Hi everyone I'm Sean. im 14, very athletic and all of my friends come to me for advice so it gave me the idea of coming here to help everyone I can out. if you need me outside of advicenators you can look up my facebook: sean hoel or send me an AIM...but only if u neeed it cuz i dont want any spam lol.
Gender: Male
Location: St. Louis MO
Occupation: student attending school
Age: 14
AIM: metrostika26
Member Since: December 26, 2005
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all of the sudden im getting b's&c's on like almost every time i used to get A's all the time. I dont know if it's band or my rock band or if it my sports? please help (link)
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you just have to study man thats all.
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How do I get over a guy that doesn't like me back. Everytime I see him in class; I just melt. I just begin to think about how perfect of a boyfriend he would be. I often find my mind just running off about him. My question is NOT how to get him to like me; Its how do I get over him? (link)
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you have to just let time run its course. think of a new guy or something. try to take your mind off of him. thats really all you can do so just give it time it will work. hope it helped.
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my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for valentines day... he forgot...
im kinda mad. should i be mad?
(we been going out almost 3 weeks) (link)
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i really dont kno. He should have gotten you something bet then again youve only been goin out for 3 weeks. its kinda cute really because honestly i think hes shy or thinks its to soon to be buying you stuff. maybe hes just a little bit shy thats all. talk to him about it and if he really just forgot you could be a lil bit mad but dont hold a grudge. hope it helped.
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I know I like one of my friends... a lot, and he's going out with someone. He's in love with her, but sometimes it feels like he likes me too, but maybe I just want it that way... I know his girlfriend, but she's not my friend. There's this whole controversy with his girlfriend and one of my other friends. One of my other friends had told her that he loved her and she said the same. When the guy I like found out about this, he refused to believe it... and I know that it's true. It's been going on for a while, and I feel kind of bad... He doesn't know that I like him... and I have no clue what to do... I really like him. What should I do? (link)
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that sucks i went-am still going through-the same thing. the best thing to do would be to just let time run its course but try to get the guys opinion. you should tell him you like him when you are alone with him. hope it helped.
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well recently in the last few days by lower stomach area has been hurting. then i get alot of cold and hot flashes like my body temperature changes alot. also laely i have been feeling depressed and my emotions are just going wild. what could this be? please help. ill give 5s to all answers. (link)
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it is natural dont worry i get like that. getting depressed just comes and goes. it will cease once something good happens to you. talk about it with your friends they help lots. hope it helped.
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okay. i must make a desicion. First I will describe the boys and why i llike them
Boy A: I dated him for a year, we were in love and i know it. He left me and i met boy B but anyway. A is the sweetest and i can tell he cares about me, and he really wants me back but im afraid to get hurt, but its weird that when im with him everything feels perfect. But hes very strict and i dk if he would let me hang out with Boy B anymore, he thinks i might cheat on him, but boy B and I havent kissed since the transition of dec 31-jan 1st.
Boy B: My best friend. I met him and had a like mini relationship with him when A and i broke up. He told me if i go back out with A he will never talk to me again bc he doesnt like the way A treats me(idk whats wrong about it). I really really like B but he doesnt like me more than in a suster brother way(gross, i know). At least i think, i dont know ive been getting mixed signs from him. But if he does like me then i want to go out with him because i need to find somthing new ya know??? And if i go out with B, A would be mad but he would get over it.
So my problem is that i dont know what to do.
do i go out with A, and lose B as a friend.
do i go out with B and have A really mad at me?
pretty much i want B. but he isnt right for me, i know it. he treats girls like crap, and i am always there for him when they break up. BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH!!!! He always sticks up for me when A and i fight and hes always here for me. and ugh i just dk what to do.
What do you guys think??? (link)
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well my gf had the same problem because she loved me but there was another guy in it that she liked too and it didnt work out and now shes goin out with him and honestly im over her. i would take the guy that makes you feel really good and would be truthful but still be protective to you. the hardest lesson i had to learn is to find someone new but i look and no girl wants me so i hope you can have much better luck because if the guy A really loves you he would let you do what you wanted and all 3 of you could be friends. hope it helped.
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i have a bf and we've known each other since kindergarden (i'm 14,8th grade)well the problem is he calls me but RARELY i trust him but when he doesn't call or i have to call him too much too talk i start to think negative thoughts. I really startto doubt our relationship, but after we talk and joke around i'm ok again, i don't want to be clingy or annoying,so can i have some advice on how to take on this situation Please!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks in advance and i will rate 5s!JUST HELP ME! (link)
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i kno how you feel because i doubted me and my gfs relationship until i talked to her. i would ask him to call you more or just talk to him on aim alot. just when you get like some alone time with him tell him that you want to talk to him more and if he doesnt wanna talk to you then hes not right for you. hope it helped.
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i dont know whats up with me but lately i have been really sad i dont know why i want it to stop but everytime i think back on stuff i get really sad and the school year is coming to a end and none of my friends are goin to be together and also i get a attitude for w.e my mom or dad tells me to i hate being sad for no reason how can i stop being sad (link)
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talk to your friends about it. they really help. think about happy times with your bf/gf which ever. drink some soda that also helps. hope it helps.
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What exatcly is add? and whats the difference between add and ADHD. My friend has add, and i thought adhd was when you were a little hyper. and when shes hyper but shes claims she has add? (link)
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ADD is when you cant concentrate on one thing for a short time. adhd is when you hyper and cant control it. usually when you have add you also have adhd but i dunno. my friend has it and he uses it as an advantage cuz hes funny as hell. hope it helped.
