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Well a friend and I were booted off a forum for no reason back in September. We didnt do anything wrong because the problems with the webmaster didnt happen on the forum. It happened on myspace and imdb but we did get deleted for no reason. We were dealing with issues concerning with asking him some qustions which he never bothered to answer and asking him whether the celebrty profile he was running was real on myspace, etc. But we never got an answer. He never told us why we were deleted from the forum. We tried emailing and talking to him but he ignored us and we have this all out going war with him since Septmeber. And because of us, he will not add anyone to the myspace profile he runs for this celeb. Yes. The celeb is rea because he knows about the profile, but has his webmaster run it and its official. Unless you are not a friend of ours, he will not add anyone which sucks. He called us named and judged us. My friend was talking to him via imdb in pms ad he said he was sorry for calling us names and was wrong, etc. This was last month and we was working things out and stuff. He said also we were allowed back on the forum. We tried to rejoin but was never approved. Then this month he called us names once again and plus on imdb he promised that he would not call us names as was wrong but then he goes back to calling us names. He has blocked the both of us from sending him emails, etc. We were working things out until he became a jerk once again. Would a letter to him work? I just dont think it will with explaining what we did, etc. I just dont think it will work. Hed just ignore it since hes being a jerk, etc and calling us names which calling people names wont relaly slve anything. We have not done anything wrong to the webmaster of this forum but try and work things out. We didnt hurt anyones feelings, etc and didnt mean to and had no intentions to. I dunno what else we can do. We have tried letters to the celeb involved in this, but nothing seems to be working. He likes talking things over the phone though but we both can not do long distance since we all live in diffrent states and my friend and I dont like talking on the phone as we perfer emails, etc but he has ignored us and blocked us from emailing him, etc. How muture that when you want to work things out and end this war etc? Plus he says this celeb will not accept anything from us since he called us troublemakers but we havent done a thing wrong to him, etc. All e are tryign to do is work things out and in hopes this war will end and hopefully move on and rejoin the forum, but dont look like this will happen, etc. But does anyone have anything we can do? Thanks. :) I know there are other forums to join but we just want to end this, etc since its been going on and off since September. (link)
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Dear Forums,
Aprently going on this forum isn't worth it just forget about it.
-Beanie
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What are some good tips to get better at counter strike? my kill death ratio is always a 1, i want to make it a 1.5 or 2 if possible. Im going over to a friends house later today to LAN with all our friends, (NO IM NOT A NARK) Im in language Arts rite now so ill check back next period, Thanks. (link)
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Dear CS,
No worries you'll get better at CS, it took me 5 months to get good, but you'll good over time. If you want i'm making a clan if you want to join, i will help train you, it'll be fun, (as long as i'm not made fun of because i'm a girl playing on a steam account) it'll rock and you'll get better no worries.
e-mail me if you're interested in my help
elementskater0615@yahoo.com
-Beanie
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Hello, first I would like to say that I am a 16/m and I started smoking weed every weekend and some weekdays since August. I went off to go hotbox my friends truck tonight and we did, and we had a blast. I was out from about 4-9, and we didn't smoke til about 6. Anyways, when I came home about 30 mins ago I said hello to my mom and then I started eating. My mom was like "What's wrong with your eyes... oh my gosh.. what have you been doing?" And I said "What!? Nothing! What do you think I've been doing? I stayed up really late last night watching a movie and then I woke up early and then I drank an energy drink so I'm really tired!" well then my mom was like "then go look in the bathroom mirror." and Oh my God. My eyes weren't TOO bad, but they were still hella glossy and a bit red, and wow were my pupils dialated. I simply said Mom, I DONT do drugs. I'm really tired... that's all... and she was like "whatever. take out the dishes." What I'm wondering is how do I deal with this? My mom will probably think that I have smoked before and then she will get mad, even though she used to smoke weed when she was my age. Thanks for any input, sorry for the long story :P (link)
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Dear caught,
Don't worry about that long story. Try smoking earlier than you normally do, you say you normally started smoking around 6pm try smoking about a half and hours after you hook up with your friends, and for now maybe skip a couple weekends of doing just to lay low and pretty much cover your ass for the next 3 weeks then start again. Just try to stay low and let things cool down, it may be hard but trust me i know where your coming from.
