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Q: Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..
Signed..14 year old bi guy
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it all depends on how they were brought up if your grandmother and grandfather were not opend minded about a thing then i garentee your parents will be a little bugged out by the whole thing and if they are then just give them time sooner or later they are going to have to accecpt it
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Q: is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?
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it depends on how pregnant she is if shes like 9 monts then i would say no but if shes only a cupple of weeks to like 5 months i think it is then she should be ok
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Q: ive never kissed anyone before, or been kissed. i want to kiss my boyfriend, but im not sure if id be bad at it or what. when should i? how can i make it so its not just really random and awkward? how? what do i do? im so confused! thanks all! 14/f it that matters at all
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well you can wate till he makes the first move or you can wate till you guys are just chillin somewhere like your house or his and just look in to his eyes and down at his lips but dont stare till the point where it weard and he should get the hint
-*Tori
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Q: ok there is this kid that i really like and hes nice to me all the time and stuff and one day we were just messing around and stuff... i thought he liked me but he had a g/f the next day but everytime i see him he acts like he doesnt know me now because i found out he got a g/f im so confused... and now i like his best friend... what should i do?
help..
signed
confused and hopeless...
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talk to both of the guys and finde out whats going on with them and go for the friend if the other guy has a girlfriend you wouldent want to get mixed up in that
-*Tori
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Q: ok theres this guy i like but idk if he likes me too. we talk on the phone, sometimes online and once in a blue moon at school. my friends who talk to him say that he said i was cute. one of my friends talked to him online and was asking him if he liked me n he said idk. im so confused. can you help me?
please help me
signed confused Babiz
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hey danica all u got to do is go up to him and ask him your self things get twisted if friends do it
-*Tori
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Q: hey so you said that you wore this kinda drses also? did ppl think u were overdrssed? did you feel uncomfortable?
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no not really every one thought i looked good and they said they wish that they had one like mine
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Q: hey i am going to formal soon and i got a dress and its really long down to the floor and stuff but soo pretty. and so then i find out everyone is wearing like shorter drsses like to their shins but mien is past the floor so wat do i do? i dont wanna be over dressed but i love this dress... wat wud u do
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dont even worry about it thats what i went to my formal in and almost every one else were in other kinds of dresses
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Q: alright there is this boy that is 4ever try to mess around (and people think we're family!) w/ me either snacthing my food or callin me and my friend gays witch WE R NOT AT ALL and 2day at lunch he comes 2 my table and sit right next 2 me and start mess w/ my friend and i he points 2 my friend and says 2 me that ur gurl? i say hell no then my friend asks him is that ur gurl? he stops and gets mad quite til i say push him away from me and then we start talkin' again and he moves right back next 2 me. so is he messin 4 fun or love?
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hes just being a guy wat else is new there all stupid like that
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Q: I've heard many times the "You'll know when you're ready" line. I was wondering, HOW do you know when you're ready to lose your virginity?
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because you get this really werd fealing in the pit of your gut that will tell you when your really ready you have to experiance it to know what i mean and when you feal it you will know
-*Tori
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Q: I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?
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dont abort it that will leave you with some really bad issues if you cant take care of it as you thought then give him/her up for addoption thats the best thing to do but any ways to tell your boyfriend just say that you cheated on him and that your pregnet with mikes kid but i would tell him in person and when its just the two of you he might be in compleat shock and it will take time to get over it but evencaly get over it and he might even wanna help a little but if not then your going to have to figure somthing else out
-*Tori
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Q: Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do??
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hes a loser i was in the same situation and it took me a year to relise that i was being used
-*Tori
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Q: Ok I went out with this guy for say about 2 weeks i dumped him cause he started being nasty then we went uptown he pounced on me and i fell in the mud and it turned serious and we ended up dating then he dumped me because he said he had a daughter and a girlfriend then he asked me back out and then dumped me recently he's bin flirting with me and telling me he wants to go back out with me but he lied and said he had a girlfriend then I found out he was lying and was atually going out with his other ex before me I feel really used and he still flirts with me and looks at me with really puppish eyes it makes me feel so depressed last night I cried myself to sleep just thinking about him he doesn't know how much I love him I wish I could tell him but then he'd hurt me even more please help me i need to get over him and fast from Sophie
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DONT GO OUT WITH THIS GUY hes a loser
-*Tori
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Q: online some of my friends say: sos when i ask whats up. i dont know what sos means and i would feel so stupid to ask one of them!
