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Q: Latley, school has just been getting me down. I've been in the wortst mood for almost a week, no its not due to my period. Its just plain worry, stress, and too much work. I've been taking it out on my friends and family, and saying some truly mean things.
How do I go back to my happy attitude and get everything under control?
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I know what you mean because i have been that way before.You feel like you dont want to be in school anymore and you just sick of everything. What i did was talk to my really good friend and he made me feel a whole lot better. So you can try that.
If you dont want to try that then just think that someday all your work that you have done in school will pay off and it will be totally worth it. And try to think about your friends and family and how much they care about you. And how sometimes they can annoy you but think about the times they have made you smile and laugh and just feel better.
Hope This Helps.
-kay
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Q: ok....so I am gonna make it short. I have a girl that I know likes me and lets call her K. and then, heres the problem I know another girl that likes me and lets call her B. so what should I do..I also like both of them...advicenators...Help ME
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well. you could try and think about a few things.
1- who have you known longer?
2- who have you liked longer?
3- if you've ever liked one of them before.
4-if one of them has ever liked you before.
and if that doesnt help than try talking to them both more. and getting to know both of them better. and then go from there. you know? you might have more in common with one than then other. and you might have more in common with them both than you think.
-hope this helped
♥
*kay
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Q: does anyone know how much it would be to buy one tree hill seasons 1-3? thanks!
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well if you got it from amazon.com
they cost 119 all together plus shipping and all that.
http://www.amazon.com/One-Tree-Hill-Complete-Seasons/dp/B000G2YCK6/ref=imdbpov_dvd_2/002-5703452-1307209
if you buy them seperatly. it would be about 124 dollars. plus shipping and all that.
if you wanted to get it at best buy it would be 169.99 dollars for all three seasons.
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp;jsessionid=V0IQ1Q4C3GIULKC4D3MVAGI?_dyncharset=ISO-8859-1&id=pcat17071&type=page&st=one+tree+hill&sc=Global&cp=1&nrp=15&sp=&qp=&list=n&iht=y&usc=All+Categories
hope this helped.
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Q: how do you get guys you dont have classes with to notice you..btw im kinda shy, so i have guy trouble..how do you know when one likes you?? because i like guys,but i never know when to leave them alone, or keep flirting...please help with detail..im kind of scared to get into a relationship..so its harder for me..if i like a guy, how do i let him know..what do i say??help me.
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Well the way you can get guys that you dont have classes with to notice you is that if you see them after school or sometime not in school you can be like hey ive seen you around school or something like that and you can just try and talk to him about school at first and then be like hey your pretty cute. or something like that. even if you are shy it might be hard cause im the same way but i took adivce i got once and took a risk and it worked out very well for me.
When a guy likes you he could be a total asshole to you and like act like he doesnt like you and he could get mad really easily and make fun of you alot.
Or
He could kind of be quiet around you and kind of shy seeming. If you know hes not the very shy type and he acts shy around you than that might mean he likes you.
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He could always want to talk to you and always try to be around you. Like he would find an excuse to talk to you or be around you or hang out with you or something like that.
ALSO if he smiles alot when your around him and if you see him in the hall or somewhere else he gives you a hugee smile.. or if like he always is poking you or tickleing you or putting his arm around you or hugging you.. or little things like that or if he like tries to make you smile alot.
and about the flirting thing its good to flirt but you dont want to come on too strong.. you want to like kind of laugh and make eye contact and like hit the guy lightly and laugh.. you know... but then like dont overdue it. like you want to leave the guy wanting more of you.
and a good way to let a guy know that you like him is maybe not actually come right out and tell him that you like him. i mean that is one way. but another way is to just kind of give him little hints. like oh i know someone who likes you. and just kind of give him hints.
Or you could just come right out and say i like you.
