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Hii.. im 13 years old, and im kinda changin my style. i wanna get a punkiish style, i've been taken guitar lessons for over 2 years... and now im in a band, and havn't really picked up the style yet, still stuck in that gurly faze... so i need some really good advice on like where to shop, and what kinda stuff i would buy... s0o can you please help me!!!! ~*~ i rate ~*~ thankx, lots of love

You can't just pick a style and actually be it. It's just sad, and what some people call "poseur" or "wannabe" and "a fake." Either way...just be yourself. Is there something wrong with that?

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I am going into 7th grade and i am not allowed to have a boyfriend.I really like this guy and I know that he likes me.he asked me out and i told him i would think about it...what should I do.I really like him and i am afraid that if i say no that he will forget about me and...well just move on.I think that she is about to let me have a bf anyway.
Please give me advice.
~Thanx~

Introduce him to your parents. If that doesn't work, they probably just want to protect you. You two could still be friends, and later on, who knows, maybe then your parents will let you date him. Until then, just be friends with his guy.

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okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?

"Fuck buddies" isn't a good idea. In fact, it's gross. If they aren't ready to be parents, they shouldn't have sex, and from what I read, they aren't.

They could get a disease...

Anyway, it's wrong and he is just using her because "she easy." Talk to her about it.

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uhh its 2:21 in the morning and im not tired and bored, someone feel like entertaining???

That happens to me too. Try yoga. :P Amuse yourself.

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15-f...I'm not happy at all, and I don't know how to change that. Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but I'm okay with it now its just that I don't really have anyone now. I have a few friends, I'm just a shy person. It just seems like once I think I'm happy something comes and ruins it. My mom and I get along, but she just makes me so mad. I know all parents are like that. But then it all builds up and I don't know how to handle it all. One time I cute myself and I know it was stupid, but now everytime I get upset thats what I think about...I don't know how to handle my emotions...I just want to be happy....

Give your self some time to think, a moment for yourself, it always makes me feel better inside.

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July 20, 2004

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hey i havent had my period in may,june,and july. i THINK i had it in april im actually not sure.. im 14 years old and got my period in february of 2002. i know im not pregnant im not sexually active..

You height or weight has nothing to do with it. That stuff happens when you start, so don't worry. At three months pregnant, there should be a bit of a stomach.

Here is an archive of a woman named Tiffany when she was pregnant - all fine for veiwing.

http://www.duncan-family.com/pregnantwithBaby2.htm

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Hi. I wanted to know. If my boobs are too small and I wanted to get boob pills! How could I get them if im not 18 and I dont have a credit card?
Sigened.
Flat Chested!

Wait until your 18 or so. Your boobs are probably still slowly growing. Besides, You do really want to carry that? x.x Backaches...argh. They'll grow even more when you get pregnant, so yeah...wait.

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Hey umm im 15 and im preg. i need to know will i get my period?

The overy holds the eggs, if a sprem fertilizes it, then your pregnant and your overy STOPS sending eggs to the vagina since your ALREADY pregnant, and that means you can't get your period because the egg needs to develope into a baby.

You won't get your period, but when you have your baby, that month your period will come back, that WHOLE month, not just one-two weeks. x_x

Good luck with your health, baby, and that month.

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I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her?

*I'm 13, too! Jump with joy...

Anyway, she's too young. She can't be 'in love' when she is 13. People say you can, but since a lot of guys these days want just a piece of you, it's hard to believe that.

She can do whatever she wants, since it's her life, but I don't think she's in love, and I don't think she should.

Is she even thinking about what could happen is she does? Your a good friend, since you care this much to ask, so maybe just go and talk to her about it. If she does want to have sex, she should talk to her boyfriend that he could be a father! :-o... and it's too young to be a father.

"...kissing leads to touching and touching might lead to grandchildren..." Haha...that was funny.

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?

3 years doesn't mean anything! :P Joking...if you think you two will still stay together for a few more months/years, because your still in highschool and he isn't. To me, age doesn't really matter, but when people go to different schools or whatever, it's weird. :-/

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Ok, I have a few random questions.

1. It's my time of month...so my skin is breaking out. And now I'm getting a pimple inside my nose. And it's not just on the edge...it's on up there. Is there anything I can put on it?
2. When I shave (mostly my legs) the very day...they are already fuzzy. I have dark, thick hair... and it seems it grows back within 1 night. I have tried putting lotion...but sometimes I think that makes it grows back worse. Any ideas?
3. I've decided not to shave "down there" but just trim it...how short should i keep it?

Thanks.

I'm not sure about number one, but try see a doctor.

2. I think it's worse when you shave, because then you do it every day :-/. Well, First I tried to tweeze them, but it took up too much of my time, so I used some spray remover, it worked, but after I used it four times or so, it ran out, so now I use Nair Hair Remover Lotion. I hear id you bleach them over and over again, they will fall off at some point, but I'm not sure.

3. I'm not sure, however you feel comfortable (but it's itchy at first).

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Hey!, could anyone tell me who to make a layout or background for my Greatest Journal?...Thanks! xoxo // Lyss

GreatestJournal is just like LiveJournal, for those of you who don't know.

Um...I would ask people who can makelayouts, or get a premade layout. :)

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In the election coming up, I'm just curious to see who people want to win, and why. I know it's not something I need advice on, but I have to do a current event for World History. Personally, I'm going for Bush and I have several good reasons why.. I was just wondering about everyone else?

I have SO much to say about what the other people said... "Nush because I don't like changes?" WTF? How do you get through life? And after this, he only gets 4 more years and that's IT. (w00t). I'd pick anyone BUT Bush... like GC said.

http://www.bushin30seconds.org/

Also, he is killing wildlife in America. =( Think of the deer! Or the lands of the owners!

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My toes are hairy.. what should i do about that? (im a chick)

I never shave, instead, use Nair (hair remover) Lotion. When you shave, most women grow even more hair that looks more darker and stuff, so they have to shave everyday (like girls at my school).

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Alrite I have blonde hair and it is so boring. I want to dye it....I have tan skin and light brown eyes...do you think that i should get it dyed browner or wut? I need help

Black with purple highlights!!!! Or just some brown highlights or something to make it dirty blonde.

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mmk. i really like this guy i met on a cruise, and he lives about two hours away. he's 3 years older than me, and is in college. i realllllly want to date this boy, but i'm not sure if the distance will work out. BLAH. he's coming to visit me really soon, but i know i'll be attached when he leaves again. should i just call the whole thing off, and prevent any future heartbreak now, or should i atleast give this a chance.

If you both find a way, and really love eachother, then distance isn't a problem! :) But if your not sure, have doubts, then don't go out with him.

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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him

Tell him to ignore your friends and that your not them, that you do relly like him. Everyone has different taste...

Whenever your friends get a boyfriend, and you think he is ugly, tell her her boyfriend is ugly. :P

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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(

~Help me~

I'm going on 14, and I have never kissed a guy, and I feel fine. Don't let it get to you, the right person will come someday. :) Until then, just relax. Have fun. Guys are just a waste of our energy!

"They take our wind away!" haha...

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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do??????

He doesn't sound like your boyfriend, so just stop seeing him, and get a man.

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Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him??

Just because it's summer doesn't mean you have to forget your feelings for him. Your being selfish. But since you don't like him that much anymore, just break it up with him.

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