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im 13 and im 5'2'' im skinny like super skinny i think. i just want nicer legs =\. i think i have chicken legs. and i have people say it to me, even my dad. and guys i like check out other girls who have nice legs )= and i guess it lowers my self esteem a little? i wanna feel confident when i where shorts and skirts. knowing i have nice looking shaped legs .. i want my legs a little fatter. cause i think i have chopstick/chicken legs with no shape.
how do i get nicer legs? down there is a picture .. if you wanna help me (: im the black one lol
http://i16.tinypic.com/61txzqu.jpg (link)
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Dear there is nothing wrong with you legs! You happen to be a very pretty girl in this picture and for those who say you have chicken legs what were they doing looking at your legs? But if you want to get them toned start running or biking and it'll tone your legs and make them appear a bit thicker:) Hope I helped!
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I have dark brown hair, layered long hair(up to my mid-back). My forehead is medium. I want a new style that compliments my face. I sorta want bangs, but I'm not sure if it will look good on me. I want to keep my hair length, and I want one that makes me look young while looking mature. Also if it helps, I'm 18 and half filipino/half german. (link)
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Perhaps a short hair cut would be nice for you or try this site: http://www.short-hair-style.com/short-hair-style-for-woman.html it'll show you all sorts of ways to pick out a really nice hair cut that you'll love:) Hope i helped you dear:)
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ok well i used to be a terrific dancer.. and i got burned out so i took a 3 yr break and im doing it again.. but im a lil rusty. i go to this very excellent dance school but my question is.. if i work hard n practice can i become good again? (link)
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As long as your dedicated to the dance then your skills should come back as long as you keep up on practicing. Just because your a little rusty doesn't mean you can't get back to that skilled dancer you were before. :) Best wishes to you!
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this sounds stupid but if you have sexual intercourse (like the penis going into the vagina even a little bit) but the guy doesn't finish, are you considered a virgin? like if you were one before. (link)
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If you were penatrated and you felt a bit of pain that was the thymn(?) breaking and people concider that to mean you are no longer a virgin. But there are all sorts of views on virginity.
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maybe this is anodd question, but anyways... my boyfriend and i are verymuch sexualy active. and he is always asking if i would bewilling to give him head... i personaly think its nasty, but i do love him a lot, and i like making him happy, and i know that wouldmake himhappy.. i havedone it before.. but im not exactly sure how to do it, like do it well.... how do you do it,how do you do it well and so he will really enjoy it??
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Do what you feel good with dear and if you don't feel okay with giving him head don't let the fact that you love him make you do it. You have your own feelings and should have the right to voice them. But if you want to do it as long as he comes your doing it fine. Just don't bite and be gentle. If you feel like somethings wronge pull off and tell him you don't want to do it anymore.
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16/F
the past few days i have become really dizzy and whenever i stand i like black out for a mn and get very wably. i have had my period the past few days and have had a history of really bad cramps.. i was just taken off birthcontrol because it made my situaton worse and i have to wait a month before taking the increased dosage. previously in the year i had a sinus infection which caused me to pass out and this feels very different so i dont think its that
if someone could help me figure out whats going on that would be great
thx (link)
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I actually have the exact same thing and im 15 year old female. Its all about what you eat and your diet. Change your diet and it will help your symtoms. My docter told me this after I passed out twice after having a black out thing. Do you have pains in the back of your eyes an you go blind for a moment? If you do its the same thing an is all about your diet. :) Good wishes to you:)
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I'm a 13 year old female. So I was thinking about getting an electric moped that I would drive myself and my friends around the neighborhood (it's a 2 seater.) I wouldn't go out of my neighborhood and stuff and my neighborhood is a quiet out of the city neighborhood. Is it against the law to get one and ride it in my neighborhood without a license? I live in Rhode Island if that helps... (link)
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I don't think its illegal sweety and it is just really a moterized scooter. I say idt should be fine but ask your parents. They'll probally know the law better and can tell you if its okay:)
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Ok, Sorry if this is not in the right category..but ok here it is
i currently live in mexico, i am head over heals in love with this guy, & he claims he loves me too...((he isnt myboyfriend though, not anymore at least))..we have been *together* for almost 1 1/2 yrs.. i basically feel like i cant live without him, he is te best thing that has ever happened to me... & last year i went away to the U.S for a month while he stayed here is mexico,before i went to the US everything was picture perfect with us.. he loved me so much & i knew he did, we always saw eachother, we talked everyday, he treated me like i was the most important thing in the world... which made me love him even more.. but when i came back.. everthing was different with us & he would always fight & never saw eachtother anymore or talked much... it was like i was just someone he knew... not someone important to him... i believe he fell out of love with me..
but now things are finally getting so much better with us again.. i loves me again (he always tells me) we always see eachother, we always talk, once again i am the most important thing in his world ((he has always been mine, since i met him))
now the problem is... i have the chance to go back to the US for about 1 or 2 months.. i want to o buti dont.. because i am so afraid that if i go.. that when i come back all the problems will come back... he will once aain fall out oflove with me.. and i dont want that.. i mean.. i want to go i havent been there in almost a year, but if i go.. i dont want problems with him again.. he is the most important thing in my life, and i cant bare to loose him again the way i did before..
so what do you think i should do??