Or you could have your friend tell him which is a good way to go about it espically if your shy.
hope this helped
and good luckk
♥ kayla
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Q: okay well idk what kind of hair styles to do with my hair. help!!!!!!!
i do my hair like this a lot
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a389/melisx3/P8100575.jpg
and like this
and my hair is straight so it also looks like this
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a389/melisx3/P8150595.jpg
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Well you could always try wear your hair half up half down. you could wear it up and curl the pony tail. you could try crimping it. you could try wearing it half up half down and have it straightened. you could try using curlers to get soft curls that are larger than the ones that you wear in your hair now. you could wear pig tails i know that sounds dorky but it looks cute on a lot of people you could see how it looks on you. heres a good website that shows diffrent hairstlyes that you might want to try.
www.hairbychristine.com
im not sure if thats what your looking for but hey why not check it out anyways.
and also you could straighten your hair and flip the bottom out somewhat to make it look nice.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: hey there is this boy at school named chad and he is 17 like me and he is autistic I have no problem with him being autistic becouse I know he can't help it and he was just born that way,but he follows me everywhere and I can 't get him to leave me alone and iam afraid he's going to ask me to the school prom,but I want to find a nice way to turn him down gently without hurting his feelings should I say can we just be friends or what and how can I get him to stop following me without hurting his feelings becouse I know it will be hard to say no becouse he's autistic and chad dosn't really understand what the word no means please help me!
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well for the part of turning him down gently you could say that you like him better as a friends because if you two go to the prom it might be akward afterwards. You could always try to talk to a guidance counsler and say to them im not trying to sound mean but i really dont like chad following me around and i was wondering if you could talk to him about it. because if it comes from an adult it would be easier for him to understand i think. and he would be more likely to not follow you around.
Or
You can talk to him yourself and you could say that you dont really like him following you around and it makes you uncomferatble. Tell him that anyone following you around would. Try and tell him that sometimes you just need space and tell him that you still want to be friends and all cause you think hes a great guy but you just dont want to be followed around..
hope this helped and good luck!!
♥ kayla
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Q: I'm afraid Christina is telling Melanie bad stuff that I said about her, that really Christina said. I can't talk to Christina. Should I bring it up with Melanie?
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You should maybe talk to melanie because if christina did say something to her you could set her straight about the whole matter. and if christina didnt talk to her about any of the bad stuff then you can tell her before hand so she doesnt think that you said it about her in the first place.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: hi!
well im 16 years old and i live in massachusetts and i'll be turnin 17 in march. i already have my drivers permit and i was wondering do i have to go to driving school? or can i just go take the driving test whenever? how many classes do i have to go to? is it worth going? thanks!
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well if you are under 18 you do have to take driving school. If you are 18 you do not need driving school. Im not sure how many classes you have to go to but i think it lasts a few weeks. You need a certain amount of hours. If you go to driving school that will take care of all the hours you need and after you finish it you can take the driving test and if you pass you get your liscence. And this is talking about Massachusetts.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: is it okay to go spray tanning at night and if you were to straighten your hair or srunch it would it mess it up and you would have to take another shower after it ?
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i would think that would would have to wash your hair because it might get in your hair. and l think it would be best if your wore you hair up so it wouldnt get in it that much.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: ok well, iv been likeing this guy and iv heard that hes been liking me...my friend is always asking him during class and he says that my crush is always saying that he likes me and stuff like that. then one day during school everything went crazy!!! everyone has been spreading the rumor that he was going to ask me out, but on that same day i got lunch detention (FOR CHEWING GUM-LOL) and so i didnt see nuthing that happend! my friend said that he was pissed off and was gettin mad and stuff. and so after that day i got mad at my friend for telling the WHOLE frikin school...but i also talked to my crush on the computer and he wouldnt answer me! like its either hes not there or he just doesnt talk to me. but befor this all happend he always talked 2 me. but now hes not. and i sent him an email and hes not answrring me bak and i told him everything that happened and how he shouldnt get mad at me (if he is mad at me) i dont know what to do! i cant stop thinking about him cuz i still have feelings for him. i need help on what to do! his locker is liike right by mine but im one of those shy kind of people. write bak!!
