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okay im female 16 and have only had boyfriends
but lately ive been looking at lesbian porn :S i enjoy it .. does this mean im bi???

Just because watching gay porn turns you on does not mean that your bi. A lot of people find this as a turn on and you have nothing to worry about! If you are attracted to girls then you could call yourself bi-curious but thats up to you! just experiment and see what you like!

Hope i helped (:

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i really need help i love my girlfriend to death but i also think about my ex all da time cause like we went out since we were 13 years old and now we are 16 but we had broke up like 3 months ago so now i got a new girlfriend we been going out almost 3 months now and we love each other da death but i think i still love my ex but i dont think i can go back with her cause she cheated but not sexually but like started to go out with another dude without me knowing but we got passed dat but we agreed to break up but i talk to how now and she says she miss being with me and i also miss being with her but like i also love being with my new girlfriend i really dont know wat to do or who to be with and no disrespect but plz dont tell me to listen to my heart cuz my heart cant choose :(

Sounds like your in a tough situation here.... But honestly yeah you might love and miss her but if she cheated on you she wasnt worth your time to begin with! I know thats hard to hear but trust me the saying once a cheater always a cheater is true. Stay with your new girlfriend,, you guys sound happy together and you deserve that. Tell your ex that you miss her but its not right for you to be tellin her that while you have a girlfriend and that you think you guys should just stick to being friends for right now.

I really hope i helped,, if not message me again! (: Good luck!

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19/f
so my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now and we're so in love. We trust each other and that's a big deal with us. Except I screwed up...

Today I snooped through his computer and found a lot of upsetting things. Not too serious, no cheating, but I'm still really upset and I feel played. I don't want to talk to him about it, especially because I was in the wrong to snoop. But I can't get over this feeling and he knows something is wrong.

I don't know if I just ruined my relationship bc this is the kind of thing thats hard to get over and I can't look at him the same. But I love him so much, so how do I forget it and move on?

Please help, I'm lost.

P.s. Girls learn from me, DON'T SNOOP. I just wish I never saw any of that :(

Okay so you did nothing wrong. If you found out something like that it is your business.Especially when you guys have been together for that long. I know its hard but talk to him about it and tell him what you found. The most important thing in a relationship is communication. You might love him but if he is being untrustworthy then that needs to be fixed.

Hope i helped (: If you need anything else feel free to ask me personally!

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Well I love my boyfriend of 3 yrs next week with all of my heart im 13 and want to do something more than hold hands. I want a more sexual feeling. I get turned on when ever I am with him. BTW I am gonna be at a club meeting and I would like to do it in the van I have 3 questions
1. Would it be odd if I put my hand on his jeans where his dick is?
2.Any ideas as to what I should do
3.Should I kiss him

3 years is a long time, but your only 13. Wait!!! I promis if you guys start moving to fast you will regret it. Kiss him, thats fine but dont go any further for a long time.
1. It wouldnt be weird... but i wouldnt do it.
2.Just cuddle with him...take it slow!
3.Go ahead and kiss him but make it special and cute.

Hope h helped(:

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Ok this is my question iv been with my girlfriend for 10 mounths and i want to tell her something tht would make her love me even more but idk wat to say help me out


Honestly in my opinion there is nothing you can say to make someone love you more. If she loves you, she loves you. If not give it time and she will! 10 months may seem like a long time but if you end up spending the rest of your life with this girl 10 months is nothing. Give it time it will all work out!

Hope i helped (:

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hi im turing 16 in august im female and i have had this bestfriend sience second grade and now im in tenth and well we havent seen or talked to eachother since fifth grade i never forgot him i looked him up on myspace and we started talking again and now my feelings for him are comming back i told him i still like him he dont believe me. he said b4 i told him he has no time for a gf or a love life. i wanna ask him out and tell him how i feel but im scared to lose him as a friend im so confused can you help me?

Talk to him and tell him how you feel. From how it sounds like he likes you to so there should be no issue here. Tell him about the whole friend thing and see what he wants to do.

