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My name is Erin.
I'm almost 16 [17 days!]
I love this site so much, I always ask a billion questions on advicenators and I do my best to answer as many as I can too.
Most of the time when answering questions
I give you my opinion,
then I go through different senarios [2 or 3] that are on each side of the issue
So ask away :)

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ok, i got my braces off today and my bottom front teeth are sore...well the gumm around them is at least. It swelled up really big and is covering like half my tooth. My school starts in like 6 days..how do i get rid of it and keep it not so swollen..haha sry i worded that wrong. :) thank-you

same thing happen with mine, just brush them hard, there will be blood n it might hurt but thats really the only way.... oh yeah, brush in the morning n be4 u go to bed.

hope i helped esoccer1717

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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(.

god, my LIL sister is the same way soe times, she'll listen in on phone conversations n tell my mom n get PAID!!!!! so what i did is talked to my sister n i told her to stop n she did, with your bother tell him to bak off, its your life you weren't doing anything inapropreate n your upset with him cause you like ur bf as a friend n boyfriend, n if he really cares about you than he should bakk of n trust you.

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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the other day i met this guy.. all of my friends knew him.. and i had heard alot about him and i finally met him. he was soo sweet.. hes been talking to me online and stuff. and.. he doesnt really like to date girls that go to other schools (i go to a different school than him) and i think that if i saw him on weekends and school vacations and stuff..if maybe it would work out. he seems to like me.. either that or hes a huge flirt. but i really need to know what to do

i know how u feel i have fallin for a guy that didn't go to my skool, (my cosin's friend to make a long story short) so what i think you should do is ask him out, if he says no than ges not fer you, if yes than try to see him once on the weekend n the other day can be with your friends.

i hope it works out!!! (let me know!)
esoccer1717

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What is the song called that goes like this...

How the hell'd we wind up like this? Why werent we able, to see the signs that we missed, to try to turn the table?


??? ill rate 5s

someday nickle back

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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How do you get rid of blackheads? The strips don't really work for me..does anyone actually know what will work? Please don't just give me a product you saw on a commercial or something..Thanks..I rate high!!

i went to my doctor n she perscribed a medican it takes a good 2 weeks to work but if you put it on every night you'llm be pimple/black head free

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I have been in a fight with my best friend for about a week and I have no idea what to do to make us friends again. The fight was over a really stupid reason. She used to have me change her myspace because she didn't know how to do the colors or anything. Well, I haven't really looked at it in a while since she wasn't allowed to go on it anymore. She claims about a month ago she went on and fixed it the way she liked and that I changed it. So she's being seriously retarded about it and won't forgive me. So what should I do? Don't say forget about her she's an idiot (I know she is already) because I don't want to end our friendship over this.

ok i think i kno who asked this but if i'm wrong sorry. I think u should not be friends with her because she said "i'm happy ***** is moving to fl, i HATE her" than she talked shit about me. (again really sorry if this isn't who i think it is) she is a theif, caught stealing n ipod n cell phone in the locker room, n going through a teacher's purse!!!!!!

really sorry if this wasn't my friend, totallty disregard if so

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what do you do when your friends don't like your boyfriend? please help me!!!!!!!

Same thing happen with me. I simply told them, listen, I like him and that should be good enough for you guys.

hope i helped esoccer1717

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What r some good sites for quotes that are NOT about love and stuff. I'm looking for quotes about like friendship mainly, and funny or inspirational quotes. Please help, i'll give 5's for any website yu give

www.awaydoll.com

it mostly away messages but there's really funny stuff on it!

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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why does it itch done there when u shave and how can i maybe ask my mom that i wanna get a bikini wax ... anyother way i could remove hair with out my mom really knowing

when your mom is out one day, go to the nearest drug sore on your bike or just walk. get a self waxing kit . then follow the instructions.