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Q: im 16 and been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we are thinking about having sex ive put her off a little im a bit worried about my penis size its only 4 inches long and im worried what she'll think does it matter to girls a lot?
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it shouldent matter the top 2/3rds of a girls vigina is dead basicaly so i see no need for a large penis
-*Tori
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Q: i have a boyfriend of 3 years but lately i have been talking to this other guy, who is 23. i am 17 years old. i really am starting to like this other guy and i feel as if i dont have strong feelings for my boyfriend anymore. i ended up having sex with the 24 year old..and we talked even after that. he says he cares about me and likes me and isnt messing with anyone else. he knows i have a boyfriend and has told me to choose before but i just changed the subject. i want to know your opinions on this.
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stay with your boyfriend because if this other guy rly liked you then he would have wated for you to dump your boyfriend b4 you guys did it
-*Tori
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Q: Well hi my name is Jay and i have some friends right and they give me alot of shit that i put up with. Im getting really pissed and i am an inch away from cracking one of them in the face.
We're good friends though and they just started to be jackasses to me and its pissing me the fuck off. Help me out please i dont want to ruin our good friendships.
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talk to them about it and tell them what you posted that should work unless there compleat idiots then finde new friends
-*Tori
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Q: hi its been 2 months since my dad left for monterrey to learn french an he will be gone six months. Anyway im stuck at home with my sisters and my mom who are driving me crazy and it seems like the only way i can get away is by smoking and ive got asthma and one kidney. i just need advice on soning out because if i keep up the way ive been smoking ill be dead before im thirty. Any good advice would be nice and i will rate high.
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try any thing just stop smoking.as soon as you get hooked its rly hard to stop i know i smoked for 3 yrs and it was horbal when i was stoping but some things you can do is finde somthing your good at thats legal and do it
-*Tori
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Q: theres this random guy that hates me for no reason...he says im annoying but i dont talk to him...and yesterday he threw an egg or something at my window...what can i do to get him back so that i wont get in (much) trouble?
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go in to a store that sells thoes fart things where you press a buttion and it will go off when ever you see him finde a place to hide it and just start pressen away but you might have to hide behinde somthing so no one thinks its you good luck
-*Tori
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Q: well my boyfriend of 5 months has been acting weird..for the past 3 days he hasnt been calling me, or asking to hangout or nothing...and everytime i call him he says hell call me back...and does in like 5 hours...but yestreday we were supposed to hangout and i called hmi at 1 and he said he was gonna take a shower and hed call me back...and he never did =(....ive talked to him about it upsetting me when he doesnt call me back for like 5 hours..but this time he didnt call back at all...i usually go to his house every wednesday....should i go this wednesday if he calls and apologizes? how do i act on the phone if he calls tonight? do i yell at him, be quiet, or act sad?? HELP...i dont know what to do im really upset about it though because my boyfriend means the world to me i love him so much im even listenin to sad music like mockingbird by eminem.....thx.oh ya i dont think hes mad at me or anything....i saw him the day before all this started happening and everything was great..
btw...16/f
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maybe you should try talking to him agen or maybe hes not really the much of a phone guy any more thats how i am i hate talking on the fone so i dont call any one maybe thats whats goen on or maybe hes stressed out about somthing and just forgot i also do that do when people tell me to call them
-*Tori
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Q: I have a boyfriend, Justin. We have been going out for what will be two months tomorrow. Anyways, he came over Friday to hang out and stuff. When he went to leave he said he would call me when/if they got home. It's Monday and he still hasn't called. Now, I'm the type of person that totally stresses over things like this. I'll play out every situation in my mind and possible outcomes.
Of course, they did have to go back and paint a house, and they are moving, but that wouldn't be it I don't think. What if he doesn't like me anymore or he doesn't want to talk to me? Ah, I'm totally stressed and it's so dumb. I just, can't see myself without him and I don't know. I know I'm being totally stupid, but could someone offer some advice? What should I do or what could have possibly happened? Thanks! And if you want a little more info, IM me! askchristeena
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well see there you go if he couldent call you then he couldent call you next time dont work your self up and just call him
-*Tori
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bio
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hey im tori but i have alot of other nick names it getting to the point where i will answer to about most any thing that im use to hearing but any ways i love helping people i applyed to answer qusetions on some other websites but i havent got a email back yet conserning them well thats all that i can think of to have in hear for now if i think of other things then i will add them
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Info
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Gender: Female Location: rochester NY Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: January 1, 2005 Answers: 135 Last Update: June 12, 2007 Visitors: 9310
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