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I'm 17 years old and I was friends with my boyfriends sister before I started going out with my boyfriend. I never really hung out with her that much or anything and I got to know her brother through parties. Blah blah blah. We have been together 9 months and now she is saying things infront of my friends that arent true. Such as last night infront of my friends she said "My Mom said your ditzy" I got so embarassed so I said something to my boyfriend like how I dont want to be at his house when his mom is there because I feel like an idiot because I haven't gotten to know her too well she works a lot. My boyfriend got mad and said his mom woudl never say that and calle dhis mom and she denys it and he called hsi sister flipping out and she is saying that it was said. I dont know what to do because I feel like I caused a whole big problem and I feel like I can;'t show my face at the hosue because one of them is lying and its embarassing and everything. Any suggestings??
Just this one! Ive been in that whole situation before and i know its not cool to be in the middle of your boyfriend and his sister/your friend! Chances are that she wanted to make you feel that way because shes jealous that your spending more time to her brother than you are her! Why dont you talk to her about it because im sure his mom isint immature enough to lie about something so childish! P.S. Im sure you arent ditzy! :*:SaRa:*:
School has been going for about a week and things aren't exactly going very fast!
I am usually pretty populiar but now no 1 wants anything to do with me!
I dunno what to do cause i have like 5 friends out of 600!
What can i do to make it easier on me to make friends????
Ok take my advice on this one! Dont worry about being popular! Smile at everyone, talk to everyone even if they arent on your social standards! Everyone is equal and nobody is better than anyone else, remember that and you have 555 friends to make! :*:SaRa:*:
Hey guys! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this guy I think is sooooooo hot! We had never talked before and I didn't have any classes w/ him but he was friends w/ my newest best friend! He walked up and was talking to her but he smiled at me a lot! Then he was like "ur (my name) right?" And I was like "Yeah how did u know?" He said "o i went into a class after u and I saw ur name on a sheet u had signed!" and he was like grinning all big and stuff! Well then a few days later my best friend came up to me and was like "Omg omg omg! I told (Him) that u thought he was kinda cute and he said u were really really pretty!!!" And I wrote him a letter and gave him my number and everything. And she gave it to him and said he smilde really big when she said it was from me! Do u think that was okay? And do u think he likes me?
Omg! Isin't it obvious! Its written in the stars! lol*well what did you expect me to say*? I really think he likes you! keep my updated on this! :*:SaRa:*:
My two friends and I were in a chat room and one of my friends says, 'OMG! I got your email! Don't tell *Katie (me)* though" to my other friend. I hate it when people talk like that. I asked my other friend what it was about and she said nothing. What should I say/do?
Your friends shouldnt be keeping things from you..When theres an uneven amount of friends in a group theres always an odd ball! I mean sometimes do you n your 1 friend talk about the other gurl?you know you do! Maybe it was nothing bad, maybe they are doin something nice for you? Talk about it!Get to the bottom of it! Thanks for the question! If they are talkin about you then chances are they arent real friends anyway! :*:SaRa:*:
A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it.
Ok first of all, i know you must feel really bad about what happened to your cousin, i mean who wouldnt!Theres probably nothing you could have dont to stop this...everyone feels like they could have always done something but thats not always the case. You dont need to start crying about this everytime you see your cousin! Imagine how she feels, it probably just reminds her about what happened! you need to be there for her, not try to put yourself in her postition! if she needs to talk, listen, be there for her like you said, thats what family is about! I know ppl that have kids at an early age and were still able to overcome obsticles such as school, you have to be there for her and support her! thanks for the question and i wish you all the best! :*:SaRa:*:
i can remember the title to this one song. but i know liek all the words n stuff. but it goes like this...love me love me say that you love me, need me need me, say that you need me, so i creid and i begged for you, love me love me, saythat you love me, fool me fool me go on and fool me, i cant care bout anything but you..." WHAT IS THAT SONG! ill rate really well!!!
I love that song, i was just thinkin about it the other day...i think its called love fool by natalie brown, Thanks for your question! :*:SaRa:*:
ok thers this girl i like alot but i dont think she likes me and she makes me so horney and stuff but i dont know wut 2 do \.. i like need a hormone pill or something! plz help me! im scared. its fucked up. well if u need age were 12 in 7th grade
hmmm...well first of all, maybe you should tell this girl in a another way how she makes you feel, you probably shouldnt tell her that you just wanna do her and thats it...are you lookin for a relationship or have you done things like this before? I think you need to settle down lol! hope everything works out!
Thanks for your question! :*:SaRa:*:
My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the whole summer. We don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like to but I'm worried he's cheating. He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore. He used to be a 'player' and cheat on his ex girlfriends. He told me he changed and it's different now with me. Can I trust someone like that? Is it true... once a cheater, always a cheater?
Well, first of all if you love him, you should be able to trust him, do you have any proof or are you just assuming? in your own words you said, "He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore." So why not trust your own advice? And i really dont believe "once a cheater, always a cheater" People change, people grow up, or fall in love, no matter what it is maybe you should talk to him about it! Tell him how you feel..see if you have any reason to worry!
Thanks for your question! :*:SaRa:*: