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My name is Rain and I'm eighteen. I'm a brown-eyed brunette. I'm a Gemini. I'm random. I'm wild. I'm crazy. I love things that are unique and beautiful.

I've gone almost a year without cutting. I'm addicted to Pepsi. I daydream a lot. I'd die without my music. I laugh too much.

Need help? Need advice? Need someone to talk to? I'm your girl.

Rock On. LOVE.
Gender: Female
Location: Dreamland
Occupation: Living Life
Age: 18
Member Since: July 30, 2007
Answers: 6
Last Update: February 4, 2009
Visitors: 1420


I recently just started giving my boyfriend head. I know what im doing for the most part, but what are some things that will really spice it up? I don't want to bore him but i'm not so sure what to do besides the normal sucking and that stuff. HELP! (link)
Hey Hun,
Depending on how kinky/creative you want to get, here are some other ideas:

-Before giving him head, kiss him along his thighs, his stomach, anywhere BUT the penis. Maybe go in like you're about to start giving him head, but just breathe on it slightly. Tease him a little!

-Blindfold him. Massage him. Kiss him all over his body. Give him a blow job. Give him a hand job. If he doesn't know what you're going to do next (or WHERE you're going to do it), it'll just make him THAT MUCH MORE excited. Without his sense of sight, it will make his other senses (such as TOUCH) kick into high gear!

-Take a piece of ice and suck on it before giving your boyfriend head. The cold sensation of your tongue will make him crazy. You can also switch it up and take a sip of a hot drink before giving him head, just be careful not to burn yourself or him!

Want more? I'd be glad to help! :)
XOXO
~Rain


Sorry if this is in the wrong category. i had this dream last night. I was sitting on a bed reading a book and this guy walks in. He sits next to me and I put the book aside. I hug him, like to where my heads on his chest and we just sit there for a minute. Then it was like he knew i was tired because he scooted back on the bed and laid down and it was like i automatically shifted with him. Like we were talking without talking or something. then we fell asleep like that. Then, i was in a lunch line talking with friends. I turned around, and saw him a few people behind me. i decide i wasnt hungry and head towards the doors leading to the cafeteria. But hes standing in front of the door and then he hugs me, and not one of those hello hugs it was one of those i love u so much and dont want to evr let you go hugs. then we walked thru the doors to a table and first i sat like diagnolly from him and then moved directly in front of him...What does this dream mean? (link)
Hey Hun,
When I read this, I went to dreammoods.com and looked up some of the key symbols in your dream. Basically these interpretations can help you figure out what the meaning behind certain objects is. So, here's what I found:

-To see books in your dream, indicates calmness. You are moving toward your goals at a slow and steady pace. Books also symbolize knowledge, intellect, information and wisdom. Consider the type of book for additional clues. The dream may represent your calling into a specific field of work or an area that you need to devote more study to.

-To dream that you are hugging someone, symbolizes your loving and caring nature. You are holding someone or something close to your heart. Alternatively, it may indicate your need to be more affectionate.

-To dream that you are in a cafeteria, denotes that there may be a lot of issues "eating" you up inside.

-To see a line in your dream, symbolizes duality. It also relates to movement or non-movement. A line also represents limits and boundaries. And thus to dream that you are crossing a line, suggest that you are overstepping your boundaries or that you are moving beyond the limits. To see a line of people or objects, indicates that you need to be more aware of some situation or relationship. To dream that you are standing in line, represents your need for patience. You should be prepared to wait for something and not always have it right away.

Now, I don't know anything about your love life (if there is one) and I don't know anything about you. But after reading these interpretations, I feel that maybe your dream was trying to tell you something. Do your friends have boyfriends/girlfriends? Are there a bunch of couples around your school? I'm feeling that maybe the reason you were hugging this guy in the beginning is because you're craving some of the "love" that seems to be going on everywhere else. You want to know what that feels like. Also, you waiting in the cafeteria line could mean that the fact that you don't have anybody to love you that way is "eating you up" inside. The fact that the guy in your dream was a (real-life) player could symbolize you getting to the point of desperation. Maybe you're getting to the point where you want to feel what it's like to love someone SO BADLY, that you're willing to overlook the bad qualities in a guy...like, maybe you'd be willing to give liars, cheaters, and players a chance, just to experience the love. The cafeteria LINE could symbolize the fact that you need to have patience. Love WILL come to you and you shouldn't date just ANYBODY to get it.

I know how it is to be looking all around and seeing people so happy and in love and knowing that you don't have anyone to share those kinds of feelings and experiences with. But your time will come and when it does, it will be AMAZING. Don't stoop down to the level of guys who break hearts and treat their girlfriends like crap--you deserve better. So be patient.

I'm sorry if I'm totally off on all of this, but this is just my interpretation of it. Good luck!

XOXO
~Rain


whats it mean if a guy comes? and how do u know this happens? (link)
Hey Hun,
The word "cum" is basically the informal way of saying that a guy is having an orgasm.

According to gurl.com, "an orgasm, or ejaculation, happens when the penis emits semen in a series of muscular contractions. After an orgasm, the muscles at the penis relax and the penis returns to its unaroused, or flaccid, state."

Hope that helped!

LOVE.

~Rain


I really had no idea where to put this q, so yeah.I was wondering....
How do braces(for teeth) get taken off and does it hurt at all? I've asked my dentist but he never answers me... If you could help that would be great cause i am kinda scared to get them off. (link)
Hey Hun,
I got my braces off about 3 years ago and I was a bit nervous about it too. Luckily, the technology we have these days helps to make things quick, easy and painless. It didn't take that long for me to get my braces off and I only felt some SLIGHT discomfort afterwards (only because my teeth were SO USED to having metal brackets and wires on them). Your mouth may be a LITTLE sore afterwards, but it won't be as bad as the feelings you might've had after they tightened your braces. Don't worry about anything, be excited! :)

Congrats on getting them off! Believe me, having braces may have been a pain in the [insert random body part here], but the beautiful smile you're gonna have is going to make it seem like it was all worth it!

LOVE.

~Rain


I need to get a lot of clothes in the next month, by the time I start school. Where can I get nice clothes that aren't too expensive, so I can get more of them?

Thank you! (link)
Hey Hun,
In my opinion, your best bet would be to head on over to your closest vintage/thrift stores and check out their clothes! Sure, the clothes might be old, but they'll be new to you! Sure, other people might have worn them before you, but hey, that's what washing machines are for, right?

Not only do thrift stores have cute clothes for cheap prices, usually they'll have sections with adorable accessories, shoes, and bags as well!

One time, I found this funky shirt that made all eyes turn in my direction, it flattered my figure and made me look like a rock star! I had so many people come up to me and ask where I had got it. When I told them it had come from a thrift store, I felt so unique knowing that they wouldn't be able to find another awesome shirt like the one I was wearing!

Standing out and looking good rocks!
Getting a new wardrobe for the price of ONE PAIR OF PANTS AT THE MALL is even BETTER!

Have fun chica!

LOVE.

~Rain


So I've been dating this boy for a good 8 months.. It would've been 9 if he had waited a couple of days. And I think it's lame to ask questions on here, no offense, but I'm desperate. There's so much to the story, but to sum it all up, he broke up with me for another girl. I think he wants to go back out in the future.. And he said he couldn't be with me if he liked someone else. And I don't know, it's just so hard. I've been crying and crying because it took this breakup to realize that I was actually in love with him. And up until recently, he was too.

How do you get over someone you loved SO much? I don't even feel like getting out of the house and I don't wanna meet new people. I just want him back =/ (link)
Hey Hun,
I just read your question and I would LOVE to help you out. I just went through a situation like this recently and I know how hard it is. If you want some extra one-on-one advice/talking, you can e-mail me here (beautiful_raindrop_roses@yahoo.com) and I'll GLADLY help you out.

LOVE.

~Rain




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