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If someone you loved & cared about got drunk and had sex with some other girl, what would you do?

Honestly being drunk is no excuse. Ive had this same thing happen to me and iits all a lie. Yeah they mighta been drunk but they still knew what they were doing. dont put yourself in this position, if they are already cheating on you it only gets worse i promise hunny. your better than that.

Hope i helped (:

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Hi,i'm a 14 year old girl and my best friends boyfriend loves me and i love him! Help Me!

For one your 14 your not in love and your friend will get over it, orr she'll hold a grudge forever, depending on the kinda girl she is. Honestly you can help who you like and its not either of your fault. Talk to him and ask him what he wants to do and maybe even talk about telling your friend and his girlfriend. i know its hard but in the end it will be for the better!

Hope i helped (:

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I tried to fake sick but my mum checked my temreture and stayed there while i had the fing in my gob. my tempreture was in the 30's.

what is the blow dryer thing and how do you do it?

how do i get a high tempreture when my mum is checking my tempreture and she is watching?

Honestly there is no way out of this one unless your actually sick. If she is watching you, your not going to be able to make the temperature go up without her seeing! looks like your going to either just have to ditch or get sick!

Hope i helped (:

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I'm 23, I have always had normal menstrual cycles up until last November. Now instead all i get is about 2 days worth of dry blood when i wipe. That is it. I have taken plenty of pregnancy tests. I know I'm not pregnant. I know it's normal for irregular menstrual cycles on occasion, but something is telling me this is wrong? help please!

Talk to your doctor. It may not be normal for you but many things can mess up a womans period. This meaning stress, birth control, and sexual activity. Dont worry about it to much your not pregnant and im sure its only something minor!

Hope i helped (:

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[I met this girl, shes in my class too and we started being friends and we hug eachother a lot, i was attracted to her and she has a nice personality and right when i found out she experimented with girls a lot back then and shes bisexual i got my hopes up and i really dont know why, now im having thoughts about me kissing her at times and i really want to try it. One day she was sitting down in a chair and i was walking i gave her a hug and i almost knocked her over because i usually hug her tight all the time and right about to give hera hug and say bye she puckered her lip to me but i didnt do anything so ended up her lips touching my neck and when i walked away she said "YOU KNOW YOU LIKE IT!" and after that nothing like that really happened anymore was she trying to kiss me? and am i bisexual or bicurious? we tend to hug a lot,sometimes we hold hands but we barely talk because i just met her a month ago. Im sure she doesnt like me because she doesn't like anyone right now, i never felt like this with a girl before. I'm really confused.]

That was my last post, well now we've been talking as friends but when we hug its really different now, its like she lets go when she used to hug me longer than that. Mostly we talk and joke around but thats about it, and now i found out that she likes someone else/ found her lover and i feel...i dont know disappointed and mad and i just dont now what to do anymore, i only felt this feeling for a guys and im pretty surprised that im feeling this towards her, im reallly disappointed and sad, i guess ill just become better friends with her because i cant do anything about it..... what can i do stop feeling this way and just be close friends with her?

When your not sure if your bi or not this is called bi-curious. A lot of people go through wondering wether or not they are into guys or girls. Experiment and figure out what you like. Talk to her and ask her how she feels about you. If she just sees you as a friend then thats ok its better to have friends then relationships anyways. So keep your chin up and dont sweat it hunny!

Hope i helped (:

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My boyfriend is a cheerleader and I have a really hard time not getting jealous. I trust him not to cheat on me but it still concerns me that he is always with these beautiful cheer girls (you know the stereotype of most cheer girls). I don't wanna talk to him about it because I don't want to seem controlling or jealous and want to be supportive of him. Any advice?

I know that talking to him might be hard but communication is a really big thing in relationships. Just tell him how your feeling i guarantee that he will understand. Because if you were in a situation like that he would be jealous too. if you need anything else message me personally!

Hope i helped (:

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Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good?

