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Hi, my name is Katie and I'm 15 years old. In those fifteen years I've literally been through more than most people go through in their entire life. I absolutely love helping people, and I've been told by many people that I'm good at it. I'll definitely love to give you advice, but I'm telling you right now I will say what I think, I'm not going to sugar coat everything or tell you what you want to hear just so you'll give me good ratings. So if you have any questions, about anything at all, just ask away, I'd be more than happy to help =]
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http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v248/dancehottie887/DSCN0750.jpg

that is my picture. i asked a question yesterday about my hair. now i need to know about makeup. what would be some good makeup tips for me? (link)
Well first off, you are a beautiful woman! So you don't need much makeup, because you are naturally beautiful. A bit of brown eyeliner on the bottom and top of your lids with pink, purple, or bright blue eyeshadow would really make your eyes pop!
A little bit of pale pink blush would give you that sort of disney princess, classic look if you would like that as well.
By the way, I'm in love with your hair!! :D

-Katie


Me and my boyfriend have not gone "all the way" but close to it, but im afraid somethings gone wrong. im usualy irregual but if i go off the last time i had my period...im 5 days late...i am usualy late but i usually have sever cramps the days leading up to it so i know its comming. now i just have like 1 cramp a day. is this normal or is something wrong...could i even be pregnant? (link)
No it's completely normal to skip around on your period or miss it completely! Unless you and your boyfriend have actually had sex, then you shouldn't be pregnant :D

-Katie


ok i have acne and i tryed ever face wash all it does is make me face brake out more and i have no money to get a face docter and i wanna know how i can llok better and what kinda face wash works and i have blonde hair and brown eyes is pink eyeshadow and black eyeliner good for my makeup (link)
Well all I can say is to wash your face, twice a day. And also a little home redemy I've found that works most of the time is to put a dab of toothpaste on the acne bumps that are coming up or that are already there. Put it on right before you go to bed, wash it off in the morning. Works pretty well.
If that doesn't work for you then you should try taking a Q-Tip and dipping it in Hydrogen Poroxide then rubbing it on the acne bumps. Do that after you wash your face. It should help.
Also, make-up in general, any kind, is fine for your skin. But try to get foundation that says OIL FREE!! That's the best for your pores and skin.
Just a tip, blue eyeshadow will make your brown eyes pop and instead of looking at your breakouts people will notice your eyes. Also, instead of black eyeliner all the time, mix it up, thy a little brown eyeliner, especially if you are going to wear pink eyeshadow, those two mix really well!!
Good luck, hope this helped.

-Katie


I know that it is almost impossible to get pregnant with having sex. However, I hooked up with a boy and he ejaculated on his hand and my sheets and we kept hooking up. Now I'm 8 days late on my period. But seriously....what are the chances of me being pregnant (link)
Yeah, your chances of being pregnant are pretty slim at this point. But still to be on the safe side you should get a home pregnancy test to make sure.
Good luck.

-Katie


okay well as a christmas gift this past christmas my parents got me christina a. concert tickets... well just recently, heather (24 years old, so my mom approve of her responsibility, really nice, etc) mentioned it would be at TON of fun if we went together.. well im sure my mom intended for me and HER to go together but i brought it up anyways. i said to her "hahah yesterday heather was like 'IT WOULD BE AMAZING IF WE WENT TOGETHER, WOULDNT?!!??! ASK YOUR MOM' shes so funny" and my mom said i could bring her cause they were MY christmas gifts... and she seemed kinda sad but she said she didnt mind...

Wellll, i reallyreallyreally want to bring Heather, but i fell terrible. and plus i know that if my mom goes we'll get into a fight... AND she already has a musical planned for us to go to together next month... so is it that big of a deal?

so here are my list of questions...:

-who should i bring? (i want to bring heather but who SHOULD i bring)
-if heather, then how do i tell my mom
-if mom, what should i tell heather.... ):


THANKS AND SORRY IT WAS SO LONGGGGGG. (:
xoxo (link)
Bring whoever you'll have more fun with. It's your Christmas present, and you should enjoy it.
You can always hang out with the other person another time.

-Katie


I'm 14/f and I constantly find myself getting very bored around girls because I have no urge or interest to talk about make up or hair or dresses and celebrity gossip and blah blah.

I am more entertained I guesss you can say when I'm talking with guys because personally, some of them actually talk about interesting topics and some I can get into deep conversations with.

I only have two girls that I can talk with and nto get bored with and one too many guy friends that I'm always talking with...

Is that weird? And another question is would guys be intiminated by the fact that I have a whole group of guy friends and only 2 girl friends??? (link)
Naw, this isn't wierd at all. Who doesn't get tired of hearing about how Becky is such a whore, and how David is going out with Lindsay now and they are so ugly together.
Honestly, I think guy friends are alot better. Less drama :)

-Katie


i hang with ppl who do drugs and i personally have done them before but i quit, now my sister thinks i still do them but i dont...how do i get her to chill? (link)
Have a one on one talk with her. Tell her you quit. And tell her the reasons why you quit. Believe me this works. I quit smoking ages ago, but my sister wasn't convinced. I had about a ten minute talk with her about the reasons why I quit and she believed me.
Good luck.

-Katie


hey. 14/f. I was wondering if there are certain foods that make you get bigger boobs. b.c i have like normal boobs but i want bigger boobs. so is there anything that i can get to get bigger boobs?
Thanks :] (link)
Unfortunately not. There is nothing you can do to increase your breast size, except plastic surgery, but I'm seriously doubting you want to do that ;)

-Katie


a butt? i mean i dont have a HUGE a*s but i do have one. I get complimented on it all the times from guys, but i was wondering if guys do like butts? (link)
Hahah, yes they do. I have mostly guy friends, and you will not believe the stories I hear from them about some girl's butt. Their motto is "The bigger the better".