-Beanie
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Well, I usually don't ask for anything expensive during the holidays but this year since I'm 17, there's a lot that I feel like I would need. My mom is planning on getting me a car soon (not for christmas but within the next couple of months). So that's kind of a christmas present from her I guess. My parents are divorced and I was planning on asking my dad for a Sidekick 3 phone (along with some CDs), but I don't know if that's asking for too much since I'm getting a car soon. I don't want to be a little spoiled brat. What do you think? Just wait for the phone or ask for both...car from mom and phone from my dad? I know my birthday is an option but that's not until september.
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Dear Asking for too much,
Try not asking for anything and see what you recive, you may be surprised.
-Beanie
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so.. there was this guy who went away for awhile and we were going to date when he got back.. then he did stuff with another girl (made out) i saw pictures.. and i was really said. and he turned it around on me.. even though i had the right to be upset.. and now i cant get over him. its been 4 months.. but he has a girlfriend and we just started talking again.. he said i miss you.. but i think he likes my brother.
he was the first guy i ever felt comfortable with..
everyone has been saying.. theres other guys out there.. but there is no other guy like him.. i tried and tried but everytime i tried to feel what i felt with him with other guys those guys wanted more.. soon enough i was known as a whore.. things have gotten better.. but i really want him back..
what do i do?
talk to him in person? if so what do i say.. (link)
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Dear sad,
This may sound harsh, but Fuck him.
Aparently he's not going to be worth it, because if he was he would of done something by now, and yes he may be this "first" guy that you feel comfortable with. Don't worry you have your whole life ahead of you.
I was in the same situation once i fell in love for the first time, it took me 1 year to get over him, and sometimes i still have trouble but i'm able to date other guyz now.
It may feel like your ass is dropping off the face of the earth but don't worry you wont fall. Most even say that when the first heartbreak is over it makes you stronger.
-Beanie
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I Have Been Working With This Girl Now for 10 Years,Everything I do she copy's from me, from my Nailpolish ,to the same exact kind of car and the same color too....I Cant do anything without her doing the same thing,I feel like i cant be myself
because she is always doing and saying the same things as me.I have said something to her before and it still hasnt stopped.What can i do to stop this annoying behavior?PLEASE HELP ME CAUSE IM GOING CRAZY!!!!!!! (link)
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Dear copycat,
Tell her to back off, you need to tell her the truth, tell her how it's driving you insane. She needs to know the truth some time, better make it soon before she wants the same job as you.
-Beanie
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guys are weird.
this one boy, in school.. he always always always looks at me, ALWAYS. & whenever i like sit next to him though, he'll be like oh noo. & junk like that. & i dc because i hate him too.. lol. but its just weird, that hes always looking at me, i dont get why? why does he? any ideaa?? (link)
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Dear Guyz are Weird
Well he either thinks your hott, and doesn't want his friends to knw. Or he's just being a complete ass. So try saying hi to him in the hallway when his friends aren't around and see what happens then. If he responds with a hi and tries talking to you again he diggs you. But if he acts like an ass he's doing the whole staring thing to piss you off.
Irene
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my friend follows me EVERYWHERE and does EVERYTHING i do. if i hang out with someone, she doesn't let me hang out with them she will just invite her self over to where we are and start hanging out with us. ITS REALLY ANNOYING! i'm actually starting to make new friends but its impossible if i keep hanging around with her.
Shes really bossy and controlling. What should i do? Should i keep ignoring her or tell her to stop following me around? (link)
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Dear most annoying friend,
Tell her like it is, it may hurt her feelings, but no offense she needs to get a life. If you keep ignoring she'll procede with what she is doing. So get it over and done with and let her face the music.
-Beanie
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My friend was telling me about her and her Boy friend and she mentioned the words "ejaculates" and "comes." Me and my boyfriend havent had sex and i'm pretty sure thats what she was talking about, but i was afrid to ask her what ejaculates and comes ment. plez tell me. (link)
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Dear Ejaculation/cums,
Cum and ejaculates has to do with Sex but it doesn't at the same time. A guy pretty much durring sex at one point cums inside the female, which will get her pregnent if not wearing a condom. But also a guy cums when hemasterbats, gets "off", which means horny.
any more questions about it just e-mail me.
-Beanie
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are guys attracted by eyes? it seems that if i guy ever looks i me its directly in my eyes and staring...i was voted prettiest eyes in my schoool and the be honest it's the only feature of myself i like....what i was wondering is is guys attracted to eyes when they look for a girl?
(when i look for i boy....eyes is what i notice first...but what about guys?) (link)
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Dear Eyes,
Most guyz look into a girls first because normally when you look into a guyz eyes they give you that sense of aknoledgement, or to even let you know they're into you, yes guyz do dig eyes but it's not the only thing they look for, but it's something they notice. And for you only thinking your eyes are your best feature you need to feel more confident, trust me it'll turn a few more heads.
-Beanie
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ok, do guys like it if a girl grinds on him? and how exactally do you grind? i have no real clue, lol. 15/f
thanks a bunch (link)
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Dear awkward question,
Most guyz love it. So when your at a dance pass a guy give him a smile and ask him if he wants to dance if he says yes then just lean your backside into him grab his hands place them on your stomach and you pretty much just have a wave movement. Don't worry you'll get it once you start you just need to make that very first bold move.
-Beanie
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it might be long =/
Alrightt this school year just seems to be horrible. It was amazing at the begging of the year i have so much fun and eveything i wanted, amazing friends and a boyfriend. Every weekend i was going out going to parties have fun and doing good in school. BUt then one week it badcially all came down, my boyfriend broke up with me and a few of my friends turned on me and it it was just a lot to handel at once. Be cause of all that i only have 2 true friends now abnd one of them had to move to another state. So lately i have been going out im doing bad in school ad i just alwasy feel depressed. I hide it alot because im trying to dssorta talk to more pople maybe make this year beter but when you have gone to school with the same poeple your whole life, they already have an idea of who you are so aming friends is hard, so bacially here is my question what are some ways i can make myself more happy? What can i do to have a funner year.
thankss for anyone who read this cause its long =] (link)
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Dear hard year,
I know it may seem bad but things will turn around for you, it always does. This may seem harsh, but it's a just, that you will probably get over within this month. And really when you think about it no one has that many true friends. Because really think about true friends are the people that stick by your side no matter what. You find out who your true friends when you are put in a situation. And that seems like what happened. So now you know who your true friends are. And honestly most people only have around 1-3 true friends. And don't worry the depression will go away, do something when you start feeling depressed.
Draw or paint, make some music or go shoot a few hoops. And just try to stay positive, instead of looking at all the bad things, look at all the good things, you can now check other guyz out, and you can always make new friends.
A good idea is to join a sport team, it'll bring you close together with all the people in the team.
Don't worry it wasn't too long of a question.
-Beanie
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ive had a tight group of friends since like the 3rd grade. now everything is falling apart and we seem to not click as well as we used to. but the thing is they were my life, and i hung out with them every weekend and told them everything, but now i just feel like i cant connect with anyone these days. im not going to change myself for the preps at my school and im not going to be a dork. theres no one in between, and i no the only reason i have held on to these friends for so long is because i have no where else to go, and i guess i got to comferitble, but now i have relized that they arent real friends.
how can i make new ones? (link)
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Der Lonely,
Don't worry about the sudden change, it's extremely when you get older, not everyone stays together forever, although you may get lucky and find a friend for life, but friends come and go. Try joining a sport. It's a great way to meet new people and it brings you close to the people in that sport. And if your not into sports join a club.
