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lonely ive had a tight group of friends since like the 3rd grade. now everything is falling apart and we seem to not click as well as we used to. but the thing is they were my life, and i hung out with them every weekend and told them everything, but now i just feel like i cant connect with anyone these days. im not going to change myself for the preps at my school and im not going to be a dork. theres no one in between, and i no the only reason i have held on to these friends for so long is because i have no where else to go, and i guess i got to comferitble, but now i have relized that they arent real friends.
how can i make new ones?
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Wow I know just how you feel. And making new friends may seem hard and it will take a while. But also make sure you are willing to leave your other friends. Just start talking to new people. Start up small converstaions and then as you go on they will gorw. But its not gonna be easy makeing whole new friends is going to take a while. Maybe joins some more activities in school [clubs, sports ect.] so you can meet lots of new people.
Jess ]
Der Lonely,
Don't worry about the sudden change, it's extremely when you get older, not everyone stays together forever, although you may get lucky and find a friend for life, but friends come and go. Try joining a sport. It's a great way to meet new people and it brings you close to the people in that sport. And if your not into sports join a club.
-Beanie ]
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