-Hey world I've been on here awhile now i just wanna say being on here has been great! im not a specailist but im here for anyone that needs someone to talk to. :) feel free to ask me anything and don't feel ashamed, im not here to judge.we all have daily battles,but it doesn't mean we have to face them alone.with that being said I look forward to meeting you ;)
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I used to date a guy I was so much in love with,I would do anithing to make our relationship work.. I also had a very close friend but after a while we fought and things were no longer the same.. After a couple of months my boyfriend broke up with me I felt soo hurt I lost weight... A week after our break up he started dating my friend I was soo shocked because she knew about us and she still did that to me even though our friendship wasn't that strong... My exboyfriend I would say stopped talking to me and would flaunt her every where I feel so sad whenever I see them together I haven't been able to move on.. What should I do (link)
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Its never easy exspecally when you love them . You have to be strong and know that there is someone better out there for you the sooner you. Move on the better you will be. Be happy ,laugh,don't stress out .your feeling sad while he's happy he isn't worth it your beautiful so live life with a smile cheer up ;)
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A guys that has a girlfriend hits on me and I sort of let him. Hell walk by my lunch table stare at me for a couple of seconds and come over and give me a hug. At first I was like ok hugs aren't a big deal just friends. Today though, I was walking with my friends and he came up behind me and gave me a really tight hug. I turned around and told him "I didn't give you permission to hug me" and then he said " but now you do" and he hugged me really tightly again and picked me up and spun me around. Also today someone at hid lunch table asked if we were dating. He told me to sit with him for a second so I did. I know his girlfriend and they've been dating for 8 months. At one point I starts becoming her friend and then we stopped talking. I feel like a horrible person. I know that if he does this now then he would obviously do it if we ever dated. I want to stop it but I cant the attraction we have is so strong. I feel like im being used but at the same time I dont have an emotional connection with him its all physical attraction. I feel like his girlfriend doesn't deserve this. How can I stop it without ruining our friendship.
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You are right. You nor her deserve a guy like that because if he is doing it to her he will do it to you talk to her let her know what happening. And its gonna be hard but leave that guy alone. He hot but there's no feelings. Talk to him to let him know how you feel. And if his charm and looks get the best of you think about if you were his girlfriend and he was doing the same thing with someone else. Be strong! Good luck
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my 11 year old niece says that her 12 year old boyfriend raped another girl while they were dating and i am trying to get her to tell someone but she says she does not want to be a snitch and i think she is to young to have a boyfriend but her mom does not want to listen to me and this girl she told me about has started her period when when she was 10 what should I do? I can't go to the school because the girl does not go to my niece's school i am afraid the girl could be pregnant at 11 years old and that is a scary thought please help. (link)
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The best thing is to re_talk to your neice let hear know how serious the situation is make. And if she doesn't want to snitch then tell her to give you the information. I hope everything works out.
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Tomorrow is my boyfriend and I's 9 month anniversary. He's my best friend and I have never felt this way about anyone! Sure, we're in high school and we have our share of rough times, but we get along so well. He's really sweet, funny, and he treats me so right. Before we were dating, we gave each other our FB passwords because we would hack each other and write funny stuff. We've been close since my freshman year and his sophomore year.
Today, I was on his Facebook profile. I was just looking at his pictures, and a message popped up. It was an old message from a few months ago but I guess he stopped reading it. It was a message from one of his ex girlfriends. She is fifteen... and clearly immature..because I know her and she dates a guy every week and says she loves them each week. I'm a very jealous girl...and he's a very jealous guy...so when we get jealous, hell breaks loose! Anyways, the conversation between them was September 11, 2011. A week after we officially started dating. She and him were talking.. and just to add more anger, HE PUT THE MESSAGE IN HIS (OTHER) message folder just in case I went through his messages. I never had the right to, because I trusted him... but this message was clearly hidden from me. I read through it. Just to sum it up, he said hi first, and they started talking formally, like "how are you" and "sup"...but then she said, "I have a question... do you think there's a spark still between us?" And he said, "Are you breaking up with me?" And she said, "I don't know." And so he said, "Well you kind of left me to go hang with your friends and I felt left out and hurt...I just don't want this to go on anymore if you don't care..." and she said, "Idk" and then he said, "Just tell me how you feel" and the conversation ended.
