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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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16/female. in march im turning 17 and i havent had sex yet... all of my friends have done it already.. so i feel weird when they talk about it around me. some have boyfriends and some have just done it with radom guys at parties (which i dnt want to do).
i feel that im missing out and that im ready to do it for the first time but i dont have a boyfriend and i want my first time to be with someone i can trust and that i can remember it as being spacial.
is it weird that i havent done it yet and everyone else has and the fact i will be 17 soon.. my sister is 19 and she did it when she was 15 so i feel like i should of already.
thanx
dont feel like you have to do it. your friends are going to look back on what they did and probably regret it. especially the ones that are hooking up with random guys at parties. thats just stupid. wait until you really love someone and want to do it with them.
i have them and i want to know:do guys really like back dimples/ dimples of venus on girls?
it doesnt really matter. if you have them it means you must be pretty skinny because heavier girls dont usually have them. so im guessing guys would want you to have them because it means youre skinnierr =)
Hey whats the song where a guy sings, "It's gettin hott in here, so take off all your clothes..." im trying to find it so i can buy it off iTunes please help and thanx!
hot in herre by nelly
just type those lyrics into google next time and the song will come up. its so much EASIER. and FASTER.
ok ive been going out off and on with this guy for 2 years, at the beginning he was the best boyfriend he was like whipped i guess well not completely but i knew he cared, and since august hes been COMPLETELY different he never calls me texts me or anything im in highschool and i see him everyday and sometimes he acts like im not even his girlfriend.. ik ur going to say breakup with him but honestly i think that will make matters worse bc this new girl came to our school shes latina and shes georgous and to make it worse, hes the captain of the football team.. and he has all of the guys wrapped around his finger in our grade and SHE LIKES HIM. they stare at eachother all the time. whenever i ask him about her hes always like no i dont like her kelly stop asking me. I believe him bc he never lies to me but still it doesnt change the fact that he treats me completely different now. In the summer i brokeup with him and liked 3 different guys but i never hooked up or anything with them. like 3 weeks ago tim told me that he was still upset ad he wanted a break and then we got back together like 2 days later. idk whats going on but i need advice how to not focus or like play hard to get with him more bc i think he knows now that he can get me whenever he wants please help me im open to any advice. and ive already tried talking to him about it a million times and hes just like, ill change babe ughh
THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE this has been going on for to long.
flirt a little bit with other guys in front of him. not like obviously flirt but just enough to scare him a little and show him that theres a possibility that next time he does something you dont like you wont go crawling back to him. you should also talk to him and tell him that he needs to start acting more like a boyfriend. if he doesnt do that then yes i would break up with him. i know you probably dont want to do that because you think he will go out with the new girl. but honestly you shouldnt waste your time on this guy.
What are some good homemade cookies?
the recipe on the back of the tollhouse chocolate chips is really good for chocolate chip cookies =)
16/f
This kid and I went out for 3 months.
It ended badly.
We go to the same school.
He gave me his favorite hat and a teeshirt.
I was cleaning my room today and I came across both of them.
Should I give them back to him? Or throw them away?
i would ask him if he wants them back. if you throw them away he might think you still have them and are still like obsessed with him or something like that. ha. but anyways since they were his favorite he might like them back and it would be a nice thing to do. it shows youre mature and thinking of what is best for him. it could kinda be seen as a truce between you two.
I've had my period for about 2 and a half years now (i'm 15) and I've still havent gotten the courage to try tampons. I've actually tried it once but it hurt so badly I cried and had to get my gradma to take it out for me. then another time I had my mom in the same room and have her show me but she didn't really help. then I tried by myself because I thought I had the courage.
The actual problem is that I hate the feeling of something touching my vagina. I know that sounds stupid because people get excited when something is in their vagina. but I touch it with my fingers and it feels so weird and not good. is that normal? How can I put in a tampon if I hate the feeling of something touching me there. Like I can't even get the big part of the tube inside. Not like even an inch because I don't like the feeling.
I also have 1 question= How far are you supposed to put in the bigger part of the tube? People say until you can't no more but how far is that? Theirs like 5 rings on the tube and How do I know when to stop pushing the big part in and push the small part?
