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so.. there was this guy who went away for awhile and we were going to date when he got back.. then he did stuff with another girl (made out) i saw pictures.. and i was really said. and he turned it around on me.. even though i had the right to be upset.. and now i cant get over him. its been 4 months.. but he has a girlfriend and we just started talking again.. he said i miss you.. but i think he likes my brother.
he was the first guy i ever felt comfortable with..
everyone has been saying.. theres other guys out there.. but there is no other guy like him.. i tried and tried but everytime i tried to feel what i felt with him with other guys those guys wanted more.. soon enough i was known as a whore.. things have gotten better.. but i really want him back..
what do i do?
talk to him in person? if so what do i say..
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Dear sad,
This may sound harsh, but Fuck him.
Aparently he's not going to be worth it, because if he was he would of done something by now, and yes he may be this "first" guy that you feel comfortable with. Don't worry you have your whole life ahead of you.
I was in the same situation once i fell in love for the first time, it took me 1 year to get over him, and sometimes i still have trouble but i'm able to date other guyz now.
It may feel like your ass is dropping off the face of the earth but don't worry you wont fall. Most even say that when the first heartbreak is over it makes you stronger.
-Beanie
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well if he really wanted to be with you he would have waitited to come back...for some reason i think he forgot about you and he moved on....i know its gonna be hard for you cause u really care about this guy but you have to move on too....there is othere guys out there for you...hes not the only one..and plus you shouldnt feel sad over a guy...i think u should talk to him and see what he tells you if you think that he will give you a chance go for it .
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well if you still care for him tell him you said so yourself that you guys are just beging to talk again so take it slow and about him with another gurl forgive him but dont let your guard down and remeber if there was a feeling or a spark of fire in the first place cause you said you guys were gonna date than maybe theres still a spark left and the fire didnt completely die out you know so try to rekingley that fire and since he has a gurlfriend make him see that she cant give him whaat you can but to a certian extent and remeber take it slow you dont want to put yourself out there just to be turned down so good luck hope i helped
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