Ny name is Kerry Jeanne. I'm 19 in my second year of College. I'm about to transfer to another college in Southern California where the weather is beautiful and the city is alive! I love to give people advice and help them through sturggles in life. I happily live with my amazing boyfriend and roommate. I have a bulldog and a shih tzu. I'm very crazy, happy, outgoing, optimistic, funny, sweet, caring, and a total introvert. I'm spunky and always have a smile on my face. If I could have it my way, I'd be goofy all the time but when the time is needed, I know when to get serious. Life is great:)
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I'm 17/f and recently I've been having feelings towards my basketball coach (He's 26). A couple nights ago the whole team including him went out to go bowling. It was like we weren't even there with the team, there was flirting and you know the whole "bet I can beat your score", and random touches when we passed by each other. And it's not just on his part it's me too. What should I do? Should I talk to him about this?
Thanks
Confused Basketball (link)
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You cannot get yourself involved. You could get him not only fired but arrested and put in jail for a long long time. Please watch out. Sometimes male teachers can be overly friendly and if you think he's into you, it's not with the right intentions. This is not a joking matter. Distance yourself from him before you get hurt and get him in serious trouble. Good Luck!
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SOrry i didnt know what category to put this in. My phone is a verizon moterola that i dont know the exact name but its the "new razr". well anyway, my phone always sends people duplicates. i dont know why. I dont send it more than once. Why does it do that, and how do i fix it?
thankz! (link)
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Take it into a verizon store and have it replaced. Its a defective phone. If you don't have unlimited text messages it could be costing you and/or your friends lots of money. Good Luck!
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15/f. I don't have a problem talking to guys. But I never seem to get asked out. Idk if it's a problem with how I act, or something. Any help? (link)
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You could try the asking. Most guys your age are too scared to ask girls out. Be confident (which is super attractive in guys eyes) and ask them out. Another thing - a lot of guys your age are only looking for one thing so be careful. Good Luck!
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I've never understood the whole emo cutting wrists thing at ALL. But when I think about it, I get sick and almost throw up. LIke right now. So don't think I'm trying to learn how. I just don't understand how and why. Do they do long cut marks or what? No idea.. please inform me. (link)
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Cutters have emotional pain buried inside behind their fake smiles. They try to overbear the emotional pain with physical pain. Some even do it for attention, to get help with depression. If you know a friend or think someone you know is cutting contact a counsilor, friend, parent, teacher - anyone immediately as cutting can result in death. Good Luck!
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Alright, so I started falling for this guy in my second hour class pretty hard this year. We flirt all of the time, and sometimes I get the impression that he wants to ask me out, but the one thing holding up the relationship is that he has a girlfriend. Only I'm so confused because when he talks to me, he acts as if he doesn't have a girlfriend at all. & I know he wants me to flirt back with him. & I can tell that he likes me. & I think he knows that I like him too. We're not in the same grade; he's three years older than me, but I really don't see age as an issue. This situation has been driving me insane for months, and all I really need right now is some good advice on what I should do.
Should I flirt back? Just go for it, and not care? Or back off and be respectful towards their relationship?
I know I probably should be the better person and not flirt back, but you're only a teenager once and I'd rather be naughty now then naughty later.
Thanks. xx3 (link)
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Okay listen to this...
"if he does it for you, he'll do it to you"
It sounds to me like he is one of those types of boyfriends that likes to keep his girlfriend around for the security but likes to have his fun with others as well.
If he flirts with you despite his girlfriends feelings, he'll flirt with other girls if you were ever to become his girlfriend as well. And you never know - you may not be the only girl he's flirting with. He sounds like a disrespectful uncaring guy. I would back off in spite of his girlfriend who already has to deal with her man whore boyfriend. I would stay away from this one, he sounds like a total jerk. He's probablly trying to charm you with flirtations to get 'some'. don't let him take advantage of you. Find someone else to be 'naughty' with;)
Good Luck!
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Does anyone know this song? It used to be my favourite song a few years ago except I never found out what it was called. Please help cos I love the lyrics...
This is all I remember from the song:
"There will be no white flag above my door, cos I'm in love and I will..........."
Sorry that's all I can remember cos it's been a while since I heard it last.
If you don't know this song, but you know a website where I can submit these lyrics and find out what the song is, please give me the link because that would be just as helpful.
Thanks xx (link)
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Dido - White Flag
Just type that in on google.com and add lyrics to the end of it and it should bring it up for you. Good Luck!