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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hi, this has been bugging me for ages. when i was 13 i got the chicken pox. i went to the hospital and was seen by a male doctor. he asked me to take my top off to have a better look at my spots. i had them on my arms and body. then he told me to take my cami-top off too so i'd be naked down to my waist. i cried but he insisted it had to be done. so i did and he touched my breasts...all this was to confirm i had chicken pox. thats not normal is it?

i hope you told your parents. i'm not a doctor but when my cosin had chicken pox (i was with her in the room) the doctor (who was female) did not have to look at her breast. tell your parents (your mom) and she what they say.

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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It gose:
Isn't any one tryin to find me
Won't sombody com take me home
It's a dam cold night
tryin to figure out what right
won't you take me by the hand
take me some were new

this lil part is stuck in my head n it really bugging me.
will rate!!!

I think its
Losing grip by Avril Lavige

hope i helped!

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ohk so im going to be getting an ipod, it holds 1,000 songs but my question is lets say for example i have 225 songs on my ipod & im getting sick of 5 songs can i delete them so there for i would have 220 songs left?

if you have them in your iTunes library u can delete them.

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does anyone know of any websites that you can find really cute qoutes about love and friendship? thanks

http://www.awaydoll.com/love_away_messages.html

this site is away messages but it's got some really kewl stuff on it.

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small

YOU ARE 14 AND GETTING MARRIED! WHAT IS WRONG WIT U?

About the fighting thing, don't talk every day you guys are proble getting sick of each other.

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what are some cute, but somewhat original boy/girl names? thanks in advance for your help!

Alex
Stepahnie
Ashley
Nick
Joe
John
Elyssa
Elizabeth, ppl can call her liz or lizzy
Keegan
Kyle
Chad
Jessica
Tina
Mike
Rick
Sean
Brittnay

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im 14/f..ok..so i read in one of your questions that you answered that you swim with pads all the time..so do they really work when you swim? do they fall apart? are they noticable? cuz i dont use tampons yet..and i dont want to yet..thanks

What i do is i put the pad on my underwear and wear swim shorts over them and wala. Its not noticeable. I wear Always, the brand, it falls apart slightly but it stays together mostly. I kno how you feel about not wanting to wear them, i myself don't really like the idea of sticking it up in me.
If you have anymore questions about anything just ask!
esoccer1717

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Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
Help

I was freaking out in 6th grade because i had a boy teacher! It's tottaly natral to be scared. You have proble heard this from every one but don't worry, its gonna be allright.
TIPS:
-try talking to the school nurseor a favorite teacher to calm your nevers
- i go swimming with pads all the time just wear shorts or a coverup
-carry around a few pads with you in a purse or backpack
-don't worrie about tampons, i still don't wear tampons!
-remember just because some other girls are getting there periods dosen't mean that you going to get yours, all girls mature diffrently

if you eva need someone to talk to just ask me i almost online everyday.

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ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much

Tell your present b/f that u think the 2 of u need a break. then go out with johny!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I went out with this guy for like a couple months n then we broke up becasue he moved. Then we tried going out again but it lasted like a day (damn tipical long-distance relationship scenario). Since then I have talked to his friend alot and he even asked me out a couple times but I turned him down cuz I didn't like him like that at all and they were both on the phone trying to make me chose between them and I wouldnt so then the guy got off and i was stuck talkin to his friend but he said he thought i should go out with the guy I'd gone out with before...this would be so much easier with names...so here...lets say John and his friend Gary were talking to me and John got off and Gary said he figured I should probably go out with John again. I don't see any of this working out in the long run or anything, but I agreed because I figured I liked him alright and he'd be kinda a fall back guy...kinda like when I've got no one better to have a relationship with. I know that sounds really horrible, but it's not really like that...I do like him he just lives lightyears away is all. So should I keep going out with him or what? I don't know what to do...

o ya...16/f

I get it. when i was 12 i liked this guy but he lived 2 towns away (one of my second cosin's friends) he was sooooooo nice n hot we talked almost every day on the phone but i finally said bye. every once in a while i think about him.

follow ur heart babe!

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what exactly does "my cherry popped" mean?

cervix = cherry
cherry popped = sex

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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