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I'm empty without him.


Question Posted Saturday November 26 2005, 10:22 am

Long story short, my boyfriend was joking around about something (he's a really good joker), didn't tell me he was joking, so I was super upset and when he was gone last night I took all of his stuff that he's given me back over to his house (actually I left it at his cousins but that's beside the point.)

Thing is, we still talk. He says he still loves me and he would take me back but the fact that I brought all his stuff back changes things. Last night on the phone he was bawling, and he barely ever cries. I could tell he was really hurt. He couldn't listen to the radio or put on any of our songs. I want him back so bad. When he called me last night I was a bitch to him at first because I was hurting so bad but then we talked and I wasn't a bitch anymore. He said that is another reason why he can't take me back right now. Because I was a bitch. I miss him so much I can't even put it into words. What can I do to show him that I swear that's the last time I will ever be a bitch? He was talking about suicide and I don't. He's my everything, my world. I love him more than anything. I need him back. I know he loves me too. The thing is now he has a girlfriend (which is another long story, he went out with her to forget about me because he thought I broke up with him.) He still tells me he loves me. I will rate 5's to everyone that helps, but please don't tell me that it's his fault for joking about it. That's not the point really. I want him back. I need him back. Please help! Thank you if you try.

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tinydancer71591 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 10:21 pm:
let him know that you still love him. just because someome said that you should let go of someone you love, doesn't mean you're suppose to. keep him! get your egos out of the way and take each other back. try and control your emotions. let him know that you love him!

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xxoBriannax answered Saturday November 26 2005, 6:58 pm:
Well if he really did love you, he would forgive you for being a bitch and breaking his stuff. Tell him that you were just mad that he was joking. If he still doesn't take you back, he isn't worth it. That's stupid to not take you back over a fight.

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elliajean1214 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 5:46 pm:
If he was joking then you should probably say that you didn't know he was, and that it hurt your feelings. You might want to apologize for taking back all of the stuff he got, becuase it looks like that really hurt him too. If he loves you and you love him you should definetly call him or IM him tonight and tell him that you still love him.

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