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Hey everybody. I've love giving advice so I'll answer every question I can. If you need any advice on anything, just ask me! A little about me- I play tennis and I love to shop and hang out at my pool with friends. I'll be a sophomore in high school this year so I've had plenty of experience on friendship and relationships. I always try to take my time and answer every question thoughtfully. I don't care about ratings or any of that, I just want to help people out. :-)
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HEY ! IM TURNING 14 T0MORROW ! & I REALLLY WANT A J0B ! IS THERE ANYWHERE I C0ULD WORK ? LIKE BESIDES WENDYS =/ ? CUZZ I DONT REALLY WANNA WORK THERE. LOL ANY IDEAS?? thanks a tonnn! xoxo
To be honest there aren't too many places who would hire a 14 year old, unless you know the people who own a business or something. The only job you could get right now is babysitting. You'll have to wait until you're 15 probably to get a real job.
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Alright i havent got to tan like hardy any.. things have gone on with family *deaths* and my boyfriend had mono and was in the hospital.. so for my last two weeks everyday except weekends i was going to tan a couple hours do you think i could get a decent tan...? i'm not real pale but i usually tan alot and this year i dont right and i dont *DO* Tanning beds.. if you have any ideas for a tanning oil that would help me out let me know thats a ton.. ill rate high and give feedback..
You could use a dark tanning lotion but it's not really neccessary. From now on just go outside (when it's hot and sunny) for a couple hours everyday. In a couple weeks you'll have a pretty good tan. If your skin is really pale, you might want to start off wearing a lotion with SPF 4. Once you get a little color you can stop wearing the SPF because you won't burn. Hope this helps!
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My older brother is living with us now. Im the youngest one of the family so i still live at home. Any way. Me and my dad use to go places all the time together, like, he use to take me shopping at the mal take me golfing with him and do fun junk like that. Now all he wants to do is shove me off into a corner while he takes donnie golfing, and everything else he use to do with me and my brother treats me like crap!!!! I am getting sick of being left out!! How Should i deal with it?????
Aww, I'm sorry you're feeling left out. I'm sure that your dad and brother are just happy to be able to spend time together right now, so they're trying to do all they can. After a couple weeks they'll probably stop hanging out so much. Your brother will want to hang out with his friends and you can hang out with your dad again. For now you should just respect the fact that they haven't been able to see each other much lately so they're just making up for lost time right now. If your dad still doesn't ask to do things with you after a few weeks, ralk to him about it. Just ask him if he wants to go golfing or something because you miss hanging out with him. As for your brother, do the best you can to get along with him. Hope this helps!
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Ok I want to get my hair like kristen's on laguna beach..like how its styled..but what should I tell the person that does my hair?? Like not everyone watches laguna beach and im not gonna just be like yea i want it like kristen's..so what should i tell them?
thanks so much
steph
I got my hair cut to look like hers too! Now everyone says I look like her. You should definitely bring in a picture of Kristin to show your stylist. You could find a picture in a magazine or online. Here is a link for a really good one:
http://www.mtv.it/img/flipbook/kristin-beach_632.jpg
Good luck!
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There is this guy from my school and church that i have liked for 6 yrs and he knows that i like him. I need to know if there is any right way to approach him without making an idiot out of myself.
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Does he like you too? Maybe you should ask around first and find out who he likes. If he has absolutely no interest in you, then there's really no point in wasting your time on him. If you think he might like you, try to get to know him better so you'll have things to talk about. Next time you guys are together, (it will probably be in a group situation) try to open up to him a little bit. It starts with simply saying "hi" and then hopefully that will turn into a conversation. Good luck!
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i usally do arounf 100 sit-ups everyday( not at once, but like 20-20-20-20-20) and i was wondering, how long will it be untill i see resultes?!
You should try to build on that. I started doing about that many everyday (but I did them all at the same time), and now I've worked up to doing about 1000 everyday, doing about 200 at a time. You stomach muscles will get stronger and you'll see results in about 2 weeks. :-)
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OK, my hair is just about shoulder length, maybe a little bit longer. It's thick and reallyyyyy wavy and frizzy. If i straighten it at night, like right before i go to bed, shood i keep it up or down overnight? Which will help it stay straight?
If you sleep on it, that's probably just going to make it frizzy and mess it up. You should wait to straighten it in the morning. :-)
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You dont have to know all the answers but i just want you to at least answer one
1) what movie was sisqo in?
2) whats the crash diet?
3) why do people eat only cottage cheese for like 2 weeks? (does it like help them burn fat or something?)
4) Then also is it true that you can get a flat tummy from eating only cottage cheese and drinking water for 2 weeks? (or at least get a flatter tummy?)
1) "Get Over It" That's the name of the movie.
2) A crash diet is when you eat practically nothing for a short period of time to lose weight really fast.
3) It's a form of crash dieting. It's low fat so it helps you lose weight.
4) I don't think that's true. Only exercise (crunches) can help you get a flatter stomach.