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well i think that you could try and talk to him in person so he couldnt really ignore you.. well he could but i mean hes more likely to talk in person then in email. and be like if your mad at me im sorry. and i didnt mean to make you mad. Or you could call him and ask him whats going on and why hes mad at you or if he is. and you can just try to talk to him either in person or on the phone because he will know that you really want to talk to him that way. And tell him that you have feelings for him. Even if you are shy. just do it. i mean whats the worst thing that can happen. Just try to figure out why hes mad and try to like solve things.. good luck if you have any more questions just ask.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: i just had sex four times b ecause i got raped..they used condoms..
am i prwegnant!?
my stomache has been hurting
and i hacve been peeing alot.
please help me.
14f
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well you might be pregnant. because condoms there are a chance that they wont work or they'll like break or something. I would get a pregnancy test and if it comes out positive then go to a doctor to make sure its right.. And if you are pregnant you could get an abortion or have the baby and give it up to adoption. or you could even keep it. i just dont think you would want to go through child birth at your age. not to mention that its dangerous because you are so young.
hope this helped
good luck!
♥ kayla
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Q: hello, well today was my first day of freshman year. i had a reasonable day except for one thing: i am the only girl in one of my classes. there's atleast 24 guys in the class, which is not only awkward, but it's a bit embarassing, because the class is computer programming. i really like computers and html and webdesign and stuff, so i thought i'd take the course. i really + honestly dont care if people make fun of me for being the only girl. it's just that a room full of guys is a bit different from what i'm used to, and it's just weird. the guys are all goofing off and i feel like im being stared at. the teacher is a girl, so i don't feel that bad about it...but i just kinda wanted someones opinion +/or reassurance that my class won't be so bad i guess ;} thankies!
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well if your not used to being in a class with all guys im sure you will get used to it. And if you like the class who cares if your the only girl. I think that you will be fine in your class and you probally will get more comfterable as class goes along.. you could try and like be friends with the guys in your class.. i mean my freshman year.. i was the only freshman in my biology class i felt kinda weird so i know what you mean. I mean i didnt know one person in my class. and then i got used to it and like i just talked to alot of people at the end of the year. but good luck with the class. hope everytthing works out .
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: i have a silver TI-83 plus and before a math test i 'erased the memory'.. i didnt know that it would erase everything! It erased everything in my applications except for the first one which is 'finance..' is there anyway to get all my other programs back?? please help because i need other programs on the calculator!!
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i dont think that you can get them back after you have erased them.
you might be able to reset the calculator with a reset button so it goes back to the way it was when your first got it. im not sure if that would help.
You could try to put the programs back on somehow im not sure how you would do that. but you could always bring it in somewhere and ask someone how to do it. A professional person probally would know about it.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: ok... so guys tell me what im doing wrong... so ill get a guy interested in me... but then after a hanging out a couple times.. he looses interest... how do i get him to keep liking me... what really turns you on? what should i do at school to make him think... DAMN!!!
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okay so i know that im not a guy and im answering your question. but that is because the same thing happened to me. And it seemed like after a few times i hung out with them they just got bored.
So my advice for you is to like try to talk to them more and try to connect with them and get to know them because if you two are just going out because like he thinks your hot or something i mean thats not going to last very long if you dont really talk or connect or anything. So i would try to kind of tell him about yourself and let him get to know you. then im sure he wont loose intrest.
You could just kind of try and talk to him at school and flirt with him but dont give him too much. like leave him wanting more of you.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: Hi,Umm.....I need your advice.Wen i go to school in the morning with my friends wenever i say something they look at each other and laugh for no reason.Why do you think they do that?I feel left out somehow.How can i make our friendship better?Thanx!
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Well you could be like when they laugh be like whats so funny? like not but not say it in a mean way or anything. and you could sit down and talk to them about it and ask them why they laugh whenever you say something. You should tell them that you feel left out and you want to make your friendship better. And for the reason they laugh there could be alot of diffrent reasons.. but you should ask them for the real reason. just so you dont like think the wrong thing.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: I'm only 14 and I'm already getting wrinkles under my eyes and those "crows feet" at the corners of my eyes! Does anyone know any moisturizer or lotion that will prevent those from looking worse or something?