-Katie


Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
I know what you mean. Okay, I'm going to give you the 'go to your best friend's party' speech really fast. She's your best friend, she'll always be there for you and this Lucy girl probably won't.
But I think if you wanted to go to Lucy's party then that's fine too. Your not a bad person if you don't go to Margaret's party. Plus, shopping and spending the night in a hotel! Niiiice =]
You can always do something with Margaret. Tell her happy birthday, and spend the next weekend together to celebrate.
I'm sure whichever one you choose to go to everything will work out.
Have fun!!

-Katie


http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t93/mmm_cookies123/100_4289.jpg

ok by looking at that picture can you tell me what kind of prom dress i should get and the color.

and what color of makeup to use

and what kinda shoes.

oh and this is a pic of me w/ askirt on soo that might help i guess i dont know

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t93/mmm_cookies123/100_4172.jpg (link)
I think with your dark hair you should go with a green or blue dress. And just try on different styles of dresses to see what you like best and what looks best on you; every dress is different.
If you aren't tall, wear heels, if you are then you can still wear them unless you don't want to then I suggest getting a long dress down to the floor and wear flip flops (most comfortable on a night like that.. it's what I'm doing for prom).
As for makeup, stay classy. Less is more in this case. But do make your eyes pop with a light eyeshadow, liner and mascara.

Have fun on the big night!

-Katie


Is there a special cheat to make a Sim go up one age? (ex. from an adult to an elder) Because I kind of made my whole family, starting with my grandparents, only since I made my parents as teens they went straight to college, and had my sisters and I, so I've played with them more and now my parents are older than my grandparents =] Thank you! (link)
boolProp is your best friend in this case!

boolProp testingcheatsenabled true

Type that into the cheat bar, then right click on your sim's mailbox. There will be a bubble that says "Set to Birthday..." Click it, then the sim's name that you want to age up.

-Katie


ok so my bf and i have decided to have sex but the thing is we are both virgins. so i would like to know if it is possible that i can get pregnant by swallowing his semen. i have heard it's possible and other's say it's not. can someone pls clarify for me?
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No, you cannot get pregnant from swallowing sperm.


I have been goin out with my bf for one year and we have made out and other stuff but i was wandering if anyone knows any other things i could do to suprise him or different ways i can kiss him or anything! i just want new things to do nothing like hj bj or sex! please give me some ideas. guys could tell me ways their gfs makes them feel good! (link)
-Give him a really good back massage. Guys may not admit it, but they really do enjoy a good back rub from time to time :)
-When you kiss him run your fingers through his hair and twirl a strand of his hair.
-Watch a movie together on the couch. Let him hold you while you lay on his chest. [It's fun to listen to a guys heartbeat when you do this too]

Good luck, I hope this helped at least a little.

-Katie


Im 13/f and our grade 8 graduation is in June. I am already thinking of dresses. I live in Canada so I can't go to stores in the states. I want a dress thats not black, like maybe blue or red, pink or white since I look good in those colors. Im also only a 32A. I was wonderring if you guys knew any good stores/sites to get a dress from. Maybe some ideas on the type of dress I should get. I am very slim, with dark brown hair, tanned skin and have an asian background. Im also 5'2. Any ideas? (link)
I'd say go with a blue, baby blue or sky blue, that will compliment your skintone and your dark hair. Don't get a very formal looking one, but maybe one that goes down to your knees, like almost and easter dress type, almost.
If you have Macy's and JCPenny in Canada check out those stores, they have a wide selection of dresses always!!
If you don't have those stores then check Google some stores in your area that carry dresses.

Good luck at your graduation!

-Katie


my school year is stuck on saying "grad student 06" when i'm really a freshman. i changed it to class year 2010. is this right? (link)
Yes, if you are a freshman you are graduating in 2010. I'll be graduating in the same year you are =]

-Katie


what are some quick, easy ways to tighten a flabby stomach? (link)
Sit ups, crunches, curl ups.
Check out seventeen.com's excersise section. They always have the latest workouts that are great!

-Katie


is cathline
pronounced kathleen
i seriously
cant think
of any nickname
that suits me.
like
i hate cathy, cath, cat
can somebody give me some nicknames
they dont have to start with c
i just want a nickname so that when people ask what they should call me, i can say a name that relates to mine.
so all i'm asking for
is some ideas on nicknames.
thanks. (link)
Catie and Cay, pronounced like Katie and Kay, are the best that I can come up with.
I hope you like them.

-Katie


there's this boy. i think he is gorgous and he goes to my school, but im not sure how to get him to notice me. i see him a lota but he never sees me, he seems like a cool kid and he was in one of my classes before like a year or so but we never really talked. then one day i talked to him on myspace but i kinda played dumb. what should i do to get to know this guy, or even just have him notice me at school? (link)
Don't play dumb. That gets old and annoying really fast. Just talk to him, ask him about his day/weekend. Guys like that. Ask about sports he likes or plays. Get to know him, just ask about him.
Then share something with him that you both have in common. Be yourself. Don't act stupid to impress him, it never works and even if you get his attention for a little bit, no guy wants to be with a girl who can't read a clock or count to twenty ;)

-Katie


ok i have a formal dance in 3 weeks. I went to stores to try on dresses but because my boob's are kind of small every dress i tried on looked BAD !! and they all looked good on my friends =( is there any certain stores or places i can find a dress that will fit me ?? HELP (link)
I have the exact same problem! What you do is you find a dress, in your size, that you love! Buy it, and buy a bra to go with it. Padded/Push-ups give you the appeal of bigger breasts. That way you will look great in your dress!

Have fun at your formal!!

-Katie




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