I could ask my mom again but she doesn't really help me. Please help!
Oh and I use Playtex Gentile Glide. Is that good for beginners? I heard theres a slim or junior something? Is that good?
i would look on the box for instructions. its really not that hard to use a tampon. you will probably get over the phase of not liking the feeling of something touching you there. it really isnt that big of a deal. you just stick the bigger part of the tube up until it cant go up anymore and then push the small part. its simple. use the slim ones because it sounds like youre having a problem and those will be easier to put in. also, the first person that answered this question is wrong. you dont have to have had sex to use a tampon. all my friends use tampons and they havent had sex..
also try searching 'how to insert a tampon' on google.
good luck
My chin is SO ugly.Its huge and it sticks out.How can i make it look smaller.Also would losing weight help?It might just make it stick out more.Help please.Im just a little bit over weight.NOT MUCH.
yes if you lose weight it will probably help. when you lose weight your whole face tends to look skinnier. therefore your chin will probably look like it sticks out less.
good luck
So i want to get my belly button peirced and i have a few questions.
1) Is it a gun like for ears? or a needle?
2) How badly does it hurt? I got my ears peirced at 7 adn didnt feel anything
3) Will I be able to change it by June if i got it in January? What about if i got it in February?
1. yes i've heard its a gun. it can also be pierced with a needle though. it depends on where you go.
2. i've heard from my friends that it doesnt hurt that bad and that its definetly worth it.
3. i think you can change it after 6 weeks or so.
4. most people do it on the top.
5. i'm not sure how long it will be sore for but you can put a bandaid or something over it to keep it from rubbing against your clothes. my friend got hers over the summer and at the beginning of the school year during like the first sports season she had to wear a tight shirt for volleyball and it was rubbing against her pierce and she said it hurt. so just dont wear tight clothing for awhile. or put a bandaid over it if youre going to.
what is the thing called that you wear under your dress at wedding or proms that go on your leg and what are they for??
thanks in advance
they're called garters.
Ok well me and my girlfriend went to a casino for new years with her mom and her mom's boyfriend. We were alone the whole time and decided we wanted to have sex. So we found a family restroom there and went in it and locked the door. Well we started making out, the usual, got undressed. Then a little after that someone was banging on the door yelling open the door and shit so we panicked and put our clothes on then waited a minute and got out of there. Well we didnt see anyone waiting to get in so we went back in there. And tried again, we decided to keep most of our clothes on in case someone tried to get in again. Well a little after we got in the bathroom again and i was hard i put the condom on but i couldnt keep the erection for long. so i took the condom off and she sucked me to get me hard again but it didnt last long after that stopped and our only condom was wasted. a little later someone else banged on the door sayin open up and we got scared again, got our clothes on and left. Well i was basically wondering as to why it was hard for me too keep my erection. I dont know if this has anything to do with it but before we went in i really had to go pee. So was it just the nerves of me neing afraid of getting caught and in trouble or did having a full bladder might have to do with it also? idk please help me i dont want my girlfriend to think it was her fault. by the way i'm 17 and she is 16. PLEASE HELPPP
i think you were just nervous that someone was going to walk in or something. thats why you couldnt stay hard. it was hard for you to concentrate on what was going on because you kept thinking about getting caught. i wouldnt worry about it.
14/f
okay, so far... i hate advanced English, lol. i have the most hardest teacher, it's really hard for me to keep up with the work. right now, we're on winter break, but ill be ending next Monday. and I'm supposed to be done reading "A Tale of Two Cities" By Charles Dickens. there's about 390 pages in that book, and right now, i'm on page.. 97. Everybody that's in my class is ahead of me.. right now they're on "Book Three" and I'm on "Book Two" it's really hard for me to concentrate on the book... i mean i have no idea what's going on in it.. i hear about this one character.. and then the next chapter is about a different character. so i get confused, so I'm like "wait, what? who's the main character? who's this & that?" and not just that... i also tend to almost fall asleep on the book. have you ever had that feeling when you're reading something and all the sudden you can't concentrate, and music is playing in your head..? that happens to me alot.. and i try soooo hard to focus on the book. I also have a project due next Wednesday on the book. and i have to choreograph a dance with my friend for my exam also.
i'm not very good on schedules it's hard for me to keep up with them.. is there a way where i can be able to focus on the book, and finish it on time? also to help me stay awake while reading it?
try listening to an audio of the book while you read along with it. it helps a little bit to keep you reading it. annotate while you're going along. also it may help to read sparknotes ALONG with reading the book. it may tell you thinks you might have missed.
i jack off to feel like someone loves me, and get rid of the wanting of sex...temporarily.
