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Hey ya'll! My name's ~*Heather*~ and somehow you've stumbled upon my column! Congrats! :P Well, I'm 18 years old and I live in Missouri with my mom and my beautiful cat Corey. :D



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advice

Hi i have liked this kid james and i went out with him 3 other times, but i am still in love with him.
he wants to hook up but i wanna be a couple do u think he likes me or just using me for hookin up. thing is he is one of my best friends so..yeah!
HELP
how can i tell if he likes me
and
is he using me or not?

female

Well I think you should talk to him about this. Tell him you want to be a couple, and ask if he feels the same. If he says no, and just wants to hook up then find another boyfriend potential.

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my mom just recently said she thinks its time for me to see a gyno. so she made me an appointement. she tells me yesterday that she had a dream i was pregenant. do u think she is making me go to the gyno and had that dream b/c she thinks i have sex?

I think she's making you go because every girl has to go at some point. It's safe, and whether or not she thinks you're having sex she's just trying to do what's best for you.

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Theres this girl at my church who also goes to my school. No one sits with her at lunch, and im absolutly sure she doesnt have any friends. She might have some problems, im not sure. (Mentally)
Thing is i know my friends would make fun of her because she looks different. Its eatting away at me everyday to think i could be making her life better. i rate. *Megz*

Here's what I say: Try to talk to the girl, sit with her at lunch one day. If your friends make too much of a fuss about it, then screw them. They're SO not worthy of your friendship. You seem like a great person for trying to make this girl's life better, while they aren't for making it worse.

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Im going to get my ears piercing in about a half hour on a 1-10 scale how bad does it hurt? And do you think i should get a double piercing in a few months?

About a 3.

Too bad you decided not to get it done though! It's really worthwhile!

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I can't make up my mind what I want to study. I am a 21 yr old male. I was going to go to school to learn about video editing because I have an interest in that, but now my friend and I had an idea to go to this design school and get certificates for interior design and start our own business. I can't decide because I am interested in both. Which of the two sounds like a better idea. And if anyone is a video person or an interior designer I would like to know how the salaries of these two occupations compare.

I'm actually interested in both. lol So you have 2 good decisions to make. Either one, I'm sure you'll do fine. Honestly, I'm a huge movie buff and love anything movies. But I also like decorating. I'd chose the video editing though. That's just my personal preference.

I think you can do a google search for a website that has different career's saleries. I forgot the name of it though sorry!

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i have 3" zits all over my legs with 1" whiteheads.how do i get rid of them?

Try using normal face wash you'd use on your face. I've heard that stuff can work anywhere on your body. Face, back, butt (ew lol), legs, etc.

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i like this boy and we've been friends for a while and i think he likes me but how do i get to know him better before we go out he says the same thing to he wants to get to know me more but i dont think he likes me and i want to talk to him on the phone but i never talked to him on the phone i do i talk to him without being nervous.

signed: love struck

I think you two should just hang out together one day. Spend the day watching a movie or just talking and getting to know each other better.

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if someone is wearing lime green tights, or pantyhoes or whatever, does that mean anything? like does that mean theyre lesbian or gay?

hahaha What kind of question is that?! Because someone was wearing something different doesn't mean they're gay.

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okay..my best friend i love her and everything, but she has this level of flirting that is like wayy over the line. and when ever she goes out wtih someone she like flirts wtih other guys and i tell her that she has a bf and she is like..so he cheated on me! and omg! and whenever she isn't going out with anyone she flirts bigggg time with other guys like she is a slut! and we actyally have some sluts at our school (like gurls gogot "fingerd" or w/e) and she also got fingerd but i am one of the only people who knows about it and i just dont know what to do! please help me!?

~*~*Dazed and Confused*~*~

I have a "friend" who's just like that too! She flirts with all these guys when she has a boyfriend! And she always says that the hottest guy is "hers" whenever we go out. She always brags that they're looking at her not me. It really pisses me off but anyway...I think you should honestly talk to your friend about her behavior. Tell her you think what she's doing is a little over-the-top and you're kind of worried about her. Don't come off trying to sound like her mother because nobody likes to hear that from a friend.

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Im going to my friend's bday party this weekend. i hav no idea wut to do with my hair/makeup/clothes etc! help~ i kno my crush is going to be there. how do i get him to notice me?

For hair: If you have long or medium length hair, I found a picture link for you.
http://chicstyles2000.tripod.com/gellar2.jpg
I think this style is really cute and it gets attention without looking too over-the-top. Take a few front strands of hair and pull them back into a tiny ponytail to about the center of your head. Then take a curling iron (one made for bigger curls) and curl about half of your hair...on the bottom. You might want to get your mom or a friend to help you do the back because I doubt you could do it on your own! It's hard!!!

