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how do i talk to him?
okayy so i really like this guy but im really really scared to talk to him so what are some tip on how to go up and talk to him with confidence and what do i talk about so it doesnt get awkard... thanks
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Think of it this way. The more confidence a girl has the more attractive she appears to a guy. What most of them like even more is when girls make the first move. Depending on your situation you can go up to him and strike up a conversation about something you two may have in common. Good Luck!
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From there:
1. Compliment them.
- If they're wearing a nice pair of shoes, or some cute jeans, tell them. Let them know you like their shoes, and then ask where they got them. After that, ask if they're comfortable or something. Don't be annoying about it, but take interest in the person you're talking to, and hopefully, chances are they'll show interest back.
2. Find something you have in common.
- If they're wearing a band shirt, and it's a band you like, tell them! For example, say they are wearing a Rocket Summer shirt, say to them, "I see you have on a Rocket Summer shirt, do you like his music?" Then, after they answer, tell them your opinion on the band/artist.
3. Talk about your surroundings/where you are.
- Say it's after class and the person next to you is getting up to leave. Walk out next to him/her and comment on the class. Say something like, "That was kind of an interesting lesson." or "Was it just me, or was that lecture kind of boring?" or, if you're sitting outside on a bench, and somebody is sitting next to you, make a comment about the weather or where you are.
4. Make a joke!
- There's no better way to make friends with somebody than to make them smile/laugh. BUT don't make a joke about another person, it will make you look bad AND potentially hurt another person's feelings.
-Laura (16-f)
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Easy!! I love boy problems! :) hahaha
You can seriously talk to guys about anything. Don't be a creep or anything, but maybe find out about his favorite sports teams and show some interest in that category. Or if you have classes together, ask him about a homework assignment, work with him on a project... Find a decent way to show him your talents and strengths!!! (ex. If you're smart, help him... If you're athletic, challenge him to a game in a sport you excel at.)
Hope I helped, let me know how it goes and if you need anymore help!!!
-- Mellie
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