A LiL BiT ABOUT MOi.,.,.,
i DONT SEE THE POiNT iN ASKiNG STOOPiD QUESTiONS.. iT BORES ME :(
ERM WAT ELSE?
i LOVE LiSTENiNG TO MUSic, GOiNG OUT WiTH MY FRiENDS, GETTiNG A LiL BiT TiPSY AND OF COURSE ADViCENATORS :p iTS SO GREAT, THE AMOUNT OF TiMES I NEEDED ADViCE AND iVE COME HERE, iTS AMAZinG.
THATS ALL i CAN THinK OF RiTE NOW
:D EMMA ♥
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As of recently I've been thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend.
Within our first month of dating, he asked me to marry him, and I said yes, out of my own stupidity. About a month later we got in a really big fight.. and I just didn't feel the same about him. Like before the fight we would talk about things like getting married and having kids, but after the fight, It made me feel way too uncomfortable. And I told him that.
Oh.. and a few days ago, he was at the gym, as usual, and some guy gave him some pills, telling him they were Tylonal Cold. For some stupid reason, he took them. He told me, a little bit after he took them, that they were making him dizzy. Then he started talking about how some people were after him and were gonna kidnap him. And then he started takling about how we were supposed to be together in our past lives, and how he wasn't gonna let these people take him away from me again. It really freaked me out..
Now.. I just.. I don't feel the same way I used to about him, and I definately don't feel the same way he does.. He's a tad clingy. Like when I asked him about what he would do if we broke up.. he said he would probably start cutting again, and drinking as well. He also said he might not be able to talk to me for a year or so. And it made me feel really guilty...
I need to know...Do you think I should break up with him? If so, when do you think I should do it, and what should I say?
Thanks very much. (link)
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well
if i was you i would break up with him....
hes making you feel guilty by saying he'll start cutting and drinking again ... it sounds like its working. so whats changed from before and after the fight? what was it about? what was said? did he abuse you in any kind of way? he sounds kinda possesive. people change over time and im guessing you've done that. he asked you to marry him after a month of being together? i think he is a very insecure person and being with you made him feel more secure so thats why hes acting to make you feel guilty. go with what your heart says. no one can make that kind of desicion for you. just remember to keep calm and beg him not to do anything stupid like cutting and drinking.
hope i helped. anything else just drop one in my inbox
emma xox
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okayy ! well i went out with this boy for almost 3 months and he was short .. and he knew it.. well we had an argument like a niqht before we broke up cause i didnt see him for like 3 weeks then if we didnt hang out today (the day of the argument) i wouldnt get to see him for another week .. soo anyway .. i got mad cause he wouldnt hang out with me ( am i right about getting mad ?) and i made steph my friend talk to him .. but i was sittinq on the floor rockiinq back and forth and then i was whisperinq i can do better i need to dump him because he treats me like ass.. but anyway then he heard and got mad so i forgave him about not hangin out but he didnt really forgive me but i talked to him the nxt day when i was babysittinq and then he said that he was ten like messinq around and i was like suuureee ..and he goes why do you think im soo short .. i said i dunno maybe you have growinq problems then he said what do u tell your friends you go out with someone whose short and i said nahh i say i go out with a short kid & he got mad and hung up so i called him back and he said dont fucking call me again bitch ! so i didnt...
what should i do .. oh yeah by the way im 14 and a Female (link)
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huh?
that is sooooo confusing.
but if you like him then who cares if hes short?
just appologise for the argument on the fone about him being short it sounds like he was really upset by what you called him which is kinda a good sign cos if he was hurt then it meant he was upset by it. trust me this is just a silly little argument. if you really wanted to be with him his height wont matter at all. just sit down calmly and apoligise to each other and sort stuff out!
hope i helped xoxoxo (rate me :D)
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My boyfriend came over the other night and he was impliying that he wanted to have sex But i said no Now he won't answer my calls and Hes always with this girl named sarah and shes a slut Do u think hes cheating on me?
*Nikki 14 (link)
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well maybe?
i am not sure
if he wanted to have sex wid you but you said no then maybe he is wid this sarah girl to force you into having sex with him so he dosent see her anymore... du you get what i mean?
if not just have a talk with him and sort stuff out. you did the rite thing by saying no because if he is cheating then you would have lost your virginity and it wouldnt have been special
hope i helped
luv ya
xoxox
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is this cute for the frist day of school???..
this shirt in white
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10201&storeId=10251&parentCategoryId=12552&categoryId=12611&productId=241035&langId=-1
and these jeans
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10201&storeId=10251&parentCategoryId=12552&categoryId=12603&productId=211995&langId=-1
please give me your opinions (link)
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yer!!
ur look great
buy buy buy!!