-Beanie
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ok so my favorite pair of shoes are these ballet flats that YOU CANNOT WEAR SOCKS WITH cuz it would look WEIRD and UGLY! so i wear them a lot but not like every day anyway they make my feet smell SO BAD so like what should i do to keep that from happening? cuz i love the shoes..... (link)
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Dear stinky feet,
Go to a drug store and get some baby poder and before you put your shoes on put some baby powder on the bottom of your and inside of your shoes, then when you put them on make sure that you can't see any of the powder.
-Beanie
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okay for the past couple mouths i have no clue if my best friend L. I don't know if i think of mhim as just a friend or i have been in denial about me liking him ever since like 7th grade! I mean he's so sweet to me, he teases me all the time but when i get mad he'll imdeatly stop and say aww you know im just kidding. He's probably more of a friend then a lot of the girls in my grade. Should iI tell him or should I wait to see what his thoughts are about me?
~~~~~~~~U KNOW WHO! JM~~~~~~~~~~
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Dear JM,
I can tell where your coming because I have a friend exactly like that but we ended up just staying friends. If you want to see if he really likes try asking him to the movies just to hang out or to hang at your house and watch some movies and just see how that turns out, if your still not sure try bringing up little peices of it up to him in a conversation.
-Beanie
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ok soo i have noooo clue on what i should get my boyfriend for x mas!!
and im going shoppping tomorrow??
so can someone help meee please!!
he likes sports a lot and that all i can think of.. haha
hmm i was thinking about getting him like a season of a show he likes on dvd.. is that a thoughtfull gift?>?
also how much do u suggest spending... on a gift.
and is maybe colonge a good idea??
allll help is VERY appriciated!! thank you!! (link)
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Dear x-mas,
Does your boyfriend like a specific teamm such as a soccer, football, or hockey team. If so then get him a jersey of his favorite team.
Another good idea is calogne such as Ralph Loren Black or Blue, or maybe Adidas it's more of a sporty calogne.
And a show that he likes on dvd is a thoughtful idea.
Try not to spend too much money try to keep it between $10-$30 and make a homemade card with some thoughtful words in it.
-Beanie
Happy Holidays
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hey well i have my boyfriend(thomas) and we go to the same school and all but we like never talk. i feel like were just friends i havent kissed him or anything we've only hold hands once and we have been going out for a month and 8 days and i just dont know wat to do should i give it more time and maybe things will change or should i just break up wiht him and the worst thing is that we are going to christmas break today and i wont c him till three weeks so i dont know wat to do some one help me pls... (link)
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Dear ughhh,
Well I think that breaking up with him would be too rash. Try talking to him ad asking him if it would be too fast if you kissed him or wanted to move to the next base (yes it may seem awkword to talk to him about but it needs to be done), because one of my last boyfriends wouldn't kiss me and it was our 3rd month and i found out he was just scared and didn't want to hurt me or anything to ruin it, so talk to him and see wut is going on in that head of his.
-Beanie
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This really cute guy kissed me 4 months ago out of blue. We've been friends for a while, and I always have crash on him. After the day he kissed me, he didn't talk to me for 4 months. (neither email or any form of communication)
Now, we start to talk through emails, but he acts as nothing ever happened. What does this mean? What's going on? What do I do? (link)
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Ok, no offense but it was four months ago and if he meant something about it he would of said something by now. Unless he's the extremely shy type. It probably means that he didn't mean anything by it and he probably just wants to still be friends. So what you should do (this may take alot of guts but it needs to be done) pull him aside next time you see him away from everyone and ask him if he meant anything from that kiss. And if he says no, then you need to move on. If he says yes, make a bold move and ask him out.
-Beanie
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