For makeup: It really depends on your skin tone and eye color but generally put on some black mascara (or dark brown if you're a blonde) and maybe curl your lashes a bit before. I don't recommend eyeliner because it makes your eyes look smaller and I only really use it if nobody's going to see me..Eye shadow I guess also really depends on what you're wearing. But I'd stick with pastel-like colors and maybe a tan/light brown. You don't want him to notice you in a bad way. :P Lip gloss/lipstick really has no limits! Use whatever you want! Preferably lip gloss...it's more casual party-like. Use whatever color you wish!

For clothes: I would suggest maybe a cute mini skirt like the ones at Hollister and Self Esteem. With a solid t-shirt to match it. Flip flops or sandals. Shorts would be cute too. If you don't like showing off your legs then you can always wear jeans or just some really cute pants.

I really hope I helped! :D And I so hope you get his attention! Have fun at the party, and let me know what happened when you get back please!

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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!

It means he likes it, and wants you to keep going. :)

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i have the worst cramps ever! any girls now some good cures?

Heating pads...also I like to take a nice long hot bubble bath. That simmers down the pain a bit. Also sleeping. Like take a nap or something.

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hey its me the one that asked about having a bf and liking another guy and well i broke up with my bf and the other guy asked me out and well i need help because he asked me to the movies tomorrow (friday) and i mean i want to go and my mom said i can but im scared cause i have never been out before ah help please

Well ask your mom again a few times to see if her answer changes. If it doesn't then just tell the guy you'll have to go out on another weekend.

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i have a girlfriend were both very happy but my ex girlfriend is back in town and wants me back. i said no. and i have a girlfriend and she flipped and has been stalking me ever since..im afraid it will become dangerous and she ends up hurting my girlfriend. im totally lost what should i do?

You should definitely get a restraining order if you think she'll hurt you or your girlfriend.

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okie well i was at aparty n this guy got bet 40$ to makeout w. me.. but u see we didnt i was messin w. him cuz i new he was messn w. me soo he started to lean over like he wanted a kiss n i wouldnt soo he would get up n come bac n act the same way soo i finally got tired of it soo i kissed him but u see as we were movin in he moved soo i kissed his chin n well he stands up n gose we did it we madeout but everyone was around n they all no we didnt n hes like ur breath stinks n then he acted liek he was puking.. well i rele like that guy but i was rele mean to him.. was that a thing a jerk would do n should i just forget about him

Yes he's a jerk. That's what jerks do. He could've been ALOT meaner but...thankfully he wasn't. He was just being immature and probably trying to show off to everyone there. Boys are stupid, ignore them. :P

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okei well my left boob hurts rele bad my mom says its just gittign bigger but it hurts to run n jump n im very athletic.. n ther is a lumpin there i was wonderin if that happens to everyone.. and i was wonderin if ppl can notice if on boob is bigger cuz i can tell one is but idk if others can
i rate 5

I think if you have a lump on your breast, it's serious. You should go to the doctor. I don't want to scare you or anything, and I don't know if this is completely right, but you might have breast cancer. :( Please go to the doctor...

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i want to get into fashion designing do you guys know a site or anything?? thank ya

I think you should just go to google.com and search for The Art Institutes of America. I think there's one at least in a few states. Mostly big cities.

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What does it mean when your breasts are sore around your nipple area?! Does it mean they are growing? I'm 13, female. My breasts are already a C! So I thought I'd ask about this. Please help

It could be that you're having your period. Usually when your breasts or nipples are so, it means you're PMSing or starting your period soon.

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Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
and I got my pic on my coulmn now

I think he's just kind of shy. Maybe if you get him alone and talk to him...I don't really think he's cheating on you. There's not enough evidence.

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My boyfriend and I just had sex for the first time..He took my virginity. It was unprotected and Im not sure if he pulled out or not. We were both a little drunk. I dont regret it. Anyway, I was told that you shouldn't have unprotected sex for 15 days after your last period ended. Its only been 10 days. Im a little worried that, well basically, I could become pregnant. Im not sure if the 15 day thing is true. Im going to the health clinic in a couple days to get on birth control and they always give you a pregnancy test. I want to know if I should be worried about this or not and if the 15 day thing is true. Hurry..this has me scared. Thanks.

You shouldn't have unprotected sex PERIOD. I don't know about the 15 day thing though. And if you were scared that you were going to become pregnant, maybe you should have used a condom in the first place.

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