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helloooooo there. i like ducks that my friend named at kohler park..like fred. yes..i am quite crazy indeed. drop one in the inbox if you need anything.
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i think i might have something wrong with my lungs. i get out of breath WAY too easy. i don't think i have athsma, cuz i've never had an attack, and i don't smoke, but my parents do. i'm getting bad grades in p.e. because i can't run. i COULD run...if i could breathe, because it doesn't tire my legs at all...but anyway, how can i tell if there's something wrong with me, or what do i do? (link)
you need to see a doctor! it could b second-hand smoke, but you could have sports induced asthma, thats wut i have. i have an albuteral inhaler and trust me, it works! so talk 2 ur parents about it! and if its got somethin 2 do w/the second-hand smoke, then try to get ur parents to quit, tell them if they really love you they will quit!
good luck!
me


What could I get for an aim sn? I'm not really fussy what kind. Just a girly sn!! (link)
hmmmmmmm
xOgirlygalOx
prettyxinxpink

idk wut else! sry..hope i helped!
luv ya!
me


You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~* (link)
if you really like him that much, then give him another chance. but if he starts to act all wierd, like hes doin somethin bhind ur bak, u gotta cut him loose. remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
luv ya!
me


How do i overcome my shyness? Im like really shy around people i don’t know but once i get to know em im not what do i do? I don’t wanna be like this well at least this shy cuz people judge me. (link)
well, try hangin out w/a lot of outgoing ppl...or just b urself, idk wut else 2 say cuz im really outgoing so yea...haha sry but i hope i helped!!
luv ya!
me


I'm 14 and me and my friend kristina have been friends for like ever! since like kindergarten.. Well she got really serious with her ex boyfriend. They're like made for each other.. Well they broke up and were seeing other people for a while.. She got involved with this kid jason and he's totally obsessive! Well they broke up and she got back w/ the first guy.. Now jason won't leave her alone.. If you have any ways she can tell jason to leave her alone that she's with the one she loves completley could you tell me.. I was kinda lost when she told me about this (link)
well, i doubt she would want to do this, but she could get a restraining order, where if theyre seen within 15 yards they r arrested, but ur only supposed to get that if theyre like abusive...otherwise just tell him to shove off, or find other girls
hope i helped!
me


I am really trying to cut down on the snacks for when school starts. Unfortunately, I work in an icecream shop... for about 5 hours at a time...ugh...any tips on how to stop myself from eating the icecream I crave? (link)
well, you could get a different job, or just cut down. make a limit...like only eat it once a week, or ask your boss to make it off limits to eat, like anyone who eats it is fired or somethin
good luck!
me


my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do (link)
how do u no for sure she still likes u? she could, and it does sound like shes playing hard to get...tell her how u feel, and if she doesnt return the feelings, then u have to move on to different ppl...and remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea
luv ya!
me


Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila (link)
its not wrong that u think you 2 wont last..but try to think positive, cuz if u dont, things most likely wont work out, and its only a year, and make sure u 2 c each other a lot, and just try to keep it together
luv ya!
me


ok..i really need help..me sister liked my boyfriend. We went away for like 2 weeks and then came back. But she told someone that she hung out with my boyfriend and they were holding hands and she said he told her he liked her but he couldnt go out with he because he's with me. This was a while ago but I just found out and now it's really bothering me. I've talked to him about stuff like this before and he said he would never do that. And my sister has been known to lie about stuff..I just don't know who to trust..And I can't talk to my b/f about it because hes away and wont be back until like next week. I've been in a whole different mood and everything since I found out..Ive been crying over it since I found out like a couple days ago..Please help..What should I do to get my mind off of it..And what should I say when he comes back and I can talk to him..And should I trust my sister anymore? :'( and sorry this is soo long.. (link)
dont worry bout it bein 2 long hun, its not a big deal..hmmm..im really sorry about the situation...to keep your mind off it, hang out w/friends! that always helps...when he comes back, tell him the truth, tell him how you feel, and even if u really like him, if u cant trust him, u must break up with him! u deserve WAY better than that, and for your sister...i think u should just ask her once more if its the truth..shes ur sis...she'll crack eventually
luv ya!
me


i rlly dont wanna go to school tomorrow...i get made fun of, but thats not the point. i just wanna make myself throw up one time. ill never do it again..is that really bad? (link)
yeah...dnt make urself throw up...tlk 2 ur parents about it...i no u might not want to, but trust me, it will help...or u can talk 2 a teacher, guidance counselor, or someone u trust...and tru friends will stick up for u...so good luck w/ur problem!
luv yah!
me


Hey! well i'm a colomnist too...VBabi13! but i need a guys opinion too!anywayz....well my ex, we were off N on since like 7th grade, N we freshmens now. i guess u can say we have a history...we broke up N stuff, but i guess we don't actually go out, we look like we do or we act like we do! I kno so much bout him, cuz he opens up to me, N i feel like i can do the same thing back. goin out or not we still friends, we talk, but lately we haven't! I dunno why, i think the last time i talked to him, he wuzn't happy, his voice, juss drifted, i knew suttin wuz wrong but he kept on sayin "nothing"!!! We were pretty intimate, N we did both say to eachotha ((when we dating)) "i love you"...but all in all, u odn't forget your first love,right?well i think, personally, we still have strong feelings for eachother! well my question is, do u think he would have a lot of interest in me like when we wuz dating, N do u think goin out again would last longer?N what we have for eachotha, is it real?i can't stop thinkin bout wut we had N did,N i miss it A LOT! does he?
(link)
i think that he needs a break...i think he likes u a lot...but hes just bein stubborn and im sure hes kinda scared to get too deep into it...if he has problems at home like his parents are divorced or fight a lot, he might not want to end up like his parents...just talk 2 him and see how he feels
luv yah!
me


do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!! (link)
no...i dont think its that wierd...my parents have a 6 year age diff...thats only 2 more years than that...n just talk about it w/ppl u trust and ur comfortable around...that always helps
luv yah!
me


ive never had acne , i have about 2 zits a month. but latlely ive been getting zits like all over my body! my chest, my back, my legs..whats with this? (link)
idk how old u r...or if ur a guy or gurl, but oily skin can do that, so wash your face like 2 times a day, once in the morning, once at night, and it might not be acne...it could be something called prickly heat...you get it when its really hot outside and it itches sometimes...so good luck w/it...and u might wanna tlk 2 ur parents about it
much love!!
me


i am a 13 year old girl and my parents r over protective i cant have a bf until i am in college i cant go to the mall wit my friends and i cant go to the movies unless i am wit my cusion or parents.when ever my friends call and ask me to go places wit them i never can. i have a bf right noe and he wants me to tell my parents about me and him but i cant?what should i do? (link)
my parents are over protective 2! well, my mom thinks im 2 young for a bf, but it helps if theres a chaperone there...thats the only way im allowed 2 go 2 the movies w/guys...but tell them youll b in a group and if theres a chaperone at the movies, you should atleast b able 2 sit next to ur bf...and i guess you should tell ur rents cuz i had a secret thing...but this is about u...do wut u feel is best, and im sure it will turn out ok
good luck!




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