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time to break up?


Question Posted Monday April 23 2012, 11:00 pm

I love mg boyfriend more than anything. We have been off and on for 2.5 years. Im 20 hes also 20. We are long distance now. Well for the past couple months he has been horrible about calling me/texting back etc. It drives me insane. People im not talking like every hour..sometimes i dont hear from him for a week...or more. Now we are like in the process of getting back. So maybe that has sometbing to do with it..
But this weekend he came and visited. I told him i was so sick of the not knowing what was going on and was sick of him talking so much about the future and marriage when i was so unsure if we would make it till next week. He kept saying he would get better and couldnt lose me. He said he wanted a happy and healthy relationship too.
Well its a week later and ive yet to see any kind of results. Im warn out of worrying about him and rethinking why he could possibly be ignoring me.
Why does he say these things then act a different way? Is it just time to call it quits since even when i talk to him nothing changes?


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AdviceMistress answered Wednesday April 25 2012, 9:47 am:
Guys are not good with the phone. It's just a fact. My boyfriend is not fond of the phone. He'll call me but it will be for a short period of time. My boyfriend also likes space. Just because a guy doesn't call you often doesn't mean he doesn't care. I can understand how it would bother you and how you would want him to change. I'm been with my guy for almost 5 years and we have had our ups and downs. My advice is maybe scare him a little bit and then he'll realize what he's missing. Maybe you ignore him for a week or so, or when he cares ignore his phone calls. The other thing you can do is just move on and if he says no than tell him you already warned him about what he was doing wrong. Maybe that will make him think! Good luck!

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alexus21 answered Tuesday April 24 2012, 4:59 am:
Its time to move on. If he really loved you he would have shown improvement within the years you've both been together.every relationship goes through ups and down we make mistakes but if he is repeatedly making the same mistake its time to go your beautiful and your 20.I'm pretty sure you will do fine without him

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