Hope this helps!
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I will be freshman this year. And I'm so scared and nervous. My curent friends are like family, but I can't really be myserlf around them. They are too much into guys. But I've been through alot with them in middle school. And I don't really have any other close friends. So what should I do? Should I find new friends, or stick with the ones I got?
Don't be so nervous about high school! It's really not as bad as the movies make in seem. For now, you should stick with the friends you have so that you have people to hang out with in the beginning of the year. Just because they're into guys doesn't mean they aren't great friends. You'll probably start to make new friends later in the year, and when that time comes you can start to hang out with new people. But remember not to completely ditch your old friends! I'm sure they still love you even though you have different interests. :-)
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Next week is my best friend's birthday. I wanted to get her something that she'd really like so I decided to get her a necklace from Tiffany and Co. Their are two necklaces that I like, so I thought that I would ask you guys which one you liked better. Price doesn't matter. Here are the links to the two necklaces:
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&
^ I was planning on putting her initials on that one. Do you think people would think that that necklace with the initials might be fake since it doesn't say return to tiffany on it and since you don't usually see it with the initials?
And here's the other one:
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&
^click on the picture of that one to see what it would look like on your neck.
Thanks!
Those are the same necklace but it is really pretty! Yeah the initial thing would be cool. Who cares if people think it's fake? You are a really good friend for wanting to get her such a nice gift! :-)
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how do you put photos on picturetrail or places like that without a digital camera. i took some pics on a disposable camera and i want to put them in a picture trail. help!
The only way to do it without a digital is to scan them onto your computer. So yeah, you'd need a scanner. Then you can save and upload them. :-)
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hey i dont wanna sound like a fag but wats the best way to keep ur bikini line hair free and smooth!!! lol
LOL It's ok a lot of girls wonder that. You could get a wax, but those are kind of expensive, not to mention embarassing! I think the best thing is to just shave it. Make sure you get it really wet (and your razor) and just put soap on it to shave it off. But be extra careful because you don't want razor burn down there! Hope this helps! :-)
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I need some four or five letter words to write on my binder for school. Please no fowl words. Thanks in advance I rate 5's no matter wat!
Here's a list of some random ones that I can think of: fun, hot, cool, cute, boys, love, shop, dance, heart, kiss. Just put any cute words that you like. You could cut words and pics out of magazines, that's what I did and it looks really cute!
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can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100.
Abercrombie and Fitch Fierce is the best. It always smells so good on guys. I think it's like $40. :-)
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I have long straight hair and I part it on the side and I want to get sweeping bangs. I want them short enough to be able to leave them out when I put the rest of my hair up.. but I don't want them to get in my eyes and be annoying. So how long should they be?
I have mine how you are describing. They start at about where my mouth is and get a little longer. The end of your nose would be fine too, that's definitely not too long. Any shorter and they would get in your face a lot. Hope this helps!
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okay, well heres how it goes..i really like this guy and hes super gorgous and he always makes me laugh. I mean he seems so perfect and i can be myself around him.I feel safe when i'm with him. Well the problem is i like him and i'm pretty sure he likes me but i guess he shy to ask me out. I mean hes not shy when he's flirting with me. well my question is how do i get our relationship to move further .. !!PLEAZE HELP ME!!
Thnks XOXO oh and i will rate for good advice**
oh and i want him to ask me out im not really the type of girl that will ask the guy out.
Sounds like you both like each other a lot! Whatever you do, mae sure you show him that you are really interested. When he flirts with you, flirt back. When you go out with your friends, invite him to come along. Go out of your way to make him feel special. Guys fear rejection, so once he knows that you really like him, he won't be afraid to ask you out!
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Hullo
Just wondering, is it true that phones/cell phones can deepen the tone of your voice, especially a female one? Thanks.
They might. I guess it just depends on the phone. :-)
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Any way i can get my average rating up? It's only a 4.85. How do I get decent ratings? I rate 5 for good answers.
That is actually a really good average rating. I don't think there's anyone who has a 5 average. If you want it to go up though just always make sure your advice is really useful and nice. :-)
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ok I have been doing about 60 situps a day and now my stomiac hurts in the bottom of it. REALLY BAD to. Whats wrong and whats going on. I will rate all 5'd 4 good answers. (Please exuse the misspelled words) Thanks
I do about 1000 crunches a day and my lowers abs always hurt a little after I do them. Especially if you're just starting out then you will probably feel a little bit of pain there. It's normal and eventually your stomach muscles will get stronger. :-)
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I'm just wondering, my friends say sometimes I act like a prep. And I dont mind that, cus like we were doing this quiz that like "sterotyped" you and they agreed on the answer. But I was wondering, what makes someone a prep? Is it like there popular or something ?
Most people would classify preps as the people who wear lots of Hollister + Abercrombie and Fitch and are popular and pretty. I guess acting like a prep would mean being really happy all the time and being into lots of really girly stuff. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, but some people don't like "preps." I think it's because they're jealous, but whatever.
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