I used to date a guy I was so much in love with,I would do anithing to make our relationship work.. I also had a very close friend but after a while we fought and things were no longer the same.. After a couple of months my boyfriend broke up with me I felt soo hurt I lost weight... A week after our break up he started dating my friend I was soo shocked because she knew about us and she still did that to me even though our friendship wasn't that strong... My exboyfriend I would say stopped talking to me and would flaunt her every where I feel so sad whenever I see them together I haven't been able to move on.. What should I do
Xui answered Monday May 7 2012, 10:38 pm: I am sorry you had to experience this, Unfortunately if your ex is dating your friend soon after the breakup chances are he hasn't been faithful for awhile.
I tell many that the best way to get over it is to focus o the anger part of it. In this situation your anger is him and your ex friend. Do not focus on how much you miss him etc focus on the fact that he hurt and betrayed you and use that to move on from it. The truth is my friend if he wasn't faithful to you then there is a very high chance he isn't going to do the same for her. You do not have to pity yourself in fact find strength to realize you are lucky you are no longer with someone like that. This girl isn't lucky she is just his next victim. Never let a guy drag you down brcause your true happiness is yourself not a man or a boy. You are much stronger than that and have to much to gain then a clueless couple in a fantasy land. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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