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how to get a guy you dont know well to notice you...


Question Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 10:31 pm

how do you get guys you dont have classes with to notice you..btw im kinda shy, so i have guy trouble..how do you know when one likes you?? because i like guys,but i never know when to leave them alone, or keep flirting...please help with detail..im kind of scared to get into a relationship..so its harder for me..if i like a guy, how do i let him know..what do i say??help me.

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XXkaiiOO answered Thursday September 7 2006, 8:31 pm:
Well the way you can get guys that you dont have classes with to notice you is that if you see them after school or sometime not in school you can be like hey ive seen you around school or something like that and you can just try and talk to him about school at first and then be like hey your pretty cute. or something like that. even if you are shy it might be hard cause im the same way but i took adivce i got once and took a risk and it worked out very well for me.


When a guy likes you he could be a total asshole to you and like act like he doesnt like you and he could get mad really easily and make fun of you alot.
Or
He could kind of be quiet around you and kind of shy seeming. If you know hes not the very shy type and he acts shy around you than that might mean he likes you.
Or
He could always want to talk to you and always try to be around you. Like he would find an excuse to talk to you or be around you or hang out with you or something like that.

ALSO if he smiles alot when your around him and if you see him in the hall or somewhere else he gives you a hugee smile.. or if like he always is poking you or tickleing you or putting his arm around you or hugging you.. or little things like that or if he like tries to make you smile alot.


and about the flirting thing its good to flirt but you dont want to come on too strong.. you want to like kind of laugh and make eye contact and like hit the guy lightly and laugh.. you know... but then like dont overdue it. like you want to leave the guy wanting more of you.

and a good way to let a guy know that you like him is maybe not actually come right out and tell him that you like him. i mean that is one way. but another way is to just kind of give him little hints. like oh i know someone who likes you. and just kind of give him hints.

Or you could just come right out and say i like you.

Or you could have your friend tell him which is a good way to go about it espically if your shy.

hope this helped
and good luckk

♥ kayla

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summergirl21192 answered Thursday September 7 2006, 7:38 am:
I am exactly like that! So i liked this guy and i didnt tell him i liked him even though everyone told me to and i hardly talked to him and then wen he found out i liked him i was really shy around him and he hated me and yea. So basically i think u should start talking to him a little, like if u see him in the hallway for the 1st week or 2 just look at him, make eye contact and smile. Then you could just say hi or hey or something. And then start talking to him. Just like "so how was the test" or something like that. I always found talking online easier than talking in person, so you could get his screenname and talk to him online at first if that helps. In the end you have to tell him you like him before he's gone and its too late.
I hope this helps! If you need anymore help IM me @ summergirl21192 or email me @ summergirl21192@netscape.net

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