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Anyone know any exotic or different sex positions out there?
I feel like trying something new with my boyfriend. (link)
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Try Kauma Sutra books, they're awesome. Good Luck!
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my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he didn't cum but I did. do you think I could be pregnant ? do boys feel it when they are about to cum ? please help !!! (link)
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There's always a chance of getting pregnant with unprotected sex. It takes a sperm and an egg to form a baby inside the uterus. You cannot make a baby with just one. However even though he didn't ejaculate (cum), there's such thing as pre-cum which contains sperm and that can get you pregnant. Also, yes guys do know when they are ejaculating. I don't mean harm in anyway and I dont want to offend you so please don't take this personally - but if you don't know any of this, don't you think you're a bit too young to be having sex? If not, I'd check your facts and do some research so you know what to expect and what not to expect while having sexual intercourse. Also, try to get on birth control. Good Luck!
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so my (first) boyfriend of about 2 months is suicidal... he tells me that he's really scared that he'll lose me--i dont even no why because-- and he loves me so much. he tells me that im like air-if he doesnt have me, he'll die. i really love him, and i would never want to lose him. I don't know whats gotten to him. please help, im desperate. (link)
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This sounds like obsessive behavior which is not normal for a relationship. It sounds like your boyfriend needs to seek some therapy. He's become 100% dependant on you and you two have only been together for a few months. That's just not right. First of all, I know you love him but you cannot have your boyfriend relying on you for everything in life. He needs to have his own independency. You need to realize that he is basically threatning you. 'If you leave me, I'll kill myself' sorta thing. This is not healthy and will lead to something horrible. I would sit down with him and have a serious conversation with him - and if he doesn't listen and becomes more obsessive I would contact his parents. Good Luck!
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so say that ur parent wanted youto get checked out to see if you had sex. i hear that they cant tell and such. but i want to know if they really could or not i havnt had sex but, if i have masturbated with my fingers wouldnt tht still break stuff w.e or not and wit tampons like i tryed using them a couple of times. and say that you tried having sex but just the tip of the penis went inside you could they still see that??? (link)
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Every information about you that your doctor knows is strictly confidential. However your OBGYN can infact tell if your 'cherry has been popped' weather it be from fingers, tapons, or a penis. He/she can may not be able to specify which of the three it may be but if your 'cherry' is not in tact they are able to visibly see that. Good Luck!
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Hello this may be a little bit of a weird question.
But during sex when a girl is on top is she meant to move her whole body or just her pelvis area?
And also does she move up and down towards the ceiling and floor or slide up and down his body??
I'm not a virgin but I've never really been good on top because i dont know what im doing.
Can anyone please help me. (link)
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There isn't a specific technique for being on top, but typically you put your hands on the bed near the top of his shoulders to hold yourself up. Then once you have a good balance try to move only your pelvic/butt area up and down. Also try sitting straight up. Put your hands on his chest or have him hold your hands to hold you up and move up and down (guys really like that). Another great one is to let him do the work with you on top. Again, hold yourself up by putting your hands above the top of his shoulders on the bed and let him go at it. It feels really good for both. Good Luck!
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im having my room re-done in purple.
so if you know of any purple room accessories such as a comforter, curtains, wall decor, stickers, bathroom stuff, etc, etc
please give me some links, i appreciate your help.
i dont have much luck googling for stuff like this.
i like anything sparkly, shiney, metallic, or royalish.
thanks :D (link)
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Good choice! I just did my bathroom in purple. Try going to www.ikea.com, they have many creative decorating idea's that are very reasonale in pricing. Good Luck!
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what do you get a guy for valentines day???? i need to get something for this guy i really like and have been spending a lot of time with. i don't want it to be like "just a present" but something that's like "duh boy i like you." lol. but cliche things like teddys and chocolate and roses seem more female-aimed. i don't know! and i also don't have an infinite amount of money...so...ya. any ideas? (link)
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My boyfriends birthday was about 3 weeks after we first started dating. I was in the same boat as you - 'I don't want to get him something pricey because I don't know him very well, so what the heck do I do?!?'. You know what I did which worked out perfect? I baked. I baked cookies, brownies, cupcakes, cakes, candy - evertything you can think of. I baked for 6 hours that day. I covered his entire room in sweets that way he had a nice surprise to come home to that day. Baking is a perfect gift idea for any occasion. It's sweet, it comes from your heart and it sure is tastey:) You can even decorate them in valentines day colors and sprinkles. Good Luck!
