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My bf and I are 8 weeks into our relationship, things are good I guess except... I kinda feel like something's wrong.. Even though it shouldn't be :( I guess the best way to put this is, ever since we started going out nothings changed! We're still like friends...just who now make out and spend weekends together. And it's abit uncomfortable for me.. for some reason... don't get me wrong I like my guy alot but it feels strange because I still see him as one of my friends I guess... like the first time he started kissing me I pulled away because it felt weird and he mistook it that I wasn't comfortable with kissing lol... he told me he'd lay off until I was more ready! He doesn't know how I feel, I guess I'm afraid to say it.. it sounds like the start of a breakup afterall! And well.. I'm not exactly feeling a spark for him either, I find his personality cute, even adorable! but he isn't exactly attractive looking to me, I know that's mean to say.. but I just don't feel any spark there.. this kinda bothers me I guess.. but I still like him! I am messed up? What do you think I should do? I'm going to try and talk to him about it when I see him but what sort of things should I say? I really dont wanna hurt his feelings with what I say, do you think this will end in a break up?? :(
Please help! i'm 16
hey! okay i understand how you feel about this. tell him i mean if he's a very close friend of yours then i'm sure everything will be okay. let him know that you dont think things are working out because you see him as a friend and since you guys been going out it's been wierd for you but if it's okay you guys can be very close friends and still be able to be there for eachother. as long as you let him know so he doesnt feel stupid or nothing then i'm sure it will work out because nothings more upsetting then to loose a relationship without knowing whats going on. and i believe it's not a breakup..just you rather be friends kinda thing. i hope everything works out! hope i helped Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
Right now, there is thunder and lightning outside and my dog is freaking out. He is a 2 year old Shih-tzu. I'm trying to calm him down by talking to him and cuddling him but he just keeps shaking and panting and crying. He is shaking so bad it's making this hard to type. Does anyone know of a good way to calm my dog down a bit more? I feel so bad that I can't do anything else for him. =(
hey. try to take his mind off the noises...play with him like with those clothy things what looks like almost a bone kinda thing. try to give him a treat or something. awww shih-tzus are cute! i hope i helped Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
I got choosen to be an extra in a FEATURE FILM! I was so excited about it, because I live in Connecticut, so I don't really have the oppurtunity to participate in real movies, until now. However I don't know what to do because the day I am called for to be an extra is this upcoming Saturday. On Sunday I am going to New Jersey for the day, for a family party. The Thursday of the next week finals in my school start, as well. No that I have all of this going on, my parents are telling me that they do not think it is a good idea for me to do this movie. The movie location is an hour drive from my house, and it films from 8 in the morning until around dinner time. I just don't know what to do, because my parents say that ultimatley it is my deceision, but they don't think it's right with finals coming up, & me not being home all weekend (plus i have drivers ed all this week). I really want to do this though, because I have never had the experience before, and I don't know if an opputunity like it will ever come again! WHAT SHOULD I DO??
hey. if you believe you can handle all the things that are going on then i would definitly say yes take this opportunity..but if you think you wont be able to then dont do it. i know it's giving up something that might be a chance of a life time but it's not the end of the world right? think about it. if you make good grades on finals and everything doing well then you will be able to do whatever you want. and if you do want to do it, explain to your parents how exciting this is to you. i'm sure they will understand. hope i helped. Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
in 13/f and i have a medium size room with a walk in closet. i want to arrange my furniture so its wicked cool and differnt.
i have a corner shelf that i cant move
a bed
a lingerie chest (tall skinny dresser)
a desk
a book case that also cant be moved
a vanity
and a full length mirror.
i have a base ment room and ony one window so dont worry about the location of the windows/doors/closet
Hey. it's up to you how you like your room. but from what i heard dont have your full length mirror face your bed. it's bad luck...i dont know how but it's bad luck so maybe the mirror on the same side as the bed or somewhere where it doesnt face the bed. i dont know the shape of your room so it's sort of hard to picture where evrerything can be. i hope i helped Take Care =) 3 SweetStar.
I recently had a fight with my friend....and we havent talked in months. at first when we had our fight she told everyone she didnt want ot be my friend ever again...but today i asked my friend to ask her online our status. and she said she didnt think we would be the same, but she may still want to be friends. how should i act if i want to be friends but i dont want to seem annoying or clingy? i really want to repair this friendship! any tips for what to say and when?? help! i rate ^!!!
hey. dont have your other friends talk to her. if you want to be her friend again then be the one to speak up about it. ask her yourself and talk about what went wrong that you guys got into a huge fight and haven't talked in months. things wont be the same thats true but you can make this friendship stronger by learning from the last fight you guys had. nothing is better then making a friendship stronger. talk to her and i'm sure she feels the same way. dont be afraid to speak up first. hope i helped. let me know how it goes. Take Care. =) x3 SweetStar.
