I feel alone in my house, like I’m invisible. Last week I got accepted into this college I REALLY wanted to get into and it was like it didn’t matter, and wasn’t important. I tried to ignore, I thought it would just go away, but it hasn’t. It has been getter worse. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I just want to talk about it or it I want to try to do something, I don’t know. Please help, I don’t know what to do and lately I’ve been feeling really depressed, I REALLY REALLY don’t want to do anything stupid.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? makebelief answered Sunday April 15 2012, 11:48 pm: Break up with your partner. If nothing is good that you should get out of your in which you deserve then break up with the ass-hole. You don't need that, but it really depends on the situation that you are in. What is happening? If you are depressed you can seek a certified counseler and they can start you off on a depression pill and hopefully you'll get better, but its all on you and the cause of what is happening. Try to get involved in doing what you wan't to do, and stay away from what is bad. Just focus on the bright and positive things in life.
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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday April 15 2012, 11:30 am: First, congratulations! That's an incredible accomplishment, and something you should absolutely be proud of. :)
Second, lemme tell you something I figured out - 'cause I do that, too; try to ignore feelings that bug me, brush them off as unnecessary, or try to fight them with logic. Normally it works, and I'm fine, but when it doesn't work, it's ALWAYS because there's a real problem that needs to be addressed.
It seems like that's about where you are right now. You've tried ignoring it - have you sat your family down and talked to them about how you feel? If you haven't, that is definitely a starting point.
If you've already tried this, I would confront them and ask them why they're being so unsupportive. There may be something going on, like your parents anticipating missing you greatly, or concerns about tuition - granted, those reasons are selfish, but at least you would have it out in the open.
alexus21 answered Sunday April 15 2012, 1:49 am: Well in that case I wanna be the first to say congrats! This is the time for you to be happy you got into the college you wanted! Be proud you worked hard and it payed off. Your upset because you worked really hard and noone appreciated how well you have done. I hoped I made your day better with this. And congrats again on getting into colledge . Be happy and study hard! [ alexus21's advice column | Ask alexus21 A Question ]
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