You cant change who someone is just keep trying to make her feel better about herself. All you really can do is just be a friend to her and thats all. You and her go to like a movie or go have fun then when she brings it up just joke about it say "yeah i know life sucks but hey what ya gonna do" if she agrees just tell her the one thing thats gonna be good is you and her gonna grow old and fat together. Just try to make her laugh thats one thing you can always do. Hope iv helped a little write me back id love to hear how it turned out.
~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

Well first off i and nor will anyone i know use tanning lotion because it turns your skin orange and youll look like an oompa loompa not being mean but it does. And after you do that its harder to get off. As for your original questions i dont know but it looks stupid to use lotion anyways because certain parts would be more orange than others. And it wont matter if you do your ears or not they will be more focused on how weird your face looks.

Well my advice to you is get over them because obviously they are trying to find excuses. No offence but i think since iv had something like this happen before they are more than likely talking about you when your back is turned. If youv found other friends that is great leave them because there not worth your time you just concentrate on your new friends if they dont want to be your friend its there loss not yours.

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Iv felt like this many times before you just have to keep going ya know? and not let it get to you youll day will come and just keep reminding yourself that more than likely those guys who are going out with your friends right now areonly crushes. When you go out with someone i bet you youll be together for a really long time. I hope iv helped i know that it isnt much but ya know there really much you can do about it. Sorry hope iv helped at least a little, write back and tell me how it turns out id love to know.

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Sometimes it just means that they are scared or nervous about it. And there is really nothing to worry about. There is medication for it ya know. I dont really know what to tell you there is nothing its something that you yourself and boyfriend need to find a cure for. Im sorry i wasnt much help but i hope iv helped atleast a little and good luck blessed be.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

Well pull her aside one of these days sit her down and tell her how it is.. from my point of view is what your saying she sounds liek a high maintenance stuck up person. But what do i know? anyways just sit her down and tell her you dont like the way shes been treating you and if she wants a break fine give it to her but reassure her that you wont wait forever and youll go out with other girls if you find someone different shes out. You have to be harder on her because the point im getting across is she thinks she has you tangled around her finger and that is why shes acting liek this because she thinks she can get away with anything and everything. It also kinda sounds like shes cheating on you but thats just what i think. Good luck blessed be and write me to tell me how it went id love to hear about it. Hope iv helped a little.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

Well... lets see find out what she likes it all depends really on what the girl likes to do. Me a cute first date would be like a picnic or something a picnic in the park with flowers on the blanket for her. All girls like the sweet stuff but just find out what she likes to do. Another cute date would just hang out play paintball or something. It all depends on the personality of the girl really. Hope iv helped write me back and tell me how it went good luck and blessed be.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

Well i know where your coming from i had this problem with my boyfriend a while back but now hes my husband and i love him loads. But all you have to do is sit him down and tell him how you feel and make it clear to him that you dont like the way he has been treating you and if he doesnt stop then you will leave him. It isnt fair for you to walk around loving him and thinking hes loving you to and turns out he doesnt any more. But dont dump him on the spot because sometimes there are reasons for the strange behavior. My hubby was very busy with school and work and trying to support for our family then on top of that trying otkeep up with his friends and working on the car and stuff. But iv also had boyfriends whov cheated on me. So its really your decision to make.. but just talk to him and find out. Hope iv helped write me back id like to know how it turns out.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

In my mind to make your child be a religion that though know nothing about making them yes i do believe it is very wrong to pressure your own religion on someone else. At first when there young sure why not you can get them into your religion but ones they are older give them a choice either tell them theycan be what ever religion they want or be wicca. You must be open to other possibilities. Support any decision that they may choose. write me back.

This one may be kinda sick but i love its so funny.

Love sucks but true love swollows haha i love that quote

Depending on how old you are.... your either A) depressed and going through a bi polar stage. Or B) Going through a mid life crises.

Either way you should talk to a specialist because iv been through that before and trust me you dont want to go through it. Once your dead your dead you arnt coming back and trust me its not a cool feeling to be over dosing on pills iv done that more than once to know it hurts when your laying in the hospital and there sticking shit down your throat trying to get you to throw up. Plus your pain level is much higher so you feel pain faster and worse. Once they stick that IV in you you want to never do it again. But like i said if you need any help with this kind of thing i know more than enough to help you i went through the same thing that your going through right now. I stopped eating for like a month once but it was just because i wasnt hungry i lost ALOT of weight and it wasnt healthy. Write me back tell me how its going i want to know. Hope iv helped.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

Walmart brands suck ass.. i had one and snapped it within a day its the derability level.

