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Falling for a friend who's taken...?
I know I like one of my friends... a lot, and he's going out with someone. He's in love with her, but sometimes it feels like he likes me too, but maybe I just want it that way... I know his girlfriend, but she's not my friend. There's this whole controversy with his girlfriend and one of my other friends. One of my other friends had told her that he loved her and she said the same. When the guy I like found out about this, he refused to believe it... and I know that it's true. It's been going on for a while, and I feel kind of bad... He doesn't know that I like him... and I have no clue what to do... I really like him. What should I do?
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that sucks i went-am still going through-the same thing. the best thing to do would be to just let time run its course but try to get the guys opinion. you should tell him you like him when you are alone with him. hope it helped.
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i was having this problem a couple of weeks ago. the guy ended up breaking up with her but i got over him. the advice i got when i asked a similar question was this:
you don't want to break them up do you? that would make you feel so guilty even if you did love this guy. just be patient, flirt with him (a good website for flirting tips is [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)), and be sweet to him. maybe he will fall for you. but the best thing you can do is not to break them up and just wait it out. i'm sorry if this isn't the best advice, but i really hope some of it helped! good luck! [ &hearts ]
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Two words. Butt out. I know that it sounds frightfully harsh, but you can't do anything about this situation, and if you try to, you will look as if you were deliberately meddling in order to get your crush away from his girlfriend. I know she doesn't deserve him. I know that it sucks that you love him but he loves her and she isn't even worthy of his love, but trust me he will find out for himself:people like her expose their true character sooner or later, without any help from anyone else. And that is the point at which you can come in, when she's broken his heart and he feels lost. I'm not saying that you'll get him- he may never see you as more than a friend, but you'll at least have a chance, which is what you won't have if you interfere now.
Good Luck.
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