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So I just started my new job in November and absolutly love everyone I work with. I've been hanging out with this one girl who is always smiling and just really happy and friendly. But when I was working with her yesterday she reached for something and I noticed a bunch of cuts on her arm. I asked her what they are from and she said nothing and then acted like it never happened. I'm really worried about her. What should I do? Should I tell someone else? (link)
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I advise you speak to her about this immediately. Cutting is a very seriouse thing and can result in death. If she won't open up to you about it - tell her you'll have no choice but to talk to a counsilor, your boss, or even her parents about it. She may hate you for it - but in the end you could be saving her life. Good Luck!
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I would like to go to Film school in London Scotland or Australia. I live in America right now. Is there a way for me to get a grant that will cover my schooling, books and cost of living...basic things like shelter and food. That way I can just get a part time job and focus on school. Give me as much info as you can from your personal experience please. Thank you.
Only people who have done grants please
I am not interested in loans. Thank you. (link)
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Try exchange programs, financial aid and scholorships. Good Luck!
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I've heard this song alot lately and I really like it. So I was wondering if anyone knew what it was called or who it was by. Sorry, these are the only lyrics I remember:
I was hit by a bus
I was hit by a train
I've got no where to run
I think I'm going insane
I'm not sure if these are the correct lyrics, but this is all I can remember from the song.
Oh and if it helps this is sung by a female.
If you don't know the lyrics but you know a website where I can type them in and find possibl songs please tell me them too.
Thanks, Michelle xx (link)
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Buses and Trains by Bachelor Girl
Good Luck!
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okayy so i really like this guy but im really really scared to talk to him so what are some tip on how to go up and talk to him with confidence and what do i talk about so it doesnt get awkard... thanks
loveboys (link)
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Think of it this way. The more confidence a girl has the more attractive she appears to a guy. What most of them like even more is when girls make the first move. Depending on your situation you can go up to him and strike up a conversation about something you two may have in common. Good Luck!
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my boyfriend and i are about to have sex for the second time like tomorrow maybe. and were always going to use protection. but im not on birth control cuz my mom wont put me on it yet. he has these trojan-enz spermicidal lubricant condoms right, and its a one size fits all. what are the chances of the condom breaking of there is any? i mean i know theres always a chance there could be, but im just worried about that. (link)
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First of all about the whole birth control issue, Since your mom won't let you be on it - make up a different excuse to get on it right away. Birth control helps with:
acne
severe cramps
regulating menstral cycles
& mood swings.
These are all ways around getting on the pill with your mom's permission without having to bring up the 'sex' word.
And yes there are chances of the condom breaking so I suggest you tell your boyfriend to pull out even with the condom on just to be on the safe side. Good Luck!
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Hey!:) I need songs about a misunderstood girl for our school project: a music video. We're gonna be basing it on Shakespeare's Much Ado About Nothing Act 4 wherein Hero is being accused of things she didn't even do. Any songs that could relate to that situation will do. THANKS & ILY! (link)
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Misundastood - Pink
Good Luck!
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Well Im 15/f, and i have a bf. For the past half of a year, i've been more interested in girls. I just learned yesterday that my friend who is two years younger than me is bi. i kinda like her, more than just a friend. I want to try to get a gf, but the ones in my school are druggies, and i just dont think they would accept me. My friend said just tell people, and they will accept you, but i just dont think they will. I kinda want to brek up with my bf, because i went out with him for almost 2 years, and we just got back together about a month ago. and i've realized nomatter how much time i give him hes never gonna change.
So what should i do? what would you do? Should i break up wiht my bf? i love him, just its kinda fading, and i want to try a relationship with a girl, i jsut dont know how to find one, and i think my friiend only likes me as a sister.
Please help me, and thank you very much! (link)
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You are only 15, and you're friend is 2 years younger which makes her 13. You girls are very young and it could just be a phase you're going through. However if it doesn't fade and years later you do find out that you are in fact bisexual then when you're ready you can come out and tell people. Some people will accept it, others may think it's wrong but it will be something you will have to learn to live with.
If you feel as if your feelings have faded towards your boyfriend then they probablly have. No time will change that or the way your boyfriend acts. If you're not happy in the state of being your in then fix it. No one ever said you have to stay with him.
Since you're exploring your sexuality I don't think it would be smart to jump into another relationship right away. I would wait, maybe date around to see which of male or female you do prefer. Good Luck!
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