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Long story short, my boyfriend was joking around about something (he's a really good joker), didn't tell me he was joking, so I was super upset and when he was gone last night I took all of his stuff that he's given me back over to his house (actually I left it at his cousins but that's beside the point.)

Thing is, we still talk. He says he still loves me and he would take me back but the fact that I brought all his stuff back changes things. Last night on the phone he was bawling, and he barely ever cries. I could tell he was really hurt. He couldn't listen to the radio or put on any of our songs. I want him back so bad. When he called me last night I was a bitch to him at first because I was hurting so bad but then we talked and I wasn't a bitch anymore. He said that is another reason why he can't take me back right now. Because I was a bitch. I miss him so much I can't even put it into words. What can I do to show him that I swear that's the last time I will ever be a bitch? He was talking about suicide and I don't. He's my everything, my world. I love him more than anything. I need him back. I know he loves me too. The thing is now he has a girlfriend (which is another long story, he went out with her to forget about me because he thought I broke up with him.) He still tells me he loves me. I will rate 5's to everyone that helps, but please don't tell me that it's his fault for joking about it. That's not the point really. I want him back. I need him back. Please help! Thank you if you try. (link)
If he was joking then you should probably say that you didn't know he was, and that it hurt your feelings. You might want to apologize for taking back all of the stuff he got, becuase it looks like that really hurt him too. If he loves you and you love him you should definetly call him or IM him tonight and tell him that you still love him.


my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help (link)
Use a heavy cover up like stick foundation or powder to cream foundation. Also Joey New York Hide n' Heal works very well on things like that. Maybe if the hickey looks like a bruise you can tell your squad that it is a bruise.


how can i be more confident in myself? (link)
picture the person at your school that you admire most. What does that person do that you don't do? Do you think the reason that youre not as condfident as you'd like to be is because of something like your body or clothes or your grades? Try and fix those things. I'm not as confident in my body because im very underweight, but its easy to fix something like that. Just try your hardest in everything you do and you will be more confident in yourself.


I'll rate 5's... Alright well Monday i was sick with a stuffy nose and a sore throat. I was still sick Tuesday but I went to school. I felt fine Wednesday and Thursday. But Friday night my throat hurt everytime I swallowed. I woke up Saturday morning at 5AM and I felt so sick; I still do ; I have a wicked headache, My throat hurts, my nose is stuffy, and my stomach hurts. Do you know what this is ?? How can I get better ?? (link)
It could just be a relapse. (When you get sick a couple days after you get better) You could also go to a doctor just to make sure that its not something bigger than that. But you're probably just sick agian from what you had a couple nights ago.


Every night for the past week or two, I've been having really bad nightmares. Two of the nights I've had nightmares that I was in a car accident. The other two nights, I've had dreams that I killed someone I love and tried to hide their body, then realized what I did was wrong and felt scared and guilty. I looked everywhere online to find out what these dreams mean and why I keep having them. Can someone tell me what all of this means? I rate 5's for all answers. (link)
Well, I'm not QUITE sure but nightmares can mean that you're trying to do too much in your life. They can also imply what your life might be like. You're probably not going to kill someone though. If you're in a car accident in a dream it might mean that there will be a rough spot in your life wiht maybe school/ work or family/friends. Killing someone may mean that you're mad at someone or hurt their feelings and try to pretend that it didnt happen. But then you might feel sad and guilty of what you did.


My bf is acting really weird. He used to ride me all the time about being unemployed. He would say that I needed to better my life and to stop living off the system (welfare). Well that just wasnt true that I didnt want to better my life because I was volunteering at two different jobs to get a good reference.
Anyways, all the volunteering paid off because I finally got a good job at a store that was a UNION!
At first my bf was happy and said he hoped it would work out.
Well it has worked out REALLY well. I've been getting good hours, and get along with everyone. And I'm having FUN too!!
When I told my bf this he sounded like he was mad or something that it was working out so well!
I don't understand him, first he's mad I'm not working, then when I do get a good job he sounds jealous! Does anyone have any ideas on why he's acting this way? I will give everyone 5's. (link)
Does he have a job? If he doesn't than he shouldn't be bugging you about you not having one. If he does maybe he's just a little tired of it, or maybe he totally hates it now and could be jealous because you have a job that you really enjoy.


how can you tell the difference between an authentic christian dior bag from a replica? i know how to tell the authenticity from brands like fendi (ex. metal tag under the inner zipper) and prada, but does anyone have any words of caution for dior bags (other than an authentication card, serial number, etc)? thanks a bunch! (link)
Usually designer bags such as Dior have a fabric inside of them that has Dior embroidred in it. The knockoffs just have a plain fabric inside.


im doing a math project and i need a creative way to display my notes. i have 21 topics, and i could do a poster or powerpoint, but i want to do something more creative. any ideas?
ALL FIVES (link)
Well you could do a powerpoint but add a lot of animation, bright colors, and pictures from the internet. That always works.


heya! me and my boy friend split up like 3 weeks ago because his mum didnt agree but yeah anyways we were going out 1 year 1 month and i always use to spend money on him for like birthday christmas like the usual then like our 1 year anniversary and valentines day oo i got him something from holidays too but now its like nearly christmas and i want to get him something but i dno what. the last pressie i got him was a ID braclet with his name on the front and love (my name) on the back but i dno what to get him now were not going out. up to about £50
and im 14. thank youuu! x x x (link)
Get him something that you would get another guy friend, like a CD he would like or a DVD. Stuff like that always works. And if you're getting a card too, then sign it with something like: Your friend.


well..
i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice (link)
dont have a serious relationship. if you've already had sex more than once and he still needs to think about it, then he wont be serious in your relationship.




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