Is it possible to have sex before you have your period?
hey yes you can have sex before you period but remember you can still get pregnant because eggs can be released but you just dont have your period so use right protection and think it over carefully because you might not like what the outcome after having sex is. hope i helped. Take Care. x3 SweetStar.
Last year I dyed my hair black and i've kept it black since then. I am now trying to get my hair back to a more natural color: dark brown-light brown. I tried Herbal Essences Dye.. It was called Iced Bronze or something like that.
It just dyed my roots brown and make the black in my hair a really odd color.
If anyone knows a good brand and/or color of dye that will completely cover black, let me know!!
Thanks a BUNCH!
hey your hair is really dark now...unless you dye it a million times that color you can't do anything to it since it's already black. i would go have my hair professionally looked at and see what they say about it. or you can bleach it. hope i helped. take care. x3 SweetStar.
Hey I was reading this advice you gave and thought u maybe able to help.
you said you were Asian, I wondered what your mum and dad would do if they found out u were going out with someone white, (not that you are)
my boy friend is Hindu and has been going out with me behind his mum's back for 8 months!
But she's going to have to find out one day what would your mum do if this were u?
Thanks
hey! well my friend and my mom were talking about that because she was going out with someone she believe that isn't right for her but then again it's her and we're 15. well as far as i know she said she will kick me out of the house because i'm not allow to date until i'm 18. wtf right? but i went out with someone behind her back and i think she kinda questioned my trust you know? moms know everything but then again i never talked to my parents about guys or nothing. like i said it's hard being in an asian family because most people get to date at like 13 or something. hope i helped let me know if you need anything =) take care! x3 SweetStar.
i am a 13/f. i need indepandance. i want to be able to go places. to peirce my belly button. to go to rated r movies. not to have to sneak out to see my boyfreind. dye my hair purple. own a housekey.
i cut my hair, and it looks okay, but my mom didnt see it yet. i am so grounded tommorow. i have like no freedom in my house. my mom reads my emails and my books! she doesnt let me go to peoples houses unless she knows them. doesn't want me to pluck my eyebrows like i do. sh wants me to let them be natural!?:/ doesnt want me to have a bf. (she would flip if she knew the truth)my mom is like a watchdog. i gotta do something. talking to her or my dad doesnt work. my mom is in charge of the family, and in my face. what should i do to gain her trust and rights that a teenager should have?
-thanks
-xoxo olga
hey i'm going through the same even though i got my belly button pierced without them knowing... anyways what you can do is just sit them down and talk to them i would do that but i'm asain... haha yeah anyways be like mom i know you once had fun and actually enjoy being a teenager. i understand and know whats from right or wrong. can u please have some freedom and it makes me feel happy and good that you trust me too. and see what she say and if that doesn't work then show her anything you can think of that is a sign of responsibility...hope i helped take care. x3 SweetStar.
i pierced my belly button a few nights ago and it got really infected and was in the wrong spot.(a little off center)also i pierced it with one of earrings you pierce your ear with.so the hole was not big enough for the belly ring to fit so i just gave up on it.what can i use to re-pierce it that will make a big enough hole?
Hey. let it close up and put some neosporen(sp?) on it and get it done professionally because they know what they are doing and how to pierce it. it's better then sitting there trying to pierce it in pain when you can get it done professionally..i know because i actually tried too and when i got it done it was so much better. hope i helped take care x3 SweetStar.
HELP! I"m breaking out on my chest, back, and face. I have graduation coming up in less than 2 weeks and i'm wearin g a strapless dress. i need something to get red of my acne that will do it fast with out alot of irritation. WHAT SHOULD I USE?!
Hey it's okay dont panic and remember that stress causes breakouts too..okay for your body try Phisoderm acne body wash $6 at walmart. i used it about a week before band banquet and it cleaned up everything with out irritation and for your face use a acne cleanser you trust and then use Neutrogena Rapid Clear Acne Eliminating Gel $5 at walmart. anything else let me know. hope i helped! take care! x3 SweetStar.
Hey everyone.. i need names for my older sister she's pregnant again and she wanted some different names that are forgein or just something unique.. well we liked the name Nevaeh which spells Heaven backwards but she dont know anymore names and we also would like middle names and we need both boys and girls names.. so please help ill rate high thanks in advance...