I am absolutely heartbroken. I am getting so upset over something that happened months ago because he was dating someone else while he and I were talking! We talked from July to August in a flirty manner, and we got together in September. He would always say his neighbor was at his house, and I would get a bit jealous, but I would swipe it aside because I didn't want to seem clingy. I am so sick over this conversation that I feel so nauseous. I'm wondering if I should tell him and talk and tell him I know, but I don't want to seem like a nosy person or like I don't trust him. I'm just so hurt that he would still kiss me and ask me out while he was dating someone else...and now I feel like a rebound. Things ended between them a few days later, but it still hurts. Am I being overdramatic? Should I talk to him? (link)
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The best thing is be honest its hard when you are in situations like this. Tell him exacly what happened let him know how you feel if you don't your feelings about it will. Just continue to make you feel more worried and jealous good luck and congrats on making 9months!
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Sorry for the lenth
So I'm friends with this guy (btw we are both freshman) and we are both pretty opinionated. We've known each other for 3 or 4 years, but didn't become friends until this year because he was really annoying. Sometimes we joke around and end up getting into some heated but still friendly arguments. Something that I've started to notice is he's pretty insensitive. For example, I'm in band and one day he was basically calling band stupid. And I'm totally fine with people having their own opinions, he was just belittling everything about it to the point where he was making me feel crappy. Other times, I'll joke around with him. One time, my friends and I were teasing him. I only said one little thing while my friends kept teasing him and he got pissed at me and threatened to destroy one of my school projects that I had spent hours working on.
Earlier today, we were talking about what movies we were going to watch for the remainder of class after we were finished with our standardized state test. He said some movie that my parents had already told me I couldn't watch. So I was just like okay I'll just sleep. Then he told me that I should just watch it and not tell my parents. That really made me mad because I don't like to lie to my parents for a number of reasons, respect for them and my religion being two of the most. When I told him that, he told me that he respects his parents but lies to them to avoid lectures and punishments and then he criticized the way my parents are (which is fairly overprotective but I understand why they are the way they are) and that I should stand up to them. In my culture, something like that is a sign of disrespect. He basically said that was stupid. And then proceeded to continue criticizing me and telling me that I was stupid for having respect for everybody, no matter how badly they treat me. It really hurt me that he was belittling the way I am, the way my parents are, my religion, and my basic morals as a person. And every time I bring up that he makes me feel so bad, he's just tells me that I'm insensitive when I tease him. And I don't even tease him as much as my friends do. I know when to stop and leave him alone, but he doesn't realize that when he's serious about what he says to me, that it really offends me. I'm just getting tired of the way he treats me sometimes. What should I do? (link)
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You should always stick to what you believe in never let your friend stop you. He's a bully. Bullies like to pick and make fun of people but they hate when people do it to them. Tell him how you really feel and let him know that your serious. And if he continues to be the way he is then you shouldn't call him your friend anymore.
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I know getting over someone takes lots and lots of time but sometimes in order to move on we need to actually know that there is someone else out there for us. Anyway, I can't help but get angry over my ex's new girl in his life. The reason for our separation is a long confusing one which isn't even worth the discussion because I have faced the fact that it's over. But yeah, I don't think she likes me very much, I don't know why. But it angers me that she doesn't like me for some reason. I just don't want drama with anyone. I, at least, have a right to be angry at her, it's natural jealousy. And yes, I do still have feelings for him, but I can't and shouldn't anymore but I just can't help how I feel. I want to be over it and I want to move past it. I want to be like those other girls who can move on and not think about their past truly. I want to be able to not feel sad or mad whenever I hear about them or even see them, either together or separately. Please tell me something! Anything! Anything that will help me get over him. I'm leaving my hometown, where he stays permanently in a few months and I know I'll be rid of him then, but until I go... I just need something to help me get over the feelings I have inside. I just want to feel happy again and I can't because I keep thinking of how happy he seems to be and how unhappy that it's not with me! (link)
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Its never easy getting over an ex. Its hard the best thing is to know that your life is not over. And moving away should be for you to start fresh and new not to run away from your problems because they may follow you. Its over the hardest part is the fact that you have to live with that. Now is not forever . Don't feel like its the end of the world and you can't do better because you can and you will. The sooner you put your heart in to not thinking about him and move on you will feel great. I hope that this has helped you in a way I hope that your new life is everything you want it to be good luck!
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I got the Depo shot March 28th and I only had sex once before, every time me and my boyfriend have sex I bleed after should I be worried or is this normal ? Or whenever he does anything else and I cum I bleed right after . I want to know if this is a dangerous thing and I should see my doctor or is this just my body working things out .
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when most. People start there first year on depo it is common that they bleed. I have searched this on google type. Side affects of depo birth control if you want to know more but you should go to the doctor just to make sure every things ok. Hope everything works out. Good luck.
