i hope i can help a lot of people with there problems cuz i have problems 2 and most of the time i understand the way other people feel. just about all of my friends turn to me for advice so i might as well help out other people also.
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Hey i am 14 and I mean i am very flirty its just liek my personality and me my best friend adn her boyfriend were going out to dinner one night and I guess I didnt relize how much i was flirting cuz when she went outside to go call her mom to pick us up, he kissed me and I hate to sound like a slut but i liked it and i am starting to like him more and more but i feel really bad! we have been best friends scince 1st grade, How can I brake the news to her and still keep our friendship, or should I just not tell her? Please good answers only I rate High! (link)
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i think you should tell your friend. she probably knows that you are flirty since you have been friends since 1st grade so she will understand your part but her boyfriend kissing you. it wasnt your fault. he should know better. if he really liked her then he wouldnt have kissed you. definatly tell her and tell her how sorry you are and that you wish it had never happened and u dont want it to affect you friendship. after all it wasnt your fault. flirtin is just a part of you.
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yea my friend is a faggot wat should i do ? (link)
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i have friends that are faggots to but for this question i dont know wut to tell u. explain further how ur friend is a faggot then maybe i can help u.
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Hey.. I'm a sophomore in high school, I go to an all girls school in Missouri. I came to high school without any friends from grammar school really.. I had no close friends of which I hung out with. I came into high school and met a ton of people.. but all of freshman year I never went out on a friday night. Now, I just started sophomore year and I'm making a real effort to talk to people and try to make friends but it's not working. I'm in honors classes and it just seems like a lot of the girls in the class are not like me at all. I try to be social and make friends but no one seems to wanna hang out wiht me. I'm also just a totally different person at school than the person I am at home. I am really funny and loud at home and at school I'm quite. I'm shy sometimes too. I think people get the wrong impression of me. I just really want this to work. The girls in my honors classes are "loserish" I guess you could say, and the other girls drink, and I don't drink (alcohol). I feel in the middle.Theirs a sophomore dance in february and I want a group of friends by than so that I can meet some guys through them to go to the dance with. It's really depressing and upsetting. I know that most of you will probably say that I should get to know people, and introduce myself, and I am. I am in class with basically the same girls I was freshman year. If no one could give me advice, and encouraging story would be good. Is there any of you that were in my situation and found a group of friends? please help! (link)
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hey i live in missouri to and i was in your position in 7th grade but then in 8th grade i started talkin to the "popular gurls" and now im good friends with them but i also hangout with a lot of different people. i dont go to an all gurls skool though. if you have any popular gurls in your class then talk to them. even if theres only one she still can make a difference. dont be shy because thats how i was to but now i dont care wut people think of me. i dont care if they think im loud or stupid but mostly everyone thinks im funny so its all good. so do wut you have to do and a lot of poplular people go to the movies on fridays or to parties and even if they do drink u can still hangout with them. trust me i dont drink or smoke and i hangout with stoners and dunkies and i always have a good time.
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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"? (link)
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to me the difference between a friend and best friend is basically a best friend you hangout with them all the time and do everything with them and a friend is someone you hangout with but not all the time.
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My friend.. is on the edge of not being my friend anymore. She's driving me insane. All she ever talks about is how sucky her life is. She hates her parents, car, job, school. She hates everything and is CONSTANTLY complaining about how sucky her life is. She thinks at 18 she's had the hardest life ever. HA! If her life really sucked that bad, she would change it right? No, she just likes to nag. How can I tell my "friend" (in a NICE way) that if she doesnt stop B!tChing than Im going to have to start ditching? (link)
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tell her everyone has problems and now that shes 18 she has the oppertunity to turn her life around and make it better. she can get a better job, which will make her money to buy a better car. and about the school thing everyone has to go through school so i guess just tell her to make the best out of it and have fun!
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ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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if you really like this guy you would deal with the fact that he's prude. but if you dont like him that much then break up with him but do it easily that way you are a free gurl and you can do wut ever you want. have fun at the dance!!
