like em'.hope i gave you what you like. :]
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ok a few months ago my bf cheated on me. long story, but i gave him another chance and things have been going really good. except that he continuted to be "friends" with this girl. i told him how much that bothered me, so he promised he wouldnt talk to her anymore, except just to say hi and stuff. soooo... now she's going out with one of our friends, "john". john doesnt know anything about what happened and thinks im friends with this girl (we're civil to each other, but we dont like each other). so john keeps suggesting that we all go out on a double date. my bf says maybe we should give it a try, it might be fun. but i really dont want to... i dont want my bf anywhere near her. but i also dont want to sound rude, or to look like an overprotective girlfriend. what should i do? (link)
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Obviously John has not a clue why you would refuse to the double date,But your boyfriend should be understand and respect the fact that you don't want him near someone whom he cheated with.If he can't be reasonable with you then you deffiantely need to sit down and talk to him about it.If you feel like you can go on that double date and not feel vilated, then go for it.It's up to you really.Do what you feel is more comfortable.Hope everything turns out okay.Hope I helped as well. :]
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Okay, so theres this guy I like. He's a year older than me. Today we were hanging out in a group and he kept staring at me and every time he did, he smiled. My friend said he was about to ask me out, but im skeptical because she is jealous of me [haha not to sound stuck up]. Should I believe her, or just ask him myself?? (link)
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Well, you can do both if you want.If you don't believe her, might as well have a conversation and either ask him if he does.. or mention who he likes.Just make it casual.Not so much urgent that you have to know.It's actually quite simple.Hope I helped.
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ok, I know I'm a horrible person.. but I need your help. so, I am 15, and I have a boyfriend. I've been his girlfriend for 2 weeks and one day.. since then, we've hung out ONCE, and he call me ONCE, we've never kissed, we don't hold hands, but we do hug. He's never called me pretty, or complemented me in any way like that. I almost feel like I'm just a friend.
Then there is this other boy, who I hang out with almost every weekend, and we've been hanging out at lunch, in the library. He calls me every night right before we go to bed. He calls me beautiful, and cute all the time. He just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and I think he wants me to break up with my boyfriend.
I feel like my actual boyfriend is less of one than the other boy. I don't like my boyfriend as much as before, and I do like the other one, and he likes me back. The problem is, I'm going to feel bad if I dump him. I am his first girlfriend, and it only has been about 2 weeks. I don't know what to do, stay with him or break up?
Please help thanks (link)
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First off, your not a horrible person.By all means, your normal.I understand why your feeling guilty,But if you don't like your boyfriend, why stay with him any longer than you should.I mean..I don't think you should stay with someone you don't have any intention being with.I think it's better if you do it now than later because you'd hurt him worse if you let it go longer than it should be.You shouldn't feel bad for him.He will indeed find someone else.I say you should break up with the boyfriend.. wait a little.Show a little respect and get into a relationship with the other guy.Hope I helped and if you want anymore help..ask! :]
♥ L a c e y
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Does a guy's virginity mean as much as it does to a girl? (link)
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There's alot of possibilities..because not ALL guys want to lose it right away.In fact, there are some that are trying to find the right girl and what not.And some due to religious beliefs, are waiting til they get married.Although, in most cases.Guys do just want to lose it as soon as they can.It may be kind of ridiculous..but is true.Hope I gave you an idea of what you wanted to know.
♥ L a c e y
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