I usually use tampons. Tapax is the brand i use and they even make ones for night time use now. The reason i dont use pads is beacause honestly i feel like im wearing a diaper and they leak really easy but it just depends on the person.

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Hi, I'm an 18 yr old female, just had a question, What if you found out the guy/girl you like, has been constantly viewing your profile on facebook with profile checker, they were in your top 10, what would you think of this?

Honestly i think that a lot of people do this, but dont tell him. He may find it a little creepy. Im not saying its a bad thing you do but its not something you should be like "hey i stalk you on facebook!" get what im sayin?

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Girls.
My Dick is 4.5 Soft.
And 6.5 hard.
Is that big?

The average size for a guy in the U.S is about 6. so your above average! Good going =]

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do birth control pills increase breast size at all for a 17 year old who is still growing?

Honestly boobs arent anything but fat, so if your birth control makes you gain weight then your boobs may get bigger but its not a promise.

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okay so i dated a guy for a year, we broke up cause we lost the 'connection', then we started hanging out, got back together, then broke up cause we lost the 'connection' again. (he ended it both times)

i kinda like being single but i miss him a ton. he tells me he thinks about me more than he should. i didn't say anything like i miss him or anything, i'm kinda jsut playing it cool and being friends for now. i want to like be something like a kind of friends with benefits kinda deal though...i know some people think its stupid but since college is coming i wanna try and be single but if we hang out or something i just want to like jump on him and cuddle. do guys like the whole friends w benefits thing? and like, how should i bring it up? thanks you guyss

I think what your doing is a great idea!!! Dont be tied up right before college! This is your time to play girl :) There is absolutly nothing wrong with friends with benefits, as long as he is ok with it go for it! Have fun.

Hope i helped =] and good luck!

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I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend's also 17.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months (4 when we first had sex). We were going to wait to have sex until we were 18 (for practicality but also for privacy reasons), but that didn't work out so well, lol. We had sex once (we were each other's firsts) and were completely safe about it. We both agreed it was amazing and a week later when we were alone again, we had sex for the second time and it was even better. I didn't see him the next week because he went on a family trip so, you know, I missed him a lot! When he got home this past weekend, we started getting really intimate. Right when we were about to have sex, he announced that he didn't want to have sex anymore and that he wanted to wait until we graduated. I thought this was really weird, but he wouldn't say anything more about it. The week has gone on and he's been the same old guy. He's sweet, and thoughtful, and amazing... and guys, I really love him. He just won't talk to me about it. To tell you the truth, I really like sex. I don't want to wait a year. However, he mans a lot to me and I don't want to ruin this. Any advice on why he's doing this or how to get him to talk? Thanks so much!

Honestly this is usually the opposite, the girl is usually doing this and the guy is asking this question. But he might feel guilty about it (most people do) and you said it happened after he went on his vacation with his family, maybe being around his family made him realise that he really did want to wait and he remembered what his values were. We all know that when your getting into the moment that pretty much nothing is going to stop you. Talk to him and ask him to tell you what he is thinking. And you might not want to wait a year but if you care about him it shouldnt be that hard! and who knows it might happen before then!

Hope i helped =]

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I was watching a movie & one of the characters said
this...life is a uncureable disease what exactly does that mean? Just curious

Also sorry if the question isn't in the right category (:

Hmmm. Well it seems like to me its saying life is hell and theres nothing to save us from it.

Hope i helped =]

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So I want to text this guy, but I don't know how to start a conversation. We usually talk on Saterdays after I have tournaments, but now the seasons over and we have nothing to talk about!
How can I start a conversation without coming of as creepy.
Also, what could we talk about.
I kind of like him and I know he is interested in me but doesn't really like me. Hopefully, YET!! So anyway, what to sayyy!!

thanks@

Just text him. I know when your in the situation it seems akward but he wont think anything of it! So just text him and be like hey! what's up? or just how you would normally text him. Then just carry on the conversation. If you guys both want to talk really bad you'll think of something to talk about

Hope i helped =]

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