Hi i really like the name Larisa not many people have the name. Vivianna, Hope, Ansely, Angelisa for guys something like Princeton, Stephon(sp?) thats all i have let me know what you decided to name the baby. hope i helped! take care! x3 SweetStar.
i have acne.. . . i use proactiv and it is kind of helpin.. people say it does.. but i don't believe them .. does anyone know anything else thatn proactiv?
hey i use nuetrogena a lot and that stuff works. for breakouts try Neutrogena Rapid Clear Acne Eliminating Gel $5 at walmart. i use it when i feel like im' about to have a zit and it works. anything else let me know. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
I wanted to know where you can get a good bra...it doesnt matter the price unless it is over $100. I have to start using the right kind...
Thank-you
Liz
Hey well to find a good bra you must try it on... you can go to anywhere and find a great bra when you try it on and it's very comfy for you. try some places like maidenform victoria secrets or just places where they have under garmets you can get. hope i helped! take care. x3 SweetStar.
I have really, really fine hair. It's lately been getting really really frizzy. Its a little below the shoulder and there's a little layers on it. It's also light-medium brown. Can you give me any suggestions to stop it from being frizzy and not take a lot of time doing it?
hi if you get frizzy hair then it could be dehydrated and dry. try Neutrogena Triple Moisture Deep Recovery Hair Mask $6 at walmart. i do tons with my hair and its dry and frizzy but using this keeps everything silky smooth and no frizzyness. then try Neutrogena Triple Moisture Silk Touch Leave-In Cream $6 which keeps the frizzyness down. hope i helped! take care. x3 SweetStar.
I'm never really sure what to say to the question "I love your shoes! Where did you get them?" or any other clothing item because I really don't want to say anything to incriminate me. The popular kids will laugh if you answer anything like "target", "payless shoe store", or some other department store, and the kids that I'm friends with call me stupid if I tell them that I bought them at Hollister. What is a generic answer that I can say that will satisfy everyone?
hey. it shouldnt matter to them where you get your clothes as long as you like them that you are good to go! i mean come on target has pretty good stuff like i bought my bikini there i spent like $30 all together then going to like pacsun and spending at least $60 and it's the same kinda basically. give them an honest answer and if they laugh or something be like you know what i happen to like them. they are comfy and i can do things in them. it's better then spending $60 on shoes when i can get these.and if they still laugh then i dont think they are you true friends because true friends accept you for who you are regardless to where you get your shoes and certainly dont laugh at you. alright i hope i helped! lol take care hun. x3 SweetStar.
Hey..
i'm 13 and i'm going to get my belly button pierced..but i have no idea wut to expect. heres some questions i have:
Does it hurt?where should I go?how do they pierce it?what is a clamp?i have an weird belly button. Its between an innie and an outtie .can I still get it pierced?
how long do I have to keep it in?
If you guys have experienced it..ypu can leave ur screename or email so i can ask u other questions.
Thank you ! xOxOx Lauren
Hi i got my bellybutton done. it's doesnt hurt, it just stings but you barely feel it. they pierced mine bottom up, thats how they most likely will do. it doesnt really matter how your belly button is just as long as the ring will stay and they sort of pierce the skin above it anyways. it depends how long you keep it in varies on different people some may heal faster then others. i took mine out the first week i got it done because i wanted the ring to match my bathing suit for the pool and it never got infected. if you need Sweetiliciousx11 and skaterangel11190@aol.com hope i helped! take care! x3 SweetStar.
does anyone no a self tanner that goes on really smoothley without streaking...because im so pale!
Hi you should use Airbrush self tanning. the ones that you can just spray on so you dont have to worry about scrubbing your hands like crazy afterwards. Try Neutrogena MicroMist Tanning Sunless Spray and i would say it might cost around $5-$10 at walmart. but it's easier if you just get out a bikini and go swimming for about 2 hours and get a natural tan, if you decided to do that use Neutrogena Ultra Soft Hydrating Sunblock SPF 45 you protect your skin and get a good tan! hope i helped! take care. x3 SweetStar.
Hey guyz! I REALLY NEED HELP BAD
i really NEED to shave my legs but i dont know how to ask my mom! I really NEED HELP
plz help me
-Needin Help B A D
Hey be like mom can we talk about something? i'm growing up and you know that one of these days i'll have to ask you and the thing is that i want to shave my legs because it would look nicer with skirts and shorts i wear. i recommend Venus triple blade razors about $7 refills range from $6-$13 at walmart. hope i helped. take care. x3 SweetStar.
can someone please tell me how to get the song on the playlist on your xanga site?? i need help with this!! thank you in advance!
hey you can't take the song off of someone elses playlist. you will have to go search for your own link. hope i helped anything else let me know take care! x3 SweetStar.