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ok so i like this guy right? but the problem is he's like the most popular guy in the grade. and he's so hott and he's so sweet and he's like my perfect guy. and everyone says that he would go out with me and that he just won't right now because he's like my exboyfriends really good friend. i really want him to realize that i like him but idk how to let him know without coming on too strong and stuff..
-confused. (link)
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well i would just be like really nice to him and try to talk to him as much as you can. You should try to get as much alone time with him as you can. when you feel a connection with him then i think you should tell him how you feel about him and then if he asks you out or tells u he likes you back then you just ask well what now. Then he should as you out if the guy has guts. hope it helped
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I love this guy hes my bestfriend and i dont know what to do ive already dated him on and off about 20 times. Im afraid to give him a kiss one because it would be his first kiss and two because weve been bestfriends for 6 years...he keeps asking me to kiss him.. i mean i have kissed a lot of guys but something about kissing my bestfriend feels so weird i want to but i dont ..im so confused..please help! (link)
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umm can you read your topic and read your first sentence. lol. anyway ya i think you should just go for it. wut can it hurt really.
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what is morning wood? i saw it on the commercial for "there and back" on mtv i think thats what the girl said. what does that mean? thanks. (link)
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are you sure your 13?
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Ok,I just found out that this girl has been putting birth control pills in my food at lunch,I need too know if anything bad is going to happen to me because of this. I'm really worried because I'm a guy,should I go to the Doctors??? Or is there a website I can go to and check if anything bad is going to happen to me because of this. (link)
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lol nothing is gonna happen in fact one of my dads friends took a birth control pills cuz his gf at the time(like 20 years ago) dropped a pill and he popped it into his mouth before he asked what it was.
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Okay, I didn't get any sleep tonight since I woke up at 4:30 P.M. So if I went to sleep now, then I would wake up at either 4 or 5. I am just going to stay awake so that I don't get my sleep schedule messed up even more then it is. My question now is, what are some good things I could do to stay awake? I'm kind of feeling sleepy now. I need some quick answers. Thank you! (link)
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well first you should have a soda. lol. then i would play like an online internet game like starcraft or somethin or use xbox live or ps2 online because that makes time go fast or just stay up searching the internet for stuff or have a friend over and do stuff at night like tp housed and stuff and just stay up all night i wit him/her.
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Okay, I just turned 15 & want to have a cool party. I want at least 40 ppl. My original idea was to go bowling, which would be sooo fun, but it cost so much, so that idea's kinda striked out. Does anyone have any idea where I could have a party that's cheap, and 14/15 year olds will enjoy. My house isn't an option. Thanks. (link)
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hmm i got it you could have a paintball party.
prices very from as low as 5$ a person to 20 so it just depends were you go. hope it helped.
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ok i have a question...do you think that a guy who wraps his arms around a girl and holds her hand and plays with her hair when they lay together and calls her everyday to tell her goodnite and smiles at her for know reason and looks at her while she sleeps just b/c he can likes this girl? the thing is that they are ex bf/gf...and he broke up with her and yet they hang out all the time and go to eachothers family get togethers and hold hands there and when they leave eachother they kiss eachothers foreheads or on the face but not the lips. (link)
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i dont kno if he "likes" you but i can pretty much garuntee you that he cares about you alot and that you've mad a big impact on his life.
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ok.....i have curly/wavy hair...but i spend 30 mins. everyday straiting it and i'm afraid im straiting it and its frying my hair!! i like it straitened...but its dull and boring...i wish i could wear it curly...but its just frizzy and i try everythign to make it not frizzy...but i cant really find anything...any ideas? (link)
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straighten it then take a little bit of conditoner and rub it in yur hair but dont wash it out. and dampen it after u straighten it. You sound like my friend tho cuz shes got the same problem.
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My best friend Rachel and I are in this thing at school where we help new students. A new girl came and she was really cool her name was Ashley. She always hangs out with Rachel now and Rachel always avoids me and now they are best friends and always exclude me in activites. Should I talk to Rachel? Ehh (link)
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i think you should. If she used to be your friend then ask why you cant all three be friends and if she cant negotiate and be nice to people than thats her tuff loss. hope i helped.
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ok well i have FINALLY narrowed it down to 3 songs to sing for my musical audition. my options are "At Last" (by Etta James) "Killing Me Softly With his song", or "A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes," from Cinderella. Which do you think would be the best song choice? please let me know! I really want to do good on this and get a good part! thank you very much and i rate! (link)
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i would go with at last
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alrite, well .. me & this kids ( we`ll call him *john ) so, me & *john went out for 5 months & it was the best relationship i`ve had ! he was nice & we always hung out.. then things got bad & he dumped me ( over one of my friends ) then asked me back out & i said yes cuz i really like him .. & then he did the same thing again .. & see he has friends in other towns so he started to like this girl in another town .. & they are now going out =\.. & i just broke up with *john`s new girlfriend`s friend .. but now * john has been calling me & like flirting with me a ton, and people say he likes me again ..& i still like him but i don`t know if i should take him back if he askes me back out or should i just stay away from him ??
please help me. i really need to know ! (link)
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well id hafta say no on that one. It seems like he wouldnt be faithful and he would be off trying to pick up as many chicks as he can to make himself feel good and others bad. I think you shoudl stay away from him unless you are willing to get hurt by him. Hope i helped.
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