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You should totally go to the US dear. If he loves you he can wait 2 months to let you do something you love. And also no guy can fall so quickly out of love then hop back on. Maybe he had problems going on when you returned? But I wish you well dear with whatever you decide:)
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ok i have been friends with this boy for about 2 years now and im starting to like him more than a friend but if i ask him out it might ruin our friendship but i think he might like me to because he kinda flirts with me and when were in class and we need partners he always picks me and when im doin some work and i look over at him somtimes i catch him lookin at me wat should i do?plz help me!! (link)
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Ok so this could be: He like you as more then a friend or he likes you as a friend. These signs are very similar to both catagories but here's my advice: Go with it! If you don't ask you'll wonder for weeks about what would have happened if he said yes. And even if it turns out he's just friendly just laugh it off and be his friend. It never hurts to try dear:) Good wishes to you!
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15/f
Okay, I realllly like this guy. & sometimes I wonder if he likes me back.
He acts like he does but then we dont talk for a long time. I met him about a month ago at an amusement park. But I kinda knew him before.
Anyways, he messaged me on myspace maybe 2 or 3 days ago. & he said that he was in Tenn. & that he would come over to my house when he got back the next day. But he didnt? & then I messaged him back telling him that he was supposed to come over, i noticed that he read it, but he never replyed. It kinda pissed me off and I really like him alot. & He said all I want to do is hold you and kiss you, im not going to try to do anything that you dont want to do. and I thought that that was really sweet and not a lot of guys do that. Ever since that I cant stop thinking about him, literally and its breaking my heart. What do I do?
Thanks in advance and sorry its long. (link)
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Im 15 and trust me i just got over the same thing your going through. The guy sounds like he's playing you. He has you on a string by your msg about his return and what he said. You need to severe that string and find a new guy before you get too deep with this guy sweety:) Good wishes to you
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so i had a boyfriend...
he was also my best friend.
he got locked up and i got another boyfriend.
ive still tried wrighting him and now his dad says he is going to contact a lawyer because in my letters it says sexual && drug prefrences. but i dont remember writing anything obsene. he also says he is contacting a lawyer because my friend//xboy dosent want anything to do with me because of my new boyfriend...
and before, i had made (my now x) boy a myspace and now his dad freaked about that too.
i dont know what to do. i dont think i should get introuble. i feel terrible. i have no clue what to do. my parents dont know about my new boy because hes black and i dont want to tell my new boy about the trouble because it has to do with my old boy and he would be devistated.
someone, please help. im only 15/f. (link)
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It sounds like your totally stressed out my dear and thats not surprising:( But maybe the boyfriend in lock up was the one who is lieing to his father in order to somehow get back at you for something? It sounds like you just need to let go of the boy in lock up and deal with whats happening with your life outside him before you get into more trouble. Center yourself on this new guy and dealing with your parents to keep your life going. :) Good wishes to you:)
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I have been drawing for 8 years and my art has been progressing. But lately I've been stuck NOT
drawing. How can start improving my art?
Example:
http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/55257214/ (link)
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Very nice work dear:) But you sound like you lost your muse unless your stuck not drawing because of time and such for that I recommend finding yourself the time. But if you lost your muse Try drawing ordinary stuff like your friends or your pets if you have any. You'll improve with practice trust me on that:)
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I have a group of best friends. Including me, there are 4 of us. Two of them seem to like to gain up on me together. Generally, it's just little things, but it still hurts. Would you like it if two people who you called your best friends made fun of you? I think not. One of my other best friends, who is not in this group, constantly tells me to stand up for myself. I just can't seem to do it. Any tips on how to assert myself? (link)
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tell them straight out how you feel instead of being dramatic. Your friend who is not in the group sounds like she knows what she's talking about. You need tto stand up for yourself or it'll get worse, trust me this sounded like me 2 years ago but i stood up and knocked some people over with my voice and have liked it ever since. Your so called ' best friends' really need to get a life my dear:) Best wishes
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When is the best time to do sit ups?
-before breakfast (when I wake up)
-after breakfast
-before lunch
-after lunch
-before dinner
-after dinner
-between lunch and dinner
-before bed time
And how many should you do in a day just to be fit? (link)
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i don't think it really matters. Try a few ( 1 or 2) at the times you listed and see what feels the best. Do something easy to start out, don't strain yourself to do more then what you feel good with. Try like four a day till you feel you can do more. Keep going with a rate you like after that.
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okay this is gross but i've had a lot of flem in my throat for the longest time..anyone have ideas on how to get rid of it? like i cough and it sounds like i have smokers cough but i totally don't. please help! (link)
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It sounds like a cold really. Just rest and drink lots of fluids and such. Talk to a doctor about the cough if you believe its serious enough to warrent that. :) Hope my advice helped and get well soon!
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I have a full size 4/4 cello. It's about 3 years old, but it looks brand new; no scratches, dings, or dents. I only played it for about 6 months. I want to sell it with its case; padded blue, the bow; also in perfect condition, and a hardly used rosin; Sherman's Cello Rosin. The case has two carrying handles on the left side, a strap on the left, and backpack straps on the back with three extra pockets and a zipper that goes all the way around. The case also has a small white paint stain on the front, but doesnt take away from its quality. The cello needs to be tuned and it needs new strings. I dont know the manufactuer because the sticker that is usuing inside with all that info. isnt there. But this cello is in exellent condition and plays great when in tune. Around how much can i sell this cello for?
Heres some pictures;
the case- http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/delete015-1.jpg
the bow- http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/delete014-1.jpg
and the actual cello-
http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/delete013-1.jpg
http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/delete012-1.jpg
http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/delete011-1.jpg
thanks so much!
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have you gone to a music store yet? Usually they can give you a good range. But I would think you'd get a good deal for this cello. If its in as great condition as it looks and you say then if you can't get over what a violin goes for there's something wronge.
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14/f. Preppy and a little skater. Freshie.
I have a slender, curvy figure. I like skater shoes, but they're too clunky for my figure (sucks.).
I also wouldn't like to spend more than 60 on shoes, if possible.
I'm just having the hardest time finding sneakers for school, so could someone please tell me a cute brand, or give a link to a cute shoe, or tell me a place where I could find cute sneakers, slip ons, or anything of that sort?
And also, I kind of like these, but are they ugly?
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/23614139/c/28580.html
Thanks! (link)
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I think those shoes are cute actually. I see them on freshmen all the time, im a sophmore, but maybe you should try tennis shoe styles you know the one where you just slip them on instead of lacing them up? The converse shoes are extreamly cute and you can get them in punk style:)
go to hottopic.com and you can find them:)
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I know I'm being paranoid, but the only thing that mortifies me about starting high school this year is what to wear...
I have some stuff from last year.. and some stuff that I got the summer before...
After how long should you stop wearing a shirt to school?
I gave away a lot of my shirts because they were over a year old, and I thought it was too long to keep a shirt and wear it regularly to school, so I am short on shirts now. I went shopping yesterday and got 2 Tshirts (HCO) and a few BF tanks. I have about 5 shirts besides that from last year.
I'm just stressed about wearing the same shirt/outfit too often.
How often do you think it's acceptable to repeat an outfit/shirt (I basically pair everything with some sort of denim something)?
Can someone just please tell me something or give me advice on how to stop being so mortified and nervous?
I'm a wreck!
14/f... freshie. (link)
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Ok being a sophmore at my highschool, just out of freshman year, I can tell you that unless you are in the same class with people you went to school with last year and they inspected you from head to toe about what you wore your okay. Wear what you like its no ones buisness but yours. Just don't wear the same thing twice in a week:) But really its fine. Your going to have alot more things to worry about then what you wear dear:)
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16/f
Ok my period is totally messed up at the moment and i have no idea why. Its late now by 7-10 days. So obviously i didn't get it. Its been missing one here and there for a while now, ive had my period for years now and there has never been a problem, it was always regular and on time give or take a few days.
Lately, ive been getting a lot of really heavy, clear, watery discharge. A lot more discharge than i normally get.
Heres roughly what my periods been like.. ill write down a few months so that you get a rough idea of the pattern lately
START - FINISH
Oct - 25th - 2nd (nov)
Nov - NOTHING after the 2 days from oct..
Dec - 8th - 14th
Jan - 11th - 16th
Feb - 15th - 21st
Mar - 21st - 27th
Apr - NOTHING
May - 10th - 16th
Jun - 13th - 20th
Jul - NOTHING
i know its probably nothing to worry about, and is probably just one of those normal things but its starting to get on my nerves now, expecially after it was so regular b2fore, i havent changed anything like my diet.. im not stressing as far as i know and have not been sexually active since almost a year ago.
Any ideas what it could be?? ANY ideas would help, even worse case senarios (link)
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Even if you've have your period for years it can still go a litle wacky. Alot of things determine it really: Do you eat healthy? Do you live in a house with a lot of girls? Are you sexually active? If you don't eat well sometimes it confuses your body. Living with alot of women is scientificly proven to sometimes change your periods to cycles as well. And you know what happens if your sexually active don't you? I hope my info helped but i think its really the eating habbits, because of the discharge, change your diet and see if it helps:)
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my boyfriend wants me to send him something sexual in a message on myspace to like arouse him i have a pretty good idea of what im going to say.. does anyone else have any good ideas on what you would say?
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First off just think: Can I trust him not to show it to anyone? Do I know if he's going to post it or not? And do I feel if we break up he isn't going to use this to ruin my reputation. If your fine with it and got psitive thoughts from the question well then your lucky that you have a good boyfriend. If you wanna send him something send him a message that is sexy and hot but not to racy and sl++ty. Send what you feel good with and I gve you well wishes. :)
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