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I said "fuck you" to my boyfriend but i didn't mean it, it just slipped out. I apologized a minute later but he said he can't be with me anymore. Is there anything i can do to make it better? (link)
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The best thing is to try and talk to him tell him how much you care for him. And try to work it out for the best.
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a few months now and we really like each other and he has lately been asking if he could touch/feel them, what should I tell him, oh and I am 12 and he is 13, Thanks. (link)
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I think that if you don't want him too then don't there is no need to rush into touching and feeling just yet because it will lead to other things. Don't rush just take your time your 12 there is plenty of time .+ he's 13 his hormones are kicking in its only natural that he's asking you that.
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Hi,
I have a problem with my body shape, I feel Like im so small and unwanted by men.. I'm 5"2 ft and about 120 pund , but the man I want is about 6 ft so its a huge difference .. I wear a 34 B bra and I feel that is too small , I think that I might have a problem in getting men esp that im 20 and never been touched before despite the fact that I have a nice face .. do you think that my small size affect my attractiveness as a woman? where exactly is the problem? (link)
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There's nothing wrong with your size. You are perfect just the way you are. You just haven't met the right guy yet. Every girl thinks that way yet. Just because your single it doesn't mean your not attractive . Just wait prince charming will find you ;)
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im not really sure whats going on. i have been on the depo birth control shot for almost four years now and i have only had one normal period and it was after my first shot. i havent had a period since then until about three months ago.. i was late for my shot about four months because i didnt have health insurance.the whole four months i didnt have any spotting or anything until the fourth month of missing the shot. the period only lasted about four days. i got my shot on the third day of bleeding because i cant stand periods. went about two and a half months with no bleeding, but now im bleeding again. i was just wondering if i was just stressing myself out and thats what causing me to have a period? the cramps are horrible. i double over in pain and sometimes cry they get so bad. ive been having really bad heartburn, my breasts are tender and i sometimes have sharp pains in them, but they are also very big so maybe thats why? when i tried using a search engine all i could find was that i could be pregnant. and the bleeding and heartburn and breast tenderness were signs of early pregnancy. could this be true? could i be pregnant? i dont understand whats going on with the ordeal. can anyone help? (link)
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From what I've. Read online depo is known for bleeding and unexspected bleeding. The unexspected bleeding could be caused from the few days that you've missed and your body is just adjusting back to the way. . It was but I would go to the doctor to make sure you are ok. I found out this on "gooogle" type in side affect from missing birth control and go to the 3rd one and it has an article on "depo" I hope everything will be ok. Msg. When you found out everything good luck!
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s it weird that i just want to wear regular panties? all of my friends wear thongs like all the time now and they keep telling me i should to...but thongs look really uncomfortable i dont want anything stuck up my but im totally comfortable wearing my normal bikini panties...shud i try wearing thongs? (link)
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If you feel like wearing panties. You keep wearing panties its what you like and it makes. You feel good . Don't try it if u don't like it your friends will always want you to try things they like that's what friends do my friends do the same thing its not bad if you don't like every thing that your friends like I hoped this help good luck!
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I love mg boyfriend more than anything. We have been off and on for 2.5 years. Im 20 hes also 20. We are long distance now. Well for the past couple months he has been horrible about calling me/texting back etc. It drives me insane. People im not talking like every hour..sometimes i dont hear from him for a week...or more. Now we are like in the process of getting back. So maybe that has sometbing to do with it..
But this weekend he came and visited. I told him i was so sick of the not knowing what was going on and was sick of him talking so much about the future and marriage when i was so unsure if we would make it till next week. He kept saying he would get better and couldnt lose me. He said he wanted a happy and healthy relationship too.
Well its a week later and ive yet to see any kind of results. Im warn out of worrying about him and rethinking why he could possibly be ignoring me.
Why does he say these things then act a different way? Is it just time to call it quits since even when i talk to him nothing changes?
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Its time to move on. If he really loved you he would have shown improvement within the years you've both been together.every relationship goes through ups and down we make mistakes but if he is repeatedly making the same mistake its time to go your beautiful and your 20.I'm pretty sure you will do fine without him
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a nickname for the name sean
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Well sean kinda hard maybe "s" maybe if its a friend think of something that reminds you of sean that's how all of the best nicknames are made good luck!
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year and a half. and his dad doesn't seem to like me. because he has told me that his dad said "she just wants to take you for a ride" and last weekend he sorta said that i should go to our lady of peace (a psychiatric hospital). i've asked him why he doesn't stand up for me and he says he just wants to keep the peace. my opinion there's a difference between keeping the peace and not standing up or defending your girlfriend while someone who talks badly about them. should i just give up? (link)
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I know how you feel. You don't deserve to get treated like that its one thing to say those things to his son. But to tell you that that's rude and disrespect full . I feel he should stand up for you he doesn't have to disrepect him he could say to his dad "not ow" or something. What does he say when his dad says those things does he show that he cares. What does he tell you when his dad does that. I think maybe you shouldn't be with him
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im 19 nearly 20 female
i went to the hospital on thursday bout why i have been blacking out ( i loose my sight and hearing, i go very weak i cant stand up without support and i go very pale so a friend has told me but i can recall everything that happens) he got concerned and sent me for an ECG which he wasnt happy about, he now wants to do a 24hour ECG, an MRI scan and an EEG (brain scan), i have looked this up and it has come up as 'arrhythmia' im scared with this i will loose my independance like driving and going places on my own. i only think this because since then no one will let me do anything like lifting a 2litre bottle of cola or a small pile of baskets (i work in shop)...now my mum wont even let me move my bed by my self but i need to so i can clean it i dont want her help i can do it... what does this all mean and where do i go from here? i am loosing more sleep over this plz i am in desperate need of someones advice thank you x (link)
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Your friends and family are just worried about you and they are just as scared as you are they are just trying to help you let them know that you want to do somethings for yourself. Stay strong and never give up. U can still be who you are u just have to make some changes. I hope everythi I ng works out I hope this helped
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There's so many laptops on sale right now at on the Futureshop flyers! How do I possibly choose which one to buy?! So many different names!
I would just love to bring my PC with me to school but since I'll be sharing a room with two other roomates I can't think of just myself... (link)
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I think the best decision is to do reasearch find out what each computer does. And think about what do you really need the computer for. I hoped that kinda helped good luck!
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I'm in my senior year of high school. I've pretty much chosen a university, but I'm really confused about what career to pick. I have so many different interests and I would major in everything in college if I could.
My career options include: veterinarian, writer, illustrator, special ed teacher, speech pathologist, graphic designer, something with films, book editor, journalist, publisher, owning a bakery, and a lot of other things. So lots of choices lol. My number one choice would be a wildlife rehabilitator, but they make little, if any, money, since it's usually voluntary work, and money is a factor for me.
I know that I still have time to change my career, but I don't want to waste money on a year or two of college and then decide to switch majors and have to go to school longer. And I don't want to graduate and then realize I hate my job.
I've taken all kinds of career aptitude tests, but they never help. My guidance counselor had no real advice either. I've done a bit of job shadowing, and after every one I thought, "This is the job for me" and then I'd change my mind after the next one. Every day I choose a new career and I can't make a decision.
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I know how you feel. I'm pretty sure u can put your mind into anything you wanna be. Just think about it really hard what do you love the most? Think of something that makes you happy and if you come to realize that u don't want that have a plan be I know it isn't eazy I'm still stuck to what ever iy is I'm pretty sure you will figure it out soon I hope that this has sorta helped you . Ps. List all the things you like to do like what's your favorite hobby . See what job career fits most into a career good luck!
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I have a lot of clothes, shoes, hair stuff, and belongings..but how do you narrow down what to bring to college? I dont even get a closet only wardrobe drawers, how do i make everything fit? What should i/should i not bring? (link)
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Wht might help is if you try to organize it all get things like. Shoe organizers the one you can hang you can get this thing for your clothes you should google it you put your clothes in it and it will vaccum seal your clothes which will give you more space they also have. These plastic drawers they seel them at dollar stores and wal-mart its gonna be hard but just pick out the things you really like you will be suprised at the things you barley use good look and congrats on going to college!
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I feel alone in my house, like I’m invisible. Last week I got accepted into this college I REALLY wanted to get into and it was like it didn’t matter, and wasn’t important. I tried to ignore, I thought it would just go away, but it hasn’t. It has been getter worse. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I just want to talk about it or it I want to try to do something, I don’t know. Please help, I don’t know what to do and lately I’ve been feeling really depressed, I REALLY REALLY don’t want to do anything stupid. (link)
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Well in that case I wanna be the first to say congrats! This is the time for you to be happy you got into the college you wanted! Be proud you worked hard and it payed off. Your upset because you worked really hard and noone appreciated how well you have done. I hoped I made your day better with this. And congrats again on getting into colledge . Be happy and study hard!
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