my friend follows me EVERYWHERE and does EVERYTHING i do. if i hang out with someone, she doesn't let me hang out with them she will just invite her self over to where we are and start hanging out with us. ITS REALLY ANNOYING! i'm actually starting to make new friends but its impossible if i keep hanging around with her.
Shes really bossy and controlling. What should i do? Should i keep ignoring her or tell her to stop following me around?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? winteromancex answered Saturday December 16 2006, 12:30 am: The reason from mye experience that she is doing this is because shes insecure which is often why people act bossy or rude. to try to hide that fact, and my guess is that she's hanging out with you because she doesn't feel that she has any other friends and she doesn't want to lose you, so what you need to do is just talk to her in person adn just tell her how you feel, but do it nicely because chances are she's just feeling bad about herself.
beanie answered Friday December 15 2006, 8:12 pm: Dear most annoying friend,
Tell her like it is, it may hurt her feelings, but no offense she needs to get a life. If you keep ignoring she'll procede with what she is doing. So get it over and done with and let her face the music.
etnies40210 answered Friday December 15 2006, 5:41 pm: Tell her you are a lesbian and have mad hot love for her... heh that'll get her away. or just tell her you need sum "alone time"
hope it helped
nathan [ etnies40210's advice column | Ask etnies40210 A Question ]
FlipShawtii answered Friday December 15 2006, 5:35 pm: you see how she's driving you insane??? you want that to happen EVERY SINGLE DAY??? no, so the best way to deal with this is to talk to her, hope i helped!! [ FlipShawtii's advice column | Ask FlipShawtii A Question ]
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