I can't seem to get any lately and its bothering me.
it sucks.
male-17
theres nothing wrong with masturbation. but you did say that you "jack off to feel like someone loves me" which is actually good because it means your not just looking for 'action', you actually want someone to love you. like you're looking for affection. try getting a girlfriend. it sounds like thats what you need. find a nice girl that you really like and then you can have sex with her a lot but also get the love and attention it seems like you want.
(this question is mostly for guys)
what do guys like in girls and what do they dislike in girls?
well im a girl.. sorry
but every guy is different.
they look for different things in girls
while one guy may be adventurous and want a girl who is also like that.. another guy might be more laid back and want a girl similiar to him. most guys look for a girl that is nice, fun, and they can have a good time with them. some guys are shallow and they look for skinny pretty girls, but other guys dont care what the girl looks like and just looks for a good personality.
I really need help picking out a new screen name..i kinda wanna do something with abercrombie and flippy..any ideas?
wait do you mean abercrombie and fitch?
or like the two seperate words ABERCROMBIE and then FLIPPY (like as in gymnast?)
get back to me i have tons of ideas :)
17/f
im around the varsity hockey boys ALOT cuz i am one of their managers. and we had to go to an away game that was like an hour away so me and the other manager rode the coach bus with them. on the way up there we sat in the front with the coaches and one of the boys texted me and goes, you should come back here and entertain us, we can have fun. and then they were texting me "show me your boobs" and then one called me and was like your looking pretty sexy today. so i was like okay..there being goofs. and keep in mind alot of them have girlfriends.well then we were watching a little of the JV game and some of the boys came and sat by us and one of the boys was like ahhh im tired can i lay my head on you, and he was like always close to me but he has a girlfriend. and then on the way home the whole bus stopped at a fast food place and i got out and someone touched my butt and then we sat down and they all sat by us and were talking to us and one of the boys was like oh yeah some of the guys were talking about the gift that god gave you and i was like what? i dont get it..and the other one goes ohh her boobs. and i was like oh my godd but mine arent even that big there like a B! but anyways this is the most ive talked to all these boys, and i wanna keep talking to them in school and stuff, but i dont know what to do. do you think some of them are being serious about what they are saying? and then the boy that kept sitting by me came up by me and my friend towards the end and everyone was like OHHH YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! they are all soo cute but it sucks that some of them have girlfriends. it was just such a good day. but i dont know what to think or do about all this.
it sounds like these guys were joking. they might be making fun of you or they might have just been having fun. boys get that way sometimes. i wouldn't take this as anything huge.
Well I was fingering myself the other day and i then i got an orgasm so i quit i went to the ktichen to watch tv by the time i new it i felt something burning. i went to the bathroom and checked blood was coming out but like it wasnt really red. So does that mean that i popped my cherry?It kept buring for a while!btw i am 13/f thanks for the advice in advance!
well you might have popped it.. but it probably would have hurt right away. you probably just like scratched yourself or something. or you might have gotten your period if you havent already.
do girls get more horny when they have their period?
yes a lot of girls do.
how do i get rid of a hicky
theres not really a way to get rid of them fast. just like put ice on it or something and that should help. i've just used concealer to cover them up and it works pretty well. or you could use a scarf or wear a turtle neck if youre a girl.
I added this kid on myspace that I saw at a party and that I know goes to my school but Ive never spoken to before. So... yeah, he accepted my request and I want to send him a mesage but I don't know what to say. What should I say? And, I didnt actually talk to him at the party... or ever.
umm i wouldnt send him a message if you've never talked to him before. he might think you're kinda creepy.. i would try to talk to him first and then send him a message after.