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there are alot of lotions and stuff out there for that kind of thing here are some links to things that might be helpful.
http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=956052&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?ActiveCat=499^Query=wrinkle+^Click+to+go+to+search+results..x=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results..y=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results.=submit
http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=307795&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?ActiveCat=499^Query=wrinkle+^Click+to+go+to+search+results..x=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results..y=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results.=submit
http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=263890&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?ActiveCat=499^Query=wrinkle+^Click+to+go+to+search+results..x=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results..y=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results.=submit
http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=263895&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?ActiveCat=499^Query=wrinkle+^Click+to+go+to+search+results..x=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results..y=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results.=submit
http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=342578&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=1^Query=wrinkle^ActiveCat=65
http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=338706&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=2^Query=wrinkle^ActiveCat=65^startLink=1
these are all from cvs so you could most likely buy them anywhere. or something like them. also you could try getting more sleep. wearing sunglasses when its really sunny.. cause squinting causes wrinkles near the eyes.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: I don't smile a lot. My best guy friend told me last year when he was giving me advice on getting a boyfriend (Don't ask why he was doing that. I don't have a clue why.) that I should smile more. I mean I laugh at almost everything, but I just barely ever smile! Is there some way that I can get myself to smile more?
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Well you could try and like more have a small smile on your face most of the time.. not like a huge smile so you will look goofy.. but just kind of a like a im friendly smile. or if you make eye contact with some random person try and smile at them just to be nice. and try to have a smile on your face. I mean you could like think of something funny.. or something that makes you smile like a guy you like or something. Just try not to look mad or anything if your like walking. or something just try and smile.. you know.. you dont have to like smile constantly.. just try and smile a little bit more.. and you will get used to doing it after a while..
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: ok well my dad isn't getting enough money here so he wants me and my brothers to come with him and my mom to saskatchewan and cheak out some greenhouses(thats were he works) and if he likes them we might move and if he doesn't like them then we don't move(yay) but if he does like them what do i do tell him i don't want to move and im not gonna or what
HELP PLZ!!!!! thanx
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well you should tell him that you really dont want to move and that all your friends are where you live now and just talk to him about it and maybe you can ask him to find a more local job.. or something. just tell him it would be really stressful if you had to move and everything because you really like where you live now. just talk to him about it..
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: okay so theres this boy lets call him bob, well bob lives in arizona and i know him from my friend jessica because hes her aunts cousin and he comes out to where i live once a year. so me and bob talk online and he says things like, im hot and he comments my myspace pictures saying their his favorite and stuff, and he calls me sexy and he says were soul mates (pre destined for eachother), and he tells me he saves my pictures onto his computer. and he says he thinks about me. do you think hes just joking and trying to be funny or do you think hes for real and likes me. because when i said i didnt get the soul mates thing he said he was just kidding so now im like all confused. do you think he just said the soul mates thing because it was true and then once i didnt get it he got all embarrased and took it back, or was he actually joking you think? if someone could just help me out and tell me what you think i'd appriciate it. thankss abunch =)
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oh my god! i know what you mean!! that happend to me.. but the kid lived in ny.. and he would like say all kinds of things.. haha.. and he did mean it. cause when i saw him he was like all shy. it was cute.. and then he was like do you like me.. and i was like umm maybee.. and yeah.. but anyways.. on to your question..
i think he most likely does like you. And he probally just did take the thing back cause he might have felt kind of stupid about it. I doubt he was really kidding.
if you have any more questions just ask me cause ive been through this..
my email is xxxklaooo@gmail.com
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Q: So today was my first day of sophmore year and I woke up with a gigantic white head. Yesterday I kinda squeezed it, so hopefully I thought there would be no ugly white center. Sadly today there it was. Larger, reder and more noticeable ever. And I saw the boy i liked and waved, but I feel like people are only staring at my nose! How can I possibly get the redness to go down so its not noticable.
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Well if you could get sea salt spray my friend said that it gets rid of pimples over night.
You could try to foundation and then a concealer to try and hide the redness. Try not to toch it or pop it or pick it because that will only make it more red.
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Made this thing FOREVER ago. answering questions for the people.
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Gender: Female Member Since: May 22, 2005 Answers: 176 Last Update: June 17, 2013 Visitors: 18576
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