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I have long, thin, straight hair and it gets frizzy even if i step outside for 2 seconds. I use Frizeez hair serum, mousse, I blow dry it, and I straighten it. Yet it STILL gets frizzy SOO easily!! How do i prevent it from getting frizzy?? anymore tips?? thanks (link)
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dont blow dry!!!!!
its the worse thing you can do if you have frizzy hair. try not to but too much product on your hair.
wash it with a smoothing shampoo like loreal smooth intensive shampoo & conditioner then leave to dry naturally, straighten it and then apply a TINY bit of serum on it like charles worthington shine on serum.
hope i helped
emma xox
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please HONESTY tell me what you think about these shoes (i am 14/F)
http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla2.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=205063139&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=223909503&bmUID=1124636420906 (link)
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HONESTLY??
i dont really like them but if you like them get them! dont matter what every one else thinks does it? as long as you like them then thats ok.
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Hey. I'm 13/female. See, my mom just sent me to go live with my dad who.. well he hits me a lot, and sometimes he touches me in places that..ehh your father shouldn't go. And yes, my mom does know this, she just doesn't want me and my sister living with her full time. I cant tell the police because im the only person he does stuff to and it owuld kill my sister and step-family if he were put away... and the would all hate me. I'm thinking about just..ending everything but i don't want to hurt my friends. Can anyone help.. ? (link)
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you have to tell some one!
please do. im worried for you... first of all your father he shouldnt be touching you in those places and he certainly shouldnt be hitting you. your so young anything he does will remain in your mind for eternity. no one would hate you for telling the police whats happening, its rong and he shouldnt be doin those things. maybe talking to some one you trust that dosent know your family. dont think about ending everything. ive felt that way before and now i realise what a mistake it would be. your sooo young to be thinkin of ending your life you have many things to look forward to.. like a boyfriend, first kiss, getting married, having kids doing all things in your dreams. please dont do anything stupid.. please?
hope i helped
emma xoxox
anything else just drop one in my inbox =)
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What are some good names for a 3 month old, female, english mastiff? thank you. i rate for good answers =) (link)
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molly?
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are there any excercises to get rid of love handles, or at least help? (link)
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i wuld probably do those funny crunches where you like do a normal one but turn as you reach the top???
maybe?
giv it a try = )
emma xoxox
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does the maybelline dream matte mousse work really well? i tried alot of coverups and they dont really cover my pimples.. so do you think maybelline dream matte mousse would work? (link)
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hey
i use it.
it is quite good i spose but a little goes a loooong way! careful not to buy it too lite other wise you end up looking really pale. it is good for covering pimples cos i have a few. i would recommend it!
emma
xoxo
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hey im a 15 female and i have brown hair thats pretty long a little below my boobs haha, its thick and when i let it air dry its wavy, but i can wear it either wavy or straight depending on what i want.. i have some layers and face framing but i wanted to try something new for the school year. i dont wanna get highlights or anything i am just looking for a new look so people will see a difference... and nothing too short because i have a oval shaped face and it wouldnt go good with it and i dont think side bangs would either... well thankss (link)
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hey
i have kinda the same hair as you! lol
i have side bangs and they look kwl.
its more like a side sweeping fringe n it looks good. i straighten my hair and then it loooks even better lol.
just ask your stylist when you go for a hair cut for her/his advice
hope i helped!
emma xoxox
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Hey. Well, i just bought my hair straightener yesterday at JCPenny's it was $130. And i haven't used it yet but someone told me that u have to buy like some gresse or some oil to put on after or before doing it. Is that true.or can u just do it like that without putting anything. And if true can yall tell me what to buy, and were to get it from. Thanksss.
Brenda (link)
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hey!
if i was you i would just wash it and leave it to dry and then straighten it.
i have tried using product before and after and my hair always goes greasy like 1 hour after. so i would just leave it do dry and dont use anything.
hope i helped
(rate me!)
emma xoxox
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Hey! Well my hair straightner now is by Hot Tools, it's a ceramic plates one and it works pretty well, but I think it's time for a new one. Lately, this one hasn't been working that well. I've only used 2 hair straighteners in the past year and they're both identical. They used to work pretty well, but lately my hair is just not straight like it used to be. My hair is medium thick, and naturally wavy. Any recommendations for my new hair straightner? + Can you give me any websites where I can just buy it online?
Thanks in advance! I rate 5's. (link)
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hey
i have the same problem!
my hair used to be really straight only after just a couple of run thrus but lately its been taking about 5 or 6 times for it to get each section straight. lol
im gussing you live in usa, i live in the uk but i use ones by remmington they are quite good but maybe try using ghds? so they have them where you live?
o and try not to use too much product on your hair cos it makes it harder to straighten and also do it when your hair is properly dry cos udder wise it takes ages to straighten!
hope i helped
emma xoxox (rate me) = )
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i wrote earlier in the week about "army boy" (look back to refresh your memory) i was thinking of writing him a letter, tell me what you think...
Dear "James",
I am writing you this letter because I know if I try to say this out loud, it will just come out a jumbled mess. I don’t know what is going on between us right now, I am so confused and it’s not fair for either of us. You know that I love you and that I would do anything to be with you. I have been practically begging you to come back to me. I am not trying to make this into some poetic tragedy; I just want to know how you feel. Can you honestly tell me that you feel nothing when you kiss me; you feel nothing when we make love? I don’t understand how you can be so casual about this whole thing. I’m not mad at you and I am not upset, I am just simply asking you to tell me how you feel. Is there a chance for us at all, because my heart is on the verge of breaking. I know you are probably going away for a while but I am willing to be there when you come home. I want to be with you James, and if you don’t feel the same, then I would expect you have the decency to tell me so; after all we have been through together I deserve at least that.
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hi
wow that is great!
im kind of in the same situation but i realised how much i wanted to be with tom after i found out he was leaving for the army. that was a year ago and its been hell, ive got depression and im cutting my self. all because of him.
go for it... this chance may never come again you have to make yours and his feelings clear.
good luck.
emma
x
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I am seventeen and people always think that I am a couple-few years younger. It used to not bother me, but now it does and I want to change. I am 5'6", tan, brunette, and I wear enough makeup without overdoing it. I dress my age, and sometimes older (not revealing, sometimes conservative.) Are there any make up tips or anything I can change to make myself appeal my age and maybe a little older? (link)
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i dunno
erm...
cut your hair? im only 16 but the other day i got my hair cut its kinda long with loads of layers and a side sweeping fringe (a bit like ashlee simpson) and i dyed it quite a dark shade of brown. go to your hairdressers and ask them to cut your hair to make you look older. maybe go to a make up counter and ask for advice on how to look older.
see what happens
hope i helped :)
rate me!! xx emma
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Would you consider it healthy if an 18 year old girl is not (and has never been) sexually active and doesn't masturbate? (link)
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yah....
ur fine!
every 1 is different some people choose not to do these things.
rate me!
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okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥ (link)
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im not sure where you live but in the UK go into boots or superdrug and ask at the counter for somw special nail varnish. it leaves a nasty taste in your mouth when you suck your thumb. or wear an elastic band and when you start to suck your thumb ping it really hard so you stop sucking your thumb.
hope i helped *rate me :D*
emma xx
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I was the one who sent the poem about the perfect boy...and i liked ur response so i decided to come to you again! well i'm 14 female... and i have done stuff with boys before... i've given a handjob, been fngered, eaten out, and felt up... and of course made out...Silly me i thought i was in love... but i know better than to go farther than feeling up now! anyways i really want to make out with this boy i like... i dont know if he wants to kiss me back though, what do I do? I am like dying to kiss him, hes the cutest little thing ever... and what happens if i go to kiss him and he pulls away... and like how do i approach him when i want to kiss? i need serious help! (link)
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hiya thanx for askin for my advice! :D
just go for it! thats what i would do. if he kisses you back then be careful cos he might just be doing it for sex. but go for it. u might regret it if you dont! if he pulls away then just explain why you felt you wanted to kiss him. just tell the truth. you never know he might want to be kissed. just lean in and kiss him. pause for a sec to see his reaction but he might kiss you back.
just be carefull... your 14 have fun and stay safe!!
good luck xx
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well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her? (link)
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if i was you i would get a pink piece of paper and write on little slips of it reasons why you love her so much. go for a romantic walk under the stars and tell her you love her things like that basically... light candles and place them all over the room and just sit and talk till you fall to sleep in each others arms (remember to blow out the candles first!)
hope i helped
(rate me!) xox good luck
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that? (link)
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awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww hunni!!
im cryin that is so sweet.
i dunno if it meant to be but that is lovely.
i dunno why we cant find boys like that. maybe they are too scared to come and find us.
just wait and the perfect boy will come along.
xx
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