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A few friday's ago my best friend and I were at skate night and we wanted her 4 boy cousins to come. We called them and we both talked to them and stuff and we were being annoying..
but then we called 10 times straight and my friend told me what to say and I said it.. like I kept asking for her cousin's best friend who was over and we were just being annoying.. and so his best friend told me that her cousin was getting annoyed and we should stop calling. I said "ok" and we stopped calling. Then they came to skate night, but her cousin and his best friend wouldn't talk to us. My friend said sorry when I wasn't there. Her cousin still likes her, cuz he's known her all his life, but he probably thinks I'm an obnoxious rude biatch and won't talk to me cuz he doesn't know me that well. I feel SOOOOOO guilty.. I mean REAAAAALLLLYYY guilty. I don't know what to do. Should I try to tell him I'm sorry? I don't know what he'd do.. What should I do?!
13/f.. cousin and his friend are 15/m (link)
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i think you should tell him your sorry and show him your not obnoxious and rude. get to know him and tell him you were only being annoying becuz your friend told u to.
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Hey! I have this really close friend of mine but lately we have started to drift apart from each other. We were especially close--from calls every day to zero calls now. Um, this all started when our council had this summer camp thing at my school and it taught us a lot about ourselves and friendships and it like, totally opened my eyes. I now saw how much she took advantage of me, even when I was a completely loyal friend. Now, I feel because we're not talking to each other anymore, she is trying to make the rest of our council and the rest of my friends turn against me. What shall I do??
signed,
lost
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i think you should try to talk to her. talk to her about fun times you two had together and get to laughing together again. dont let her turn the council against you. this happened to me sorta wit this gurl and she tried to turn my whole skool against me because of sumthing she did. i told my part of the story and she told hers. now the skool hates her because they realized she likes to lie. but wut im sayin is tell ur side of the story while shes tellin hers and dont let her turn the council against her then she will fell bad.
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Well my best friend is being a bitch l8y n then she chose her bf over me n now but that didnt mind me so we have been fightn l8y but we are friends n i went out with this guy she liked but we all liked him but then i found out that she made him break up with me but he told me that he would go out with me again n he told my other friend that he was gonna sk me out but should i say yes or no i really like him but i dont want to loose a friend over him but idk if i allready lost her ................. please anwser me (link)
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if you really like this guy i think you friend should accept that fact and if she has a problem with you going out with him then maybe shes not a real friend. there are a lot of other people you can be friends with. you dont need just one friend!
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Ok i have so many friends, but one of the mjus wont like leave me alone! She wants to were her hair like me and wants to dress the same but i cant deal with this until senior year!and im only goin ot hte 7th grade!! I am starting to get real tired of this and i dont kno how to tell her with out hurting her feelings or anything. PLEASE help me
Signed
Headache&Miserable (link)
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i think you should sit doen and have a serious talk with your friend. show her different ways she can wear her hair instead of always doin it like yours. pick out some cute outfits for her to wear. tell her you dont want to look like everyone else and that you want to look like your own person. =)
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i moved away 2 years ago but i go back and visit every summer and talk to my friends at least once a week so we're still really tight. one of my best friends' dad just died. He's been sick for a while but i dont know what to do. I dont want her to think im abandoning her. I want to call her and tell her that im here and stuff but im scared its too soon. what should i do to tell her im here but not upset her more. its only been about a week since he passed. (link)
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i think you should write to your friend and tell her that ur really sorry for her. then kinda joke around saying stuff that will make them smile! =)
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all my friends ditched me today.... i hate it.... im so mad at them cuz i planed a trip to the mall and everything and no one is calling me and they are saying they going somewhere else! and i called one of them and their dad picked up and he said so you and emma fiona max and kyle are going to the movies? and i said well no one is talking to me. so then he gave to phone to emma and she was like i dont wanna go with you and hung up. and the same sort of thing happened with everyone. i hate them all (link)
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you shouldnt hate them. call them and ask them wuts goin on. if they wont talk to u then write them a note or something.if this happens on a regular basis then i think you should start hanging out with other people.
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do u like girls (link)
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no i dont like girls. im a gurl y would i like gurls??
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