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friends? or no?
So I have 2 really close friends (or so I thought...) and well in about late april, they kinda stopped talking to me and stuff so I made a bunch of other friends and it was ok but I was still wanting the 2 back because I didnt think I had totally lost them. So anyway, I ended up smoking pot in early May. I know, not a great choice, but I did it because I wanted to and I know all the consequences. Well word got out at school and stuff and I denied it of course but I ended up telling my 2 friends the truth. Then when I asked them why they wont talk to me, they blame it on the pot and "breaking their trust" even though I never promised i wouldnt. Keep in mind, I never pressured them into stuff like that ever. What should I do now? Do they just not want to be my friends anymore and are trying to find excuses or what? Let me know if you need more info & thanks in advanced. I really appreciate it.
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Well my advice to you is get over them because obviously they are trying to find excuses. No offence but i think since iv had something like this happen before they are more than likely talking about you when your back is turned. If youv found other friends that is great leave them because there not worth your time you just concentrate on your new friends if they dont want to be your friend its there loss not yours.
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They're probably just using the pot as an excuse not to be your friend. Especially since they stopped talking to you before that and you never promised.
Then again, they could have stopped talking to you because they thought you were changing. And perhaps to them, trying marijuana damaged your friendship even more after they gave you a second chance.
It could be either or. You should just confront them about it.
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