Wow! seems like you just got into a big pickle didnt ya. What i would do is try to make some better friends and just keep away from the old ones. Because its obvious that they are childish and wernt your true friends. Iv had people like that before but they grow out of it. Just give it time and mean while try to make new friends it may be hard but you can do it. Hope iv helped write back and good luck.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

WOW! that is alot of stuff to handle, when i was a teenager and that wasnt far away i was the same exact way. Its the teen year thing some people fall into it and some dont. What you need to do is try to get her back and away from her father because obviously her father is a bad dad sorry to say but its beyound obvious that he is he cares nothing about her well being. If you get her back go to court to try it talk to a therapist yourself they can help you to get her back. Once you do she will change her ways around. But im telling you its just a teen thing shell grow out of it once she realizes how dumb it is. In the mean time you just keep an eye on the things shes doing and keep trying to inforce the parent roll just keep letting her know that you do care about her. There really isnt much you can do from a whole different side of the us but you can fight for her. Hope iv helped a little let me know how it turns out good luck!

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

There could be several reasons why your son is doing this. One could be that he wants attention from you. Another could be that hes mad at you for splitting with his dad and wants you to both back together. Or it also could be that at his fathers house he can act a certain way and his father wont care. But when he gets back to your house he knows he cant act the same way but wants to so he rebels against you. My kids never did this but my cousins rebel alot and kids are very weird when they rebel against something they could do anything from going to the bathroom in there pants to becoming a pyro. It all comes down to something is bothering them and its your job as a parent to figure out what that something is. My advice is to sit him down like after dinner or something by yourself just you and him and ask him what is wrong. If hes mad at you just talk to him and be calm with it he will talk if you are willing to listen. Good luck write me back to tell me how it turned out id love to know.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

I would love to help you i really would but i really dont understand what your asking and what you want help in. And if i dont im almost positive noone else really gets it either. Make your question more simple and less confusing.
Sorry i couldnt help.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

Alright first of all if your just a teenager dont rush anything with getting married. Try and be a kid as long as you can life is to short to be held down by someone just yet. And this guy you are recently with you need to leave him he is acting like a little child and needs to grow up before he gets commited. If you really love the other guy go with him but my advice is give it time dont jump into marriage or kids or anything yet grow up a little first. Not being mean if that sounded it.

First kisses dont ever plan it that always ends up in tragedy lol. If your guys friends are always around like go someplace like the mall to the arcade or something and play a game or something when he wins or you win get real excited and hug him and lean it to give a kiss. If he knows its your first kiss he wont mind because he knows its the first time. Dont be scared i bet you anything it wont matter to him. Not always does it have to be romantic and not always is it going to be romantic my first kiss was late at night with 2 of my friends and we were hanging out back of a elementary school. Woo Woo is that romantic or what. Or you all could get together and play truth or dare and hope one of your friends will dare you to kiss him. I dunno if people still do that but when i was little we did. Ok hope iv helped a little and good luck, write me back and tell me what happened i really want to know.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

They ussually start teething like around 8 months or so. But to sooth the pain you can rub different things on there gums or get them crackers or teething rings but not always do the rings work. My son when he was going through teething i felt so bad for him because he was always crying but i got animal crackers and he would chew on them and it stopped the pain. I hope iv helped a little good luck and write back id like to know how it turns out. Ps. Something hard to chew on is always the best bet.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

If you have a class with him try and be partners with him. And if that doesnt work start talking to some of his friends and soon they will start bringing you around him and thats a sure way to get his attention. Good luck hope iv helped a little. Write back if you need any more help.

~*~ Short N Punky ~*~

Hey, my name is Kelley, a little bit about my life: Im 24 i have a 4 year old daughter, when i was younger i got into alot of trouble because i felt unwanted and picked on alot in school. As i grew up i got into several bad abusive relationships. Now that i have gotten out of my old life im crawling up from the ashes and making a new life. Im a great listener and i love giving advice, if youd like to give me a shot id try my hardest to give the best advice i can give. The reason some people dont like me is because i tell it how it is i dont sugar code anything and im very opinionated. Id love to listen to your problems and help out that best i can.

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