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getting walked on
I have a group of best friends. Including me, there are 4 of us. Two of them seem to like to gain up on me together. Generally, it's just little things, but it still hurts. Would you like it if two people who you called your best friends made fun of you? I think not. One of my other best friends, who is not in this group, constantly tells me to stand up for myself. I just can't seem to do it. Any tips on how to assert myself?
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I understand that it's hard for you to stand up for yourself and until that time comes, you can walk and leave when they gang up on you. You don't have to say anything, your actions will speaker louder than words.
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there your friends they should be saying stuff to you. just like when they make funn of you just be like um. your cool? or do you think you cool by saying the stuff to me bc you really arent. just really stand up for your self bc they keep doing it bc you let them.
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You should definatly stand up for you self! Say like you know what you say to me hurts and it's mean! Don't be mean because that will only cause problems! Say please stop making fun of me! Just be honest and say how you feel! Hope I helped!
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tell them straight out how you feel instead of being dramatic. Your friend who is not in the group sounds like she knows what she's talking about. You need tto stand up for yourself or it'll get worse, trust me this sounded like me 2 years ago but i stood up and knocked some people over with my voice and have liked it ever since. Your so called ' best friends' really